We often hear a saying: Those who love you, the southeast, the northwest and the southeast are all on the way. People who don't love you are busy day and night.
Indeed, especially in love, if you want to judge whether a person has you in his heart, you only need to see if he takes a little free time to accompany you in his busy schedule.
If he truly loves you, even if he can't always be with you because of work and other reasons, he will always keep you in his heart and silently think about you.
Now the pace of social life is fast, life pressure is also large, most men are running for life tired, therefore, may not necessarily see your message in time, immediately reply to you.
Even if he occasionally replies to your message in seconds, it may just be because at that time, he happened to have time, held the phone in his hand, and saw your message in time.
A man who loves you again will also have his own career to be busy, he can't always keep the phone, and he can't do every message back to you in seconds.
However, a man who truly loves you, will not necessarily reply to your message in seconds, but will definitely reply to you that way.
01. He will reply to your message as soon as he is done
Most men are busy with work every day and don't have much time to play with their phones, so it's impossible to keep an eye on them all the time.
The message you send, he may not see in time, so it is impossible to reply to your message every second.
But a man who truly loves you, even if he doesn't see your message at the time, will immediately look through your dialog box after he is done.
Because he doesn't want to miss your message and doesn't want you to wait for his message for a long time, he will look through your messages and reply to your messages at the first time after he is busy.
He doesn't want you to worry, doesn't want you to wait, so he will reply to you at the first time, soothe your emotions, let you relax your heart, and let you feel that he cares about you.
And a man who doesn't love you never takes you to heart, so it's impossible to expect and pay attention to your message.
Even if he inadvertently flips through your messages in his free time, he won't necessarily reply to your messages, and he won't take into account your anxiety and waiting.
Only men who love you will put you in their hearts, always worry about you, look forward to your information, care about your feelings, and reply to your messages at the first time after they are busy.
02. Even if you don't see the information in time, he will explain the reason to you
A man who truly loves you will worry that you have been waiting for him, that your heart will be anxious for him, and therefore will explain the reason to you after seeing the information.
He will explain to you why it took so long for him to see your message and reply to your message because he was afraid that you would misunderstand him and think that he was snubbing you.
He has you in his heart, so he will worry about your feelings, think from your point of view, and worry that you will think wildly and fidgety because you did not receive his news in time.
Therefore, even if he is busy, he will explain to you the reason why he did not reply to the message in time after he is busy and after seeing your message, so that you will not worry about him and feel uneasy for him.
And a man who doesn't love you, even after seeing your message after a busy day, doesn't bother to explain why to you because he never cares about your feelings or your emotions.
Love means a kind of attention, a kind of care.
Only men who love you will attach importance to your information, care about your feelings, even if they do not see your information in time, they will gently explain the reason to you after seeing the information, and ease your uneasiness and anxiety.
03. Every message you have, he will reply carefully
Men have their own things to do every day, and it's impossible to get back to your every message in seconds, but that doesn't mean he doesn't love you.
True love is in the heart. His love for you will not be reflected in the second return message, but it will be revealed through his attitude of replying to the message.
A man who truly loves you will value your message, carefully read every text you send, carefully taste your current emotions, and reply to you seriously.
His thoughtfulness and care for you actually reflects his delicate and gentle love for you and his deep affection for you.
And a man who doesn't love you, either turns a blind eye to your message and doesn't reply to you. Or, feel free to perfunctory, reply to your message full of perfunctory and polite.
Because he doesn't love you, he naturally doesn't care about you from the bottom of his heart, doesn't think about you, and doesn't take your message seriously.
Only a man who loves you will value everything about you, pay attention to every message you have, and for all your messages, he will reply seriously and never perfunctory.
Emotional Message:
Men who truly love you won't necessarily respond to your message in seconds, but they will definitely reply to your message that way.
He will reply to your message as soon as he is done. Even if he doesn't respond to the message in time, he will take the initiative to explain the reason to you. Every message you have, he will reply carefully.
His attitude of replying to your message actually reflects his concern for you, his affection for you, and his warmth for you.
Therefore, whether you can return your message in seconds is not the criterion for judging whether a man loves you or not. To judge whether a man truly loves you, pay attention to his attitude when he responds to your message.
In the messages he sends you, or in the attitude of the messages, he hides his attitude towards you, the degree of concern for you, which is difficult to hide.
I hope you can cherish the man who seriously replied to your message, the man who paid you affectionately, and grasped the fate between you.
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