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At that special moment in 2017, Xu Yajun, a powerful actor who was 53 years old at the time, was deeply loved by the audience for his role as Qi Tongwei, the director of the Public Security Department in the hit drama "In the Name of the People", which once again aroused heated discussions among the media and the public.
Countless audiences were deeply impressed by his superb acting skills! However, we have to admit that the wonderful performance of this hot and powerful actor comes from the long-standing dream-chasing journey in the heart of an ordinary person.
In 1964, with great love for the performance industry, a young man named Xu Yajun came to an ordinary family in Handan City, Hebei Province. His handsome and chic appearance has attracted the attention of many people of the opposite sex since he was a child.
When he was 11 years old, a film crew called "Youth Like Fire" extended an olive branch to him, expecting him to join their team to face the first major decision in his life, Xu Yajun did not hesitate to seek the understanding and support of his parents.
Eventually, with the full support of his parents, this seemingly unattainable dream gradually became within reach. Two years later, in 1977, after unremitting efforts, Xu Yajun was finally admitted to the children's class of the Central Academy of Drama, the school of his dreams.
There, he not only made friends with his classmate Cai Guoqing and established a deep friendship with him, but more importantly, he systematically learned professional knowledge and laid a solid foundation for his future acting career.
After graduation, Xu Yajun was assigned to work at the China Children's Art Theater. Although the working environment is superior, he has always maintained a modest and studious attitude, often humbly asking for advice from his predecessors, and constantly improving his acting skills.
Soon after, his outstanding appearance and studious spirit made him stand out in the theater, and at the age of 22, he was awarded the honorary title of "Best Actor" for his outstanding performance, and love letters and fanatical fans rained down, which is undoubtedly the most beautiful testimony of the realization of his dream!
From an ordinary teenager who aspires to become an actor, to a later leader in the film and television industry, Xu Yajun has perfectly interpreted the true meaning of "extraordinary dreams, the road is under your feet" with his life history.
As long as you have dreams and unswervingly pursue them, even ordinary life will eventually bloom with dazzling light.
Although he has achieved great success in his career, Xu Yajun's emotional road has not been smooth sailing. His handsome and dashing appearance often made him the focus of many women's pursuits, and he went through four marriages.
Xu Yajun's first wife, Ms. Huang Jianping, was his colleague at the Central Children's Art Theater. It was in those dramatic years that they got to know each other through work.
At that time, Xu Yajun was only 22 years old, which was the age of youth and luxury, and his superior appearance and optimistic and resolute personality made him the prince charming in the hearts of many women, and Ms. Huang Jianping was one of them, and her long-term secret love was finally released that year.
However, the trick of fate caught people off guard, and the sudden death of Ms. Huang Jianping brought a heavy blow to Xu Yajun and caused him to fall into a long-term emotional trough. At this difficult moment, Zhang Xi, another woman who has also had a crush on him for many years, bravely walked into his life.
It turned out that as early as the troupe period, Zhang Xi had already fallen in love with Xu Yajun, but in the face of the passionate pursuit of her rival Huang Jianping, she could only choose to retreat and bury the emotions hidden deep in her heart.
When she saw that Xu Yajun, who was once high-spirited, was now lonely and helpless, hiding alone in the corner and feeling sad, Zhang Xi could no longer sit idly by, she silently stayed by his side and gave him warm care.
At first, Xu Yajun was puzzled by this, but soon he accepted and got used to this companionship As time went by, under Zhang Xi's careful care, he gradually came out of the haze, and the two naturally developed a deep relationship, and soon entered the palace of marriage.
However, happiness is always short-lived, and after marriage, the two have to be separated for a long time because of work, and there are fewer and fewer opportunities for emotional communication, and finally they choose to end this marriage in order to start over.
In the days after the divorce, Xu Yajun and Zhang Xi both fell into a period of confusion and loss.
However, fate does not seem to want to let Xu Yajun go easily, and there is a turning point in his life again. During the filming of the TV series "Wind and Lotus Resentment", he met the goddess who was once the goddess in the hearts of countless teenagers - He Qing.
