Love is an invisible and untouchable thing, and there is nothing wrong with the idea that idiot men and women usually want to quantify love with some practical things to prove the existence of love.
But in fact, a person who can give you a ticket for your house and car does not necessarily love you deeply, a person who cannot give you these things, and does not necessarily love you. From the perspective of love, quantifying love with only simple materials may lead to result deviations.
Especially women, if they really fall in love with a man, their love is generally not embodied in substance.
If the following two things, the woman has never given you, maybe she did not really love you, you better understand early.
One: Give you all her trust
Trust means that the relationship between two people has reached a certain level. She can be her truest self in front of you, or she can reveal all her secrets to you without any scruples.
If a woman really loves you deeply, she won't be defensive against you.
If she has a lot of things to hide in front of you, then it only proves that she doesn't love you, which is a visible fact, and you can't help even if you don't admit it.
Wang Qiang has a girlfriend who has been talking for half a year, and when it comes to this girlfriend, Wang Qiang always has a sad face.
She never let Wang Qiang look at her mobile phone, which has several passwords from unlocking to software. And when going out shopping, Wang Qiang's girlfriend always avoids Wang Qiang's entry of secrets when she wants to buy anything, and even every time she sends her home, she has never let Wang Qiang sit at home, and Wang Qiang does not even know how many buildings she lives in.
These behaviors of his girlfriend made Wang Qiang very helpless, he always felt that he did not really enter the heart of his girlfriend, so he was always guarded by the other party.
Later, Wang Qiang accidentally bumped into another man waiting for her at the door of her community, and he found out that maybe he was just a spare tire.
Because she never intended to deliver the true heart, so naturally can not give you trust, she is with you, always ready for the back road, to prevent the back of the two scattered, you have the opportunity to find her trouble.
So it's normal for her to be defensive all the time with you, she doesn't love you, so she just wants to fish for you, and when she finds something better, I believe she will not hesitate to give up on you and make your past efforts a joke.
Two: Give you the privilege of physical contact
If you love someone deeply, you will be eager to give your body and heart to you. A person who truly loves you, she will not resist your closeness and affection. Only people who don't love you will resist you.
Wang Qiang's girlfriend is like this, although the two of them have been in love for half a year, but the number of holding hands is countless, every time Wang Qiang wants to pull her hand, want to grab her shoulder, she will be too hot as the reason and then flash away.
And the kiss was only once, or under the sneak attack of Wang Qiang, but the girlfriend was very resistant at the time, he was afraid that the girlfriend would be angry, so he did not dare to play the sneak attack again.
Wang Qiang said these things and asked his friends to help him analyze them, and everyone told him: This woman does not love you.
But he just didn't believe it, he felt that she was just slow heat, or a woman's reservedness, and he even persuaded himself to give her time to wait for her to slowly accept these intimate acts.
He didn't expect to be really told by his friends. The girlfriend really didn't love him, and when the facts were in front of him, he understood the reason why the girlfriend didn't let her get close.
The most moving thing about love is related to the emotional physical contact, in which love is heated and sublimated. But for a woman, in the face of a man she does not love, any closeness to him will make her extremely disgusted. If she doesn't love you, you'll never get the privilege of physical contact with her.
The above two things can basically verify how much a woman has for your true love. If she really loves you, she will give you all the trust and will give you the privilege of physical contact.
If she can't even give it to you, it's clear that your love doesn't go in both directions. She doesn't want to cherish what you give, she may just want to play with your feelings, or treat you as a spare tire.
It is your misfortune to meet such a woman, but if you see the truth, then don't worry about what you have paid, simply and neatly let her go, but also let go of yourself.
You are a bad lucky person, she is not a good eye. You should understand that she is losing someone who really loves her, and what you are losing is only a woman who does not love you.