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There is a saying on the Internet that says, how many decades can there be in life?
In general, the vast majority of people can only go through eight decades or so. In other words, living to the age of eighty should be the goal of modern people.
For these eighty years of life, which decade do you think is the most "difficult"?
Before the age of 40, even if we are hard, we can survive, not the hardest. And after the age of 60, we are all retired, life has long been settled, even if it is lonely, what is it?
In fact, the decade of "going in and out of difficulty" is the most arduous. It can be said that the decade from the age of 50 to the age of 60 is the darkest moment in life.
Before the age of 50, we had never seen a mountain, and we thought that life was like that, and we could see old age at a glance. But after the age of 50, we found that life is small, life is stressful, and everything is not as easy as we thought.
The reason why the life of the decade from 50 to 60 is the darkest is because we are facing a "contradictory life" mixed with the crisis of midlife and the crisis of old age. It is like a hurdle that will make some people fall down or even stand up.
In the face of the darkest decade of life, visionaries will cope with it in this way, with a big picture in mind.
02
No matter how dark life is, it must keep pace with the times.
Someone once said that the reason why people feel pain is because they don't practice enough.
The practice referred to here is not only the practice in the realm of thought, but also the renewal of the knowledge of the mind. In short, to be human, you have to keep up with the times.
Ten years ago, someone told you that artificial intelligence is stronger than people, and you didn't think so, you thought it was impossible. But after a while, it turned out that it was really so.
Six years ago, someone told you that the online economy is very developed, you don't think so, or did not update the concept of business, in the end by the impact of the environment, you regret not the beginning.
This is the tragedy of not being able to "keep up with the times". Especially for middle-aged people after the age of 50, age is not an excuse for not learning. Only by continuously learning can we keep up with the times and not become backwards.
Again, if you fall behind, you have to suffer, and this is a reality that no one can change.
Life, the darker, the more you need to keep pace with the times, for their own lives, light more lights.
03
No matter how hard life is, we must also "take it step by step".
There is a saying in the Book of Verses: "Trembling is like approaching the abyss, like walking on thin ice." ”
People, must not be impetuous, make two steps into one step. Taking too big a step will eventually hurt yourself. Only steady progress is the king's way.
Especially in this particularly complex era, if the middle-aged people after the age of 50 are too impetuous, then they will lose money and wealth at the same time.
I once met a middle-aged man and saw others making money in the stock market, so he was also involved. Not only did he invest his savings for many years, but also mortgaged the house to cash out, who knows that the market is not good, he lost even his home.
They could have lived a good life in peace, so why should these people take risks? This is what we often call "the human heart is not enough for the snake to swallow the elephant."
People are too greedy, and after all, it is not a good thing. Just think, can ordinary people eat a fat man in one bite? Can ordinary people ascend to the heavens in one step? If we can't do it, why can't we go slowly and live slowly?
Step by step, it seems conservative, but in fact, this is the great wisdom of middle-aged people who are stable to old age.
04
No matter how unpredictable life is, we must also have a sense of crisis and plan ahead.
The old ancestors said that jigu prevents hunger and prepares for the rain.
If a person wants to eat enough for a lifetime, then he needs to accumulate grain in advance. If a person wants to live a stable life, he must repair his house.
In this life, there will be many risks. The so-called "no one knows the accident and who will come first tomorrow" is this truth.
Blindly positive, without a sense of crisis, it is easy to be "boiled frogs in warm water", and in the end, how unlucky do not know. Too negative, and without a coping strategy, it is easy to exhaust energy in internal consumption, and eventually do nothing
To be a person, you only need to adhere to the principle of "preparing for the worst and preparing for the best".
The worst is for the "crisis." The best preparation, that is to be prepared.
When the rain in the night gradually falls, hold yourself an umbrella well, so that you can "cross yourself and cross others".
05
No matter how complicated life is, it is also necessary to do a good job in unifying the physical foundation and the material foundation.
The body is fine, but there is no money, which is a sad thing. Not in good health, but very rich, there will be a situation of "people in heaven, money in the bank".
The body and money, missing any point, will have a huge impact on the future of life.
The stability of life is inseparable from the most basic materials. Future happiness is inseparable from a healthy body. The two seem to be unrelated, but in fact, they are closely related.
Middle-aged people after the age of 50 should feel deeply, and the savings of many years of hard work are likely to be given to the hospital, or even not enough to give a medical fee.
As the saying goes, the root cause of class degradation lies in the collapse of the body.
Therefore, when a person is over fifty, no matter how he lives, he must take good care of his body, and at the same time grasp the money in his hands, grasp it with both hands, and both hands must be hard. This is the way to go.
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