, a powerful actress with outstanding performances in many classic film and television dramas such as "Journey to the West" and "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", has become the new goal of Xu Yajun's love journey.
At first, He Qing did not have too much affection for this man who was "wandering" in the past. However, as the plot progresses, the emotional bond between the two grows closer, and their story unfolds .......
He Qing was deeply emotionally shocked by Xu Yajun, and under the affection, they naturally entered the marriage hall. The marriage journey was extremely smooth and satisfying.
In 2001, they gave birth to a love crystallization - a vibrant boy, named after the meaningful name "Xu He". However, unexpectedly, this lovely child turned out to be the fuse for the breakdown of their marriage.
Due to differences in concepts, they finally chose to divorce and each took on the responsibility of raising their son.
The breakdown of the marriage did not extinguish Xu Yajun's ardent pursuit of love. Only a year later, during the filming of the TV series "Days Walked Together", he met and fell in love with Zhang Shu, an actor from the same crew.
Zhang Shu was full of admiration for this respected senior, and the two hit it off, found that they had many common interests and hobbies, and quickly sublimated from acquaintance to acquaintance and love.
However, Zhang's family initially had doubts about the relationship, as Xu Yajun was already a man who had experienced multiple failed marriages. But at the children's sincere request, they finally accepted the marriage.
In 2008, Xu Yajun took the shadow of three divorces and walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand with Zhang Shu again. This time, their love is as gorgeous and beautiful as a rainbow after the rain, and finally ushered in the birth of their second baby son, Xu Ziming.
At first, Zhang Shu was just a rookie in the entertainment industry, and he was in awe of the senior Xu Yajun. In the opposite scenes of the play, she often asked him for acting experience and skills.
Over time, the two of them no longer limited to the world of work, but also gradually resonated in their daily lives, discovering that they shared many common interests.
For example, they both love the sport of golf. The moment I swung on the court, I felt like I had never been calmer and more liberated. Although Zhang Shu is new to golf, her skills have quickly improved significantly under the patient guidance of Xu Yajun.
They worked together flawlessly and spent countless hours together on the grassy course.
Sharing the bits and pieces of life together, getting to know each other's personalities and habits, and in this way, an indescribable emotion quietly sprouted in their hearts. Xu Yajun deeply admired this woman who was gentle on the outside but strong on the inside, and she gave him a sense of security and happiness that he had never experienced.
The straightforward and sincere character of Xu Yajun deeply touched Zhang Shu, allowing her to get a glimpse of the pure and kind side of this man who has experienced all kinds of things in the world. Zhang Shu, who is only 12 years old behind Xu Yajun in age, is still full of affection for love.
However, Xu Yajun has already experienced the pain of three marriages breaking down, he carefully hides the deep affection in his heart, and tries to restrain himself from approaching her, however, Zhang Shu takes the initiative to approach Xu Yajun with his unique charm, and uses her enthusiasm to accept and heal the deep wounds in his heart.
In the face of Zhang Shu's passionate pursuit, Xu Yajun experienced the feeling of being needed and cherished for the first time, and he began to open his heart and show his whole self without reservation. In this way, the relationship between the two gradually warmed up and sublimated into a blazing fire of love.
From the first acquaintance to the in-depth understanding, and then to love each other, this journey is full of twists and turns, not to mention, Xu Yajun is also burdened with the shadow of three failed marriages, Zhang Shu's family also had many doubts at first, but under the constant request of the children, they finally chose to accept this marriage.
In 2008, 56-year-old Xu Yajun and Zhang Shu, who was 12 years younger than him, entered the palace of marriage. For Xu Yajun, who has experienced countless hardships, this new love is like giving him a new life.
Two years later, they were ecstatic to welcome the crystallization of love - their son Xu Ziming, and this "small waist" became the highest glory in their lives.
In Xu Yajun's weathered emotional world, there are always some unwavering women who have deep love and expectations for him, and they quietly wait for love in their own unique ways.
Just like Zhang Xi, who had a crush on Xu Yajun at the beginning, this girl who met by chance in the troupe, has always hidden her heart deep in her heart, patiently waiting for the right time When faced with the initiative of her rival Huang Jianping, she could only choose to let go and suppress the love buried deep in her heart even deeper.
