Some people say: Motherhood is a watershed in a woman's life, which is simply the dividing line between the first half of life and the second half of life! After many women become mothers, not only has their body shape and weight changed a lot, but even their mentality and state of mind are different from before they had children, and the way they look at problems has also changed!
In the latest issue of "Send a Hundred Girls Home", Cai Shaofen and Papi Sauce shared their changes in mentality after becoming mothers in the show.
In the public perception, after a woman becomes a mother, the child will always be the first. Moms are a 24-hour on-call profession, they can even lose themselves for their children, and Cai Shaofen is this type of mother. In her words, after marriage, she was Zhang Jin's wife and mother of the child, but she did not have herself.
Because of the original family, Cai Shaofen is particularly eager for the warmth of the family, so no matter how busy the work is, she must do her own thing to the children. But since the birth of her son, Cai Shaofen has felt the pressure. In order to take her son, Cai Shaofen also tired of fasciitis and frozen shoulder.
When asked: "As a mother of three, do you feel tired?" Cai Shaofen replied without hesitation: "Being a mother is really hard!" ”
But for the first time to be a mother of papi sauce, but feel that there is no change after becoming a mother!
When papi sauce says no change, it does not refer to changes in stature and weight, but changes in mentality. Papi sauce bluntly said that after becoming a mother, there was no change in his mentality, and he was not disgusted with his son but could not enjoy it!
Thinking about it carefully, it is also normal, papi sauce immediately returned to work after giving birth to a child for half a year, and the children are basically nannies and the elderly who take care of them, so the mentality will naturally not change much! It can only be said that Cai Shaofen is child-centered, while papi sauce is self-centered!
There is also a small detail that I don't know if you have found it? Even if Cai Shaofen is on the show, she will think about her children all the time, but Papi Sauce does not say anything about children, and even feels that it is unnecessary to give gifts to her son. Even the host couldn't stand it, and complained that she was the most desperate mother in history!
Maybe that's the difference between one and three? In fact, from the point of view of papi sauce in the program, we have also seen a lot of contemporary young people's way of bringing babies. After all, work and family are not at the same time, and if you want to be a working mother, you must make sacrifices!
There are also many netizens who have complained after watching the show: papi sauce This type of mother is a typical exquisite egoist!
After all, in the public perception, the type of Cai Shaