Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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All the people you care about and the relationships you value are realistic in front of people's hearts and human nature.
Don't say that between the people around you and you, there is a transcendent and human closeness. In the face of real gains and losses, there is nowhere to hide the true feelings.
The so-called "do not know who is far away and who is near, do not be in the lowest place, can not see clearly who is true and who is false"...
Man, it is easy to have too many troubles when "enjoying happiness".
Now, people live and work in peace, warm and worry-free, what a good day? Compared with the past when I didn't have enough to eat and wear warm clothes, how comfortable is it now?
However, the more we are now, the more we will find that all kinds of relationships between people are no longer pure.
Compared with the past, spitting is a nail, empty promise is a lifetime of thunder and true heart, and most of the people at present are hung up with material and interests.
You have value, you will become a "valued" person. You can bring benefits to others, you are irreplaceable in people's lives.
Think about the touching tears of the past, rather than eat and sleep in the wind, but also to give strangers a bowl of rice, the current human heart and humanity, people shiver.
You think that you can exchange sincerity for sincerity, and you think that all your efforts can get a similar sincere response. Come on, reality will tell you: such an ideal situation, mostly when dreaming.
In all kinds of relationships, we are often convinced that no matter how anyone will leave themselves and look at themselves badly, their relatives will definitely help each other and hope for each other's better.
However, it is not surprising that the current reality is that "the more relatives the more likely it is to turn against the eyes".
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People do not see clearly until they reach their old age that family affection is human nature! The exchange between family affection is more realistic!
Don't blame anyone who doesn't have "human taste", don't blame who is not grateful, the transformation between all love and resentment is just human nature!
Under human nature, all the truth is filled with disappointment and despair, which makes people suffocate all the time.
It is said that relatives are a blessing cultivated for several lifetimes. However, in the crowd that says they cherish it, who has really achieved affinity and proximity?
For some people, affection is only truly felt in childhood and short periods of youth.
With the growth of age, the reality between relatives is in the process of people's growth and maturity towards old age, so that people can see the side that they least want to admit and face.
People, when they are valuable, will be cherished by those who need it. People, when there is no value, people who want to cherish, will not cherish themselves from the heart.
In old age, the value will weaken little by little with age, and all the beauty of the ideal will become a kind of contempt with the years.
Affection, the final ending is a word: none!
Between relatives, there are only people with blood names, and the relationship is derived from blood relations. Love, out of business, destroyed by human nature.
When the value of mutual existence between relatives gradually disappears, the exchanges between each other will stop at a certain point in time.
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In real life, why do we see more elderly people who no longer waddle each other?
There are a lot of people who don't like to move because they are old, or really because of inaccessibility, but because there is no more "motivation" to meet each other!
After all, one day you will understand that the family affection in your later years is more "realistic" than before.
The current affection, even if you are Liu Grandma can survive because of the moment, full of motivation to enter the "Jia Fu" and know how to be grateful in the future, there may not be anyone who really treats you like "Jia Fu"!
The more present, the weaker the affection!
Between relatives, it is okay to talk about love, but when it involves support and help, it is easy to tie up people who do not understand gratitude and fear of consumption.
What is reality?
The reality is that even the relationship between relatives is more sensitive and fragile, and keeping distance is the best thing to value each other!
The breakdown of any kind of relationship, the failure of one's own true feelings to any one person, is called sadness!
However, between relatives, it is called "cold heart"!
Sadness, chills, a word difference, a million times the difference in pain!
Between parents and children, children and parents, and brothers and sisters, they are inseparable from the influence of "reality" and "human nature".
People at present are living more and more "floating"!
Who deliberately egoistically forgot the root? Or who is ruthlessly uprooted? Only the parties, the most clear.
Raising children and preventing old age is the rule of circulation in the great mission of reproducing offspring. However, if parents do not do a good job as their children's first teachers, their children will treat their parents as a drag.
Even the improper parenting of parents will sow the seeds of "hatred" in the hearts of their children.
Looking at the current social reality, raising children to prevent aging or nibbling on the old and hating the old? Feeding, supporting, or being nibbled and consumed by unqualified parents?
Between brothers and sisters, love for each other is the right thing to do. However, if jealousy, comparison, and hatred arise between each other because of human nature, they are even more red-eyed than each other!
However, reality is reality, we can't blindly see reality, the heart is completely covered by these negative things, can not see the existence of good phenomena.
After all, there are still a considerable number of relatives who are living in harmony with each other.
If, whether rich or poor, relatives can exchange positions with each other and truly benefit each other, then even if the real value exchanges must be equivalent and comfortable to take and pay.
In this way, human nature has no place! It's ugly and people can't see it anymore!
However, we can never ignore the "trick-or-treating" of the human heart and human nature at any time and the seduction of people.
Although we can see through the fact that we cannot escape the "interest" exchange between family relations, we must learn to self-resolve.
Between relatives, the more they complain and hate, the more painful people are themselves!
People who really care about you will find ways to resolve the "unpleasantness" between you. People who don't care about you, you really closed your eyes early because of the relationship, and you won't have half a perception.
So, let go of the knot, let go of the hatred, let go of yourself!
When people reach their old age, they see more when they want to see each other, after all, time is short! Past things, if you can put down, let go.
If you can, keep a reasonable distance between relatives in order to truly have a long-term relationship.
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