Self-ferry, ferry people, sky ferry (fine good text)

Bi Shumin, a contemporary Chinese female writer, said this intriguing sentence:

"True practice can be done anywhere, and self-awareness can be done anytime, anywhere.

Every 'now' flashes lightly and vividly like a cat, refreshingly aware of what is happening inside of you. ”

In life, whether it is self-crossing or crossing people, it is all practice.

And the real practice is to do it at any time, anywhere, to do whatever you want, without deliberate.

Hong Yingming also said:

"The words that are often heard in the ears and the things that always have the heart of the Buddha in the heart are the cornerstones for entering the cultivation of virtue."

Self-crossing, paying attention to the cultivation of words and deeds, crossing people, with the benevolence of the Buddha's heart in their hearts, so that they can practice virtue and be able to cross the heavens.

1: Self-ferry

I like a quote from Haruki Murakami:

"You're going to be a silent adult." No emotion, no secret thoughts, no looking back.

Go live a different life of your own. You have to obey that not all fish will live in the same sea. ”

People live a lifetime, life is their own, life is also their own, good or bad, after all, it is still up to themselves.

Therefore, if you want to live this life well, the key lies in how to learn to "cross yourself" efficiently.

The self-transiting person must first be the self-conscious person.

People's conscious actions are often dominated by feelings, but emotional domination is usually due to temporary irrationality, objectivity, and incompleteness.

This leads to some things being imprudent, untrue, and unreliable.

In the end, it triggered a series of negative events that were not smooth, unsatisfactory, and unsatisfactory, which caused unhappiness, inefficient work, and irritability in life.

A person, if you want to cross yourself, maintain the balance of life, make steady progress in your career, and make steady progress in life.

Then, you need to maintain a conscious state of mind at all times.

Know what to focus on today, memorize what knowledge to remember, and understand what situations to understand.

Don't be emotional, don't be willful, strive to be quiet in everything, adjust your mentality, and adjust your state.

Gorky once said:

"Reason is the most powerful force of all forces, the only force in the world that consciously moves."

Keep your sanity, know your psychology, and understand who you are.

Then, know what you want and what kind of person you want to be.

The self-transiting person, followed by the self-disciplined person.

George Bernard Shaw said:

"Self-control is the strongest instinct."

A person, no matter how good the idea, has the best idea, if he does not achieve self-discipline and insists on implementation, then it is just a piece of paper.

When it comes to execution, action is a painful long-term behavior, because it contains many variables and unpredictability, which leads to many people in the process of action, unable to be consistent.

The root of people's inferiority lies in the fact that if they pay at the moment, but they fail to harvest in the moment, they will have a gap psychology in their hearts, and they feel that they have chosen the wrong choice and the wrong direction?

Then, engage in skepticism, self-intrigualism, actively look for all kinds of evidence that what you are doing at the moment is wrong, and find enough reasons for your exit.

If you can't control the firmness of self-choice, you can't control the persistence of self-behavior, you can't control the sense of belief in the goal.

Then, such people are doomed to be unable to win this life war.

On the contrary, acknowledging one's own abilities, recognizing one's own position, adhering to one's own goals, and implementing them with self-discipline and moderation will certainly lead to success in time.

As Delacroix put it:

"Once a person understands things, he must first be honest and restrained."

In the process of self-crossing, try to be cautious, meticulous, attentive, sincere, down-to-earth, diligent, conscious, and self-disciplined.

The merit is in hard work, the power is in self-discipline, once the epiphany is realized, why worry about the big things?

2: Ferryman

When people cross themselves, they are helping themselves, and when they are crossing people, they are helping others.

These two behaviors, which seem to be different, are actually the same in effect.

Helping yourself is to achieve a stronger self, and helping others is both helping others and strengthening yourself.

Franklin said:

"Help friends to keep them; forgive enemies, fight for inspiration."

In our lives, it is indispensable to contact, get along, work together and cooperate with friends.

But because of this, friends have become an indispensable part of our lives.

If one day, because of their own reasons, because of moral or character relations, they lose the trust of their friends and live up to the weight of their friends.

So, in this state of mind, do you feel like you are successful or a failure?

In fact, people's hearts are all flesh, and a relationship is about to break down, and it will certainly not be just a unilateral problem, but there are certain problems between both sides.

In this case, if a person knows how to help friends, help each other find their true feelings, resolve the barriers between each other, and dispel the haze in each other's hearts, they are actually helping themselves.

Even if it really reaches a level that is difficult to make up, choosing forgiveness is also a kind of influence on the relationship between each other.

This kind of blow, which seems to be somewhat annoying, annoying, and angry, if you help yourself, you also help the other party and successfully resolve it.

Then, for each other, it is an emotional sublimation, and it is another high-standard cognition of the meaning of life.

Isenberg once said:

"The little misfortunes of life can help us get through major misfortunes."

To be a person and do things, we must dare to swallow the loss, pain, difficulty, and pain of the moment first.

Then, life can make ourselves better and better because of the efforts we have made, the experience we have accumulated, and the blessings we have accumulated.

Because the bitterness and tiredness you have endured can be turned into the eaves of the rainy day and the road under your feet.

Therefore, to be helpful and dare to help others is also to give yourself one more life path and one more life choice.

Aesop said:

"Friends should be helped when things are in difficulty, and should not gossip after things are hopeless."

To be a human being, we must have a benevolent heart, and only then will we have a blessed life.

Help people in distress in a timely manner, and sincerely solve problems in people, rather than like a villain who likes to say cool words, say sad words, and say irrelevant things.

In the final analysis, your character is all composed of your own knowledge, insight, vision, and pattern.

If there is a problem with your own character, naturally there will be problems in real life and in doing things.

Then, naturally, calamities will come upon you, and you will not be spared ignorance, hypocrisy, cunning, and insidiousness.

3: Tiandu

A fence hits three piles, and a good man has to have three gangs.

If you want to live as a "fence", you must live out of the fence by yourself, just like living as a "good man", you must also have the appearance of a good man.

Then, in the process of crossing people, gather people's hearts, collect strength, accumulate energy, and achieve the goals of "three piles" and "three gangs" step by step.

In this way, only by crossing oneself and crossing people can we harvest the heavenly crossing.

In the human world, everything is causal.

Only by continuously cultivating your mind can you cultivate the strength of "self-crossing", and then be self-conscious, self-disciplined, and self-reliant.

Only by helping others benevolently can we refine the wisdom of "crossing people", and then become talented, powerful, and explosive.

Yu Dan said:

"In this world, the most important person is the person who needs your help right now, the most important thing is to do it immediately, the most important moment is the moment, and there is no delay at all." 」

The Buddha said: Cross one's own cross first, and cross one's own heart first.

Help important people kindly, do important things with heart, and cherish the present life contentedly.

People live, to be a truly cultivated person, enrich life, fill the heart, self-growth, self-precipitation, self-talent.

At the same time, we must also tolerate others, treat others well, help others, cultivate blessings and morality, and sublimate life.

Then, to be a person who is not confused in the heart, not trapped in love, not flustered in the world, get the heavenly way, get the heavenly crossing, and get the blessing of heaven.

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