Once with a baby under the age of one, the first time back to the hometown, at night when sleeping, in the baby, something happened to me very confused, and a little creepy.
After returning to his hometown, at first the baby was all right, but when it came time to sleep at night, the baby suddenly cried loudly, and how to comfort it could not be done.
Because the baby's crying was too loud, the elderly in the family were also woken up. The old man asked the reason for the matter, I was also confused, before the baby cried, there was no big noise to scare the baby, I don't know how the baby suddenly cried loudly!
At this time, the mother-in-law said, "Did you encounter something unclean, or would you like to ask someone to take a look at it tomorrow?" ”
Originally, I didn't believe these superstitious statements, but I didn't know how the baby slept well, and suddenly he cried and cried, and how to appease him could not do it, which made me hesitate.
Since the baby has not been able to soothe well, I can only wrap the baby in a bag, and then walk around with the baby in my arms and coax the baby to sleep. After such a period of time, I don't know if the baby is crying and getting tired, but slowly and finally quieted down and fell asleep.
In order not to wake the baby, I still wrapped the baby in a bag, and I slept in bed with the baby in my arms. Wait for the baby to sleep deeply, then put the baby on the bed to sleep, because it is too tired, I did not remove the quilt for the baby, cover the baby with a quilt, but continue to let the baby sleep like this. After that, the baby did not wake up or cry again, and slept peacefully all night.
On the second day, when the mother-in-law asked again if she wanted to find someone to show the baby. I began to hesitate, because I was very reluctant to believe these superstitious claims.
Thinking about it carefully, I feel that the baby may have suddenly come to an unfamiliar environment, unfamiliar with the environment, and lack of security, which caused the baby to suddenly wake up. After all, this is the first time the baby has returned to his hometown. In the middle of the night, I wrapped the baby in a familiar bag and slept, and the baby slept much more peacefully.
So I decided to experiment with my idea, and at night, when the baby is sleeping, he still gives the baby a familiar bag to sleep with the baby wrapped in a familiar bag. In this way, the baby slept peacefully on the second night, and there was no crying again. This has been the case for several days, there is nothing unusual, I am also relieved, therefore, I also confirmed that the baby's previous crying should be caused by the uneasiness and fear of the unfamiliar environment.
Some people may ask me why I am so confirmed, have not tried again, after removing the bag will the baby cry again, I believe that the mother who has had parenting experience, will not go to the test, after all, probably know the reason, try to ask which mother will once again let the baby experience uneasiness and fear?
When the baby is still young, whether the baby is hungry, sleepy, pulling, or has other problems, the baby's only way to express it is to cry.
If your baby is hungry, sleepy, or pulled, we can easily find the cause. But if some other situation causes the baby to cry, the baby mothers may not be so easy to distinguish. Looking at the crying baby, the mothers are very anxious.
If the baby is crying, not because of thirst, hunger, urine, pulling, sleepiness, and physical discomfort, then we can find the cause from the following aspects.
Baby is insecure
For small babies, not only do they recognize birth, but they also lack a sense of security. Thus creating an emotion of fear and fear. The situation of my little baby in the previous article is due to the lack of security, which causes the baby to suddenly cry.
When the baby enters an unfamiliar environment, it is easy to cry because of lack of security, and only the familiar tastes, people and things of the baby can calm the baby down at this time. At this time, we can find something familiar to the baby to increase the baby's sense of security, preferably the arms of the mother. The baby smells the familiar smell of the mother's body, and it is easier to be soothed and calm down.
So when my baby was crying, I wrapped him in his familiar bag and slowly soothed the baby. Subsequently, the baby stopped crying, and the unfamiliar environment slowly became accustomed.
The baby has accumulated food and intestinal colic
Babies within one year of age have weak gastrointestinal digestion ability, especially when the baby has just begun to add complementary foods, it is easy to be overfeed, thereby exacerbating the burden of the baby's gastrointestinal digestion, resulting in the baby's accumulation of food, this time is also easy to cause neonatal colic problems.
As a result, the baby often cries in the middle of the night, how to coax, even the most effective milk sleep will not help. If the condition is severe, it is best to take your baby to the doctor immediately.
On weekdays, it is best to eat less and more meals when feeding the baby, pay attention to the feeding, and burp the baby to exhaust. Do more exhaust exercises for the baby, strengthen the baby's physical exercise and exercise, help the baby digest the exhaust, and alleviate the discomfort problem.
When the baby has intestinal colic problems, you can use airplane hugging, hot compresses, according to the stomach and other ways to alleviate the baby's intestinal colic problem.
The baby begins to recognize the milk
At some point, your baby may recognize the milk. During this period, your baby may only like to eat breast milk, or only like to drink formula. Especially when the mother wants to wean the baby, the baby may not want to eat anything but breast milk, otherwise he will cry.
At this time, it is best for mothers not to rush, but to wean the baby step by step. In order not to make the baby hungry, first follow the baby.
If possible, the baby can be weaned later. For example, after the baby is one year old, the food that the baby can eat at this time has become very rich. At this time, if the baby is weaned, the baby will be more receptive.
Baby's deciduous teeth erupt
When your baby starts teething, your baby's gums will feel very uncomfortable. But the baby can't alleviate such an uncomfortable situation, and doesn't know how to express it, so it can only be expressed in a crying way.
At this time, mothers can give the baby a gum massage, or give the baby teeth and grinding sticks, which can well alleviate the discomfort of the baby's teething.
We all know that infants and young babies are very fond of crying, but the crying of infants and young babies is not unreasonable, but has various reasons. Parents can only better comfort their babies if they understand the reasons behind their children's crying.
Every baby is an angel baby, although sometimes the baby's crying will make the baby mother feel irritable, but the baby is also unavoidable, the baby mother must have patience, slowly look for the cause, the right medicine, in order to better comfort the baby, let the baby quiet down.