The boyfriend wanted to borrow my car last night to go home on Sunday to visit the grave, the place where we work was more than two hours away from his house, because I had something to do and couldn't go back with him, he wanted to drive my car back alone, I refused, he was very angry, I don't know if I did it wrong. I don't want to drive himself back for the main reasons:
1, although he has been testing the license plate for several years, but rarely drives, usually travel 99% are I drive, I am fifteen or sixteen years old, so I am not very assured that others are driving; 2, he has a very stable personality, but driving is easy to distract, I am not at ease, there are several times he opened the highway to remind me, scared me twice; 3, my car was only bought for half a year, and it is not cheap, spent nearly ninety W, did not lend to anyone; 4, now borrow a car to cause accidents Presumably everyone has heard about it.
My first reaction at that time was to rent him a car, asked him what car he wanted, and then negotiated to rent a Volkswagen, I paid the money, and then I felt that his mood was a little wrong, I asked him, he showed a little unhappy, but it was not obvious, I also felt as if I was a little unkind, I went to coax him to hope that he could understand me, and he ignored me.
I was also a little upset, so I threw a sentence to him, "If you can understand, you can understand, if you can't understand, forget it." As a result, I woke up in the middle of the night to find that he had not slept all night, smoking in the living room, I got up at eight o'clock in the morning and he had not yet left, at half past nine I canceled the taxi, at eleven o'clock I went to ask him if he wanted to go to my mother's house for dinner, he said not to go, I came out on my own.
I have been divorced for four years, nine months with my boyfriend, I am thirteen years older than him, he is a very sensible and pragmatic boy, very handsome and polite, to my mother and my two sons are also very caring, usually we get along very harmoniously, I also see in my eyes, I am naturally not bad for him, the small financial help is certainly indispensable, but also take care of his face, because he does not like to spend my money, so I will pull down the grade of life will be on him, afraid that he has ideas.
I just got home and saw his cute and weak look and began to fire again, no one owes anyone, don't borrow a car to put on this face? Am I really doing it wrong?
The above is a netizen self-statement. Gu Feng suggested: Your approach is not wrong, originally it was to talk about friends, and did not get married, they still have to distinguish between each other, more than ninety cars, and not a hundred thousand, in case of some accident, he patted his ass and left, who gave you the bottom? This has nothing to do with whether it is his own person, love everywhere, do not want to get used to it, this man also loves face, have to drive your car, you have to rent a car for him, and he is not happy. As the saying goes, the brothers also clearly calculate the account, this is not a husband and wife, but also to distinguish, you don't care too much, he can think about the best, think about it or not, even if you don't understand, you still have two children, can't stand the problem. This man is really pretentious, don't understand it, even if it is, it is still so pretentious, indicating that he is very vain.
You are not originally husband and wife, just in love, you can help him rent a car, I think you have done a good job, your car is not borrowed, he is your decision, he is angry because you do not borrow his car, this is a kind of moral kidnapping. You did the right thing, don't blame yourself. He was angry that he himself was untenable. You talk to him well, talk about things, and don't have knots in both people's hearts, especially if you don't have knots, don't feel that you're wrong. You have to think more about yourself, otherwise in the future, you will be old and yellow, he is prosperous, he is not good to you, who do you look for to cry?
Even the brothers don't borrow the car casually, after all, the car is yours, there is really something, you are responsible, just like you said, you are not willing to take the bottom for him, this idea is no problem. If he accepts it, he will accept it, and there is no way to accept it, after all, as you said, your life does not allow you to have a problem.
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