The road in the world needs to be walked by a person too often; the suffering of life, more often than not, needs a person to eat, and no one can replace it.
Whether you like it or not, you need to walk alone through the night before dawn, walk alone in the night, and only when you really cross that dark time can you make yourself stronger.
Therefore, the road of life is bumpy or bumpy, and the "shortcut" to finally reach the other side of the ideal is not to rely on others, or to pin hope elsewhere, but the more frustrated and courageous a person is after being refined into steel, in order to make people defeated and not fall, victorious and not proud, even if the wind and rain suddenly come, they will not stop the flag.
In this way, we can have a strong heart that is not shocked by honor and disgrace, and we can be at ease when encountering things at any age in life, and move forward with the posture of a strong person.
That's the ability to withstand stress, and to be honest, that's the greatest ability of a person, yes.
1 You can not forget the past, but you can't stop moving forward
As the saying goes: "Life is not satisfactory." ”
The biggest difference between people is the different attitudes in the face of setbacks and failures, and some people, because they can't forget the pain caused by past setbacks, reduce themselves to people who have achieved nothing, even if the opportunity comes again, what they see is endless darkness.
On the contrary, people with strong ability to resist pressure will not be stuck because of a failure, and they will not define themselves as a loser, but will learn lessons and learn experiences in failure, do not let themselves repeat the same mistakes, and make themselves more and more powerful.
Even if we will not have a smooth ride on this road, we are sad and sad in the face of the past that cannot be looked back. However, we can not forget the past, but we cannot stop moving forward.
Please don't misunderstand the meaning of setbacks on the road of life, they are not deliberately obstructing us all the way forward, but hope that we can become better and better, only strong can make a person from weak to strong, from small to large, but also let a person go farther and farther on their own life road.
Therefore, we can not forget the past, but to re-understand the value brought to us, we can not simply generalize from the negative, but should understand the meaning behind it from the positive, which is the way of thinking of a person with the ability to resist pressure.
2 Can be temporarily stopped, but don't forget to keep running
I've seen a question that says, "What kind of person is the most powerful?" ”
One answer that has been appreciated by all is that it is acceptable to accept the best and to bear the worst.
I think that too many people have had a moment in real life that they can't cross, and they feel that the difficulty of life seems to stop themselves abruptly, after all, that moment is nothing but pessimism, only overwhelmed.
That feeling is like suddenly there is no light of hope in the heart, let alone the call of the dawn, and the whole world has abandoned itself.
In my heart, like a knife twisting, the pain rushed in front of me, allowing myself to dodge.
In fact, when you feel tired or tired, you can let yourself rest, do not have to force yourself to rush forward, appropriate rest, but can make yourself more able to run farther.
I know a friend who, when I feel tired or stressed, like to go for a run outdoors, let myself melt into nature, like a gust of wind, run fast, run farther.
After each sweat, he felt that the whole person was rejuvenated again, and the troubles he had once had disappeared. By running, I let myself stop temporarily, and I also made my ability to resist pressure stronger and stronger.
He uses running to interpret his expectations for life, the present, and the future, and also makes himself not shrink back in the face of setbacks and difficulties, but to stop and continue to move forward.
In this world, there is no mountain of flames that cannot be crossed, and there is no river that cannot be crossed, only when we have the ability to resist pressure in difficult situations, we have the courage to persevere and never stop.
When the rain comes, even if you brave the rain, you will not flinch halfway; when the wind comes, even if it sways with the wind, you will not forget the original intention of the road.
I think this is probably the beginning of a person's ability to achieve great things.
3 People whose life path is getting smoother and smoother are all people who have the ability to resist pressure
In real life, there are often two kinds of people.
A kind of person is accustomed to growing up in a greenhouse, can not withstand the wind and rain, can not experience the risk, once the setback, in addition to complaining about the world, is foolish to hope for the help of others, all the hopes are pinned on the outside world. In the midst of waiting, patience is lost, motivation is lost, and nothing can be achieved.
One kind of person is the "little strong who can't die", and every failure will not knock him down, but will make him stronger and stronger, and eventually become the best person in hope.
In fact, life is a fork in the road, you choose to stagnate, or adversity to be reborn, all in one thought.
For the weak, encountering setbacks will only expose their wounds in exchange for sympathy, while the strong always have the armor of "invincible poison" in frustration, making themselves stronger and stronger.
Therefore, the smoother the road of life is, not due to luck, but because you have the ability to resist pressure, you will go farther and farther.
Romain Rolland said: "There is only one true heroism in the world, and that is to love life after recognizing the truth of life. ”
The truth of life, for you and me, is to make us stronger through setbacks after setback, let us build bridges in the face of water, open the way in the mountains, and truly go forward bravely under the ability to resist pressure.
Life itself is a climbing journey that constantly overcomes difficulties and constantly surpasses oneself, and when you face unhappiness and do not admit defeat, do not discourage, do not shrink back, the dawn before dawn is about to come.
I hope that you will become a brave person in ordinary life, more and more courageous and indomitable.
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