Until the period after Huang Jianping's death, Zhang Xi saw that Xu Yajun, who had infinite scenery, fell into endless sadness, and she could no longer sit idly by, so she resolutely stepped forward and used her enthusiasm to save him from the abyss of despair.
In this way, Zhang Xi finally waited for the opportunity to spend the rest of his life with his sweetheart.
For He Qing, who was once the dream lover in the hearts of many teenagers, she didn't have much affection for the so-called "bohemian" man at first. However, with their in-depth contact with the crew and daily life, she was gradually impressed by Xu Yajun's deep attraction, moved by his persistent and eternal true feelings, and finally resolutely responded to his fiery love.
From Zhang Xi to He Qing, one elegant woman after another, in their own unique ways, patiently adhered to the precious love that belonged to them. Their desire for sincere emotion is not only a simple expectation, but also a firm belief that is reflected in the vast river of time like a jewel, which has a long and indelible history.
Even Xu Yajun's last partner, Zhang Shu, had waited silently for a while. When she first entered the entertainment industry, she was just a rookie actor, and she was full of admiration for her senior Xu Yajun.
After getting along with the crew and daily life for a long time, she was gradually attracted by Xu Yajun's unique personality charm and kind nature, and a deep love sprouted in her heart.
In the face of Zhang Shu's enthusiastic pursuit, Xu Yajun was a little hesitant at first, after all, his past was full of twists and turns. However, Zhang Shu didn't care about this, she used her enthusiasm and perseverance to finally succeed in impressing this man who had gone through vicissitudes, and they supported each other to move towards a new chapter in their lives together.
The arrival of sons is undoubtedly the most abundant gift to parents, and their birth makes the otherwise ordinary life glow with endless brilliance, and at the same time gives new responsibilities and challenges to life.
For Xu Yajun, the birth of his two sons is undoubtedly the greatest happiness in his life.
In 2001, Xu Yajun and his third wife He Qing ushered in the crystallization of their love - a lively and lovely boy. In honor of the names of both families, they named this newborn little life "Xu He".
Who would have thought that this lovely child would become the fuse that ignited the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.
The crux of the problem is that He Qing hopes to return to the workplace and devote herself to the career she loves, while Xu Yajun sticks to the traditional concept and insists that his wife stay at home full-time to teach her husband and children.
For this reason, countless fierce arguments broke out between them, and in the end, the huge difference in concepts made He Qing make the decision to divorce.
After the divorce, Xu He was temporarily taken care of and raised by his mother He Qing. Time flies, and now Xu He has grown into an outstanding student of the Central Academy of Drama, and he is systematically learning professional performance knowledge, following his father's footsteps, and bravely moving towards his dream.
In the hearts of many teachers and elders, he is like a handsome son, with an elegant temperament, excellent academics, and always showing a humble and courteous attitude, all of which come from the words and deeds of his father, Xu Yajun.
As a public figure, Xu Yajun's second son Xu Ziming is the best testimony of his love for family and life. In 2010, the birth of this "little waist" brought endless joy and happiness to him and his wife Zhang Shu.
Since childhood, Xu Ziming has been very active and cheerful, well-behaved and cute, and his appearance has undoubtedly brought the middle-aged couple closer and given them a new impetus and meaning in life.
The family of four often gathers on the golf course to play on the verdant grass, and Xu Yajun patiently teaches his two sons how to master the skills of swinging.
In addition to his love of sports, Xu Ziming has also made remarkable achievements in his studies, and is currently studying seriously in the junior high school of his alma mater. Whenever they see their sons' report cards, Xu Yajun and Zhang Shu's faces always show extremely proud looks.
As parents, their greatest wish is that their sons will be able to move forward on the road of life, and grow up to be a new force that can contribute to society.
Even today, when his career is thriving, Xu Yajun still sticks to his responsibilities as a father, and he devotes more time to spending quality time with his family.
With his wife Zhang Shu and two sons by his side, life has become so meaningful and flawless.