Forty years of age is a watershed for many women, and it seems that as soon as people pass the age of forty, they will age instantly.
In the past, eating hot pot and drinking ice Coke was just a few pimples on the fire, or a cold diarrhea, and it would be full of life if it slowed down.
But after forty years of age, the thermos cup can not be separated from the hand, dare not eat raw cold and spicy things, not afraid of acne, but the fragile stomach can not stand.
Before staying up late to chase the drama did not feel anything, at most there were some dark circles, and there was no delay in doing their own things the next day.
But after forty years of age, I did not dare to be so "arrogant", turned off the lights early every day to go to bed, and entered a deep sleep at half past ten, because once I stayed up late, no matter how much sleep I made up the next day, I felt that I was mentally insufficient.
Yes, we are old, and we have easily distanced ourselves from thirty or twenty young people, but we are not willing to be separated from fifty years olds.
Forty years old is awkward, not young enough, but not too old.
It is also at such an age that many women are in a confused state, do not know what to do, so they sink in this confusion.
Some women, on the other hand, have lived out their own "taste" in this year of confusion.
Psychological research has shown that women who reach middle age and have a "taste" have three commonalities.
They never hurt the spring and autumn, but are optimistic and positive, and have a sunny attitude
There are twin sisters, the two of them look very similar, especially when they are young, if it is not reminded by their parents, no one can tell who is the sister and who is the sister.
But, over time, people were able to tell the difference because of their looks.
The younger sister has a cheerful personality, no matter what she encounters, she first thinks about how to solve it, even if it fails;
The sister is the opposite personality, as soon as she encounters something unsatisfactory, she sighs and sighs, and she loses her self-confidence.
One is always smiling, the other is always sad.
As a result, the sister's face always looks full of youthful vitality, while the sister's face has deep Sichuan character lines, wrinkles, and deep anxiety between the eyebrows.
The two were obviously the same age, but the sister looked much older than the younger sister.
The reason for this difference is that the mentality of the two of them is different, people will secrete cortisol when they produce negative emotions, and cortisol will damage human organs, thereby accelerating aging.
"Anger makes people ugly", this sentence is not unreasonable.
Optimistic people, their hearts are always cheerful, no matter what they do, they are also transparent.
And when reflected on the face, it is natural that the spring flowers are bright, how can there be no "taste"?
They never sit still, but dare to jump out and break through themselves
The heroine in the TV series "Happiness Duo" is a housewife, before marriage, her husband said that he was responsible for making money to support the family, and the heroine was responsible for being beautiful as a flower.
But after getting married, the husband felt that the heroine did not have to go out to work, spend her own money, and enjoy the good life that everyone envied under the sky.
Therefore, he ignored his wife's contribution to the family, never gave her the respect she should have, but treated her as a nanny.
Such a marriage, no respect, no care, no care, the heroine does not know what she has to insist on.
Fortunately, she did not sit still, she used to be a professional dancer, so she went to apply for a dance school teacher, although it was a little hard, the money was not earned much, but fortunately, this money was exchanged through her own labor, and it was spent steadily.
She did not admit her fate, let alone seek perfection, so the heroine who dared to challenge herself and break through herself bloomed a different style at the age of forty.
Nietzsche once said, "A man who knows what he is living for can endure any kind of life." ”
When a middle-aged woman dares to come out of the mud, it means that the rest of her life will shine.
They never sit idle, but like to try and improve themselves
Some people use their age as an excuse not to try new things, not to add bricks to their spiritual world.
Therefore, they are like frogs in warm water, accustomed to ease, and feel that hard work is a hard thing.
But when they are really faced with change, they can only sit still because they don't know anything.
Such a scene sounds sad.
What about women who still have a "taste" in middle age?
They never stop moving forward, they dare and like to try new things, they don't let their lives be in a muddy state.
Therefore, their spirit has also gained eternal youth under this continuous effort.
As Lin Qingxuan said: "Third-rate makeup is the makeup on the face; second-rate makeup is the makeup of the spirit; first-class makeup is the makeup of life." ”