Nietzsche's family education was special.
Nietzsche had a younger brother and a father who was a priest.
These were the only two men in his family besides Nietzsche himself.
However, his father died in 1849, the following year, when his brother died prematurely.
Nietzsche was 5 years old and 6 years old, respectively.
For a child, there are no male characters in the family since then, only relatives of the opposite sex.
Such an environment, for a boy, is either the responsibility to cultivate his masculinity or to grow his feminine temperament.
Unfortunately, both of these things happened to Nietzsche at the same time.
This is the only Nietzsche, the complex Nietzsche.
Rebellion, responsibility, femininity, clumsiness, these synonyms, antonyms, occur and possess in Nietzsche at the same time.
Most people don't want to be Nietzsche, and worldly failures may have contributed to Nietzsche's success. But for most people, it is not success and extremes, but ordinary and healthy, which is the greatest gain and happiness.
From this point of view, having a peaceful and neutral growth environment is not so successful, but being happy enough is the luck of most people.
And the environment that forged Nietzsche was not a greenhouse for cultivating his happiness, but a place where his confusion grew.
Philosophers need pain, ordinary people have joy, it is already happiness.
