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Recently, the 35-year-old cousin who shouts every day that she will not have a second child is "pregnant".
Every time she went to "her" house as a guest and talked about children, she always looked like she would "swear to die and not have a second child", saying how poor her health was now; how tired she was to raise a baby; how stressful she was.
In the end, I still can't bear the reason that my parents gave birth to "breaking the incense" and compromised with life, or became an elderly pregnant woman!
The cousin was too fat before pregnancy, and long-term weight loss collapsed the "bottom" of the body.
Later, when she became pregnant and gave birth, she chose caesarean section due to hip circumference and other reasons, which made it worse for her cousin, who was already in poor health.
After giving birth to a baby, he stayed up late for a long time with a baby, serious hair loss, back pain, and his body was even worse.
Cousin (picture has nothing to do with the text)
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Why is it said that cousins and parents are born with "broken incense".
Because the cousin is the only daughter in the family, one child follows the cousin's brother-in-law's surname, if you do not have a second child, the cousin's family will have no successor, hindered by the strong demands of the parents, or choose to get pregnant.
Once, my cousin's mother heard that her daughter had vowed not to have a second child, so she jokingly told me, let me have a child for her family!
I smiled bitterly in my heart: "Your daughter doesn't want to give birth, and you can't move this kind of crooked thoughts. You are sad for your daughter's body, don't other people's parents feel sorry for their own daughter's body? ”
In this era, few parents will give away their precious children who are "pregnant in October", preferring to suffer themselves rather than give their children away.
What's more, this is still a relative who is separated by one layer!
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Perhaps, the cousin is not only for the sake of "passing on the generations", but also for the sake of fighting for a son.
After all, the cousin gave birth to a daughter in the first child, and now that she is pregnant with a second child, it is inevitable that everyone will not think that she is to give birth to a "son".
It can be seen that the idea of "son preference" goes deep into the bone marrow, "the son is like a nuclear weapon, it can not be used, but it must be."
Now, my cousin has been pregnant for more than two months, and it is the time of bad luck, that haggard and emaciated appearance, it hurts to look at.
Now, I only hope that my cousin will soon pass the "morning sickness period" and give birth safely, and it is best to give birth to a "son", so that there is no need to be urged to "three children".
But the world is unpredictable, even if the second child has a son, but with the cousin's surname, the cousin-in-law does not necessarily "want" to have a "son" with his own surname.
It is too difficult to marry a woman in this besieged city!
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