Fate, ups and downs.
In the world of emotions, what kind of people are the real winners?
You know, every relationship is the result of two people's business. If a person pays true love, and the other party has a shallow taste, after the breakup, the person who is hurt the most is often the person who has truly loved.
However, for the infatuated person, it is not without the possibility of turning defeat into victory.
When the fate of two people ushers in the result of parting ways.
Truly intelligent people will not continue to dwell on it. Instead, after returning to singleness, I will regain my attractive self, and learn to cherish myself and make myself more excellent.
If a person does this, in the rest of his life, he will not only be able to meet someone who is really suitable for himself, but also let the person who abandoned you realize in self-blame that he missed the person who is really good to him.
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After love, how can you let go?
Girls, will not easily give true feelings.
After the fate appears, they will lock the door of their hearts and slowly try to understand each other.
Until one day, the man's sincere behavior completely made the girl let go of the guard. They will try to associate with men, and as they understand more, women will make the choice of love or non-love.
If you don't love, women naturally won't "cross the thunder pool one step".
If they realize that the man in front of them has something to admire.
In the interaction between two people, the girl finds the feeling of being guarded, the other party can also meet their expectations for love, from this time on, the woman will completely accept each other, and regard the man as the destination of the rest of her life.
However, any couple will face the dilemma of "easy to love and difficult to get along with".
How to tie a man's heart is often what girls expect. If the feelings of two people gradually usher in the end, the girl with sincere feelings is naturally unwilling to face such a result.
So, as a girl, how to stand in an invincible position in love? In fact, the best way is to let men think about it when they are in love. And when you break up, you can also make men grumble.
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The deep love is shallow, you may wish to take care of yourself.
Holding hands in love, who doesn't want happiness to last forever?
Especially for girls, they are often in a weak position in gender interaction.
Once a man is chosen, the girl will have good expectations, hoping to go on hand with each other, and one day, she will be able to successfully pass the verification of time and become an enviable pair of beautiful people.
But in love, it is often full of variables.
Not to work hard to love, you can look good, nor blindly pay, you can grasp the direction of emotions.
If one day, two people have to face the end of breaking up. As a girl, although I am attached to that past, everyone should know that crying and crying cannot move men who have changed their hearts.
From then on, learn to love yourself, so that men can always remember.
First: find your own position.
It's important to accept yourself at all times.
Everyone will have shortcomings, a relationship into a flat period, everyone's shortcomings will inevitably be exposed.
If two people interact in the wrong way, these shortcomings may be magnified and even affect each other's feelings.
Girls should know that the man who loves you will often have the act of loving The House and Wu, even if you point out your flaws, it is often kind and will not deliberately slander you.
Conversely, if a man doesn't love anymore, he'll keep an eye on your flaws.
If it is love, to this step, men always criticize you, accuse you, and attribute the problems in love to you, it is obvious that the other party has long since stopped loving you. In this case, girls should believe in themselves and accept themselves.
Know that at all times, you are an independent individual and there is no substitute for it.
Choosing to accept yourself and find your personal position is the beginning of cherishing yourself.
Second: Set clear goals.
Many men are fickle.
When encountering such a man, girls cannot put their hopes for happiness on each other completely.
Even if she is entangled with each other, women must have their own dreams and maintain an independent side. Relying on their own grasp of happiness is the most reliable, and such a woman can also win the respect of men.
Especially when men decide to break up with you.
From this time on, girls should find their personal goals in life and choose to stick to them.
Everyone should understand a fact: to truly cherish yourself, not to let yourself spend the night, but to be a person with ideals and goals, and these goals will also give new meaning to life.
Maybe the past is unforgettable, when you immerse yourself in your dreams, everything will become dispensable.
Third: Strive to be excellent you.
There is an old saying that goes:
The mountain will fall, and everyone will run.
After encountering love, the girl regards this relationship as the destination of the rest of her life.
In order to achieve love, they will also give up their personal careers and pursuits, and willingly rotate around men. If a man cherishes you, he will not only understand the girl's efforts, but also be grateful.
And the selfish man will turn a blind eye to the girl's efforts.
When the relationship between you encounters unprecedented challenges, or one day, you are finally going to break up. Girls should not be immersed in the past, and should not be entangled with each other.
The best way for a man like the other person is to make himself excellent and really strong.
When you meet a better self, you will also make the man who gave up on you regret it. And this way, for girls, is the most beautiful way to win.
Love needs to be treated equally.
If the girl is completely attached to the man, the feelings of the two people are out of balance.
In such a fate, girls cannot win the respect of men, and will gradually become the insignificant person in the minds of the other party. The feelings of two people will also usher in more challenges, and eventually let both parties face a day of breaking up.
Regardless of whether each other's feelings continue or not, the most powerful response for girls is to be better themselves. Really smart girls can realize:
Want men to remember? It's right to take care of yourself.
When feelings diverge, or fate is exhausted. The most important thing for girls to do is not to humbly please each other, but to be strong, learn to respect themselves, cherish themselves, and strive to be a better quality girl.
Doing this will make the man regret it, and even for the rest of his life, he will live in self-blame.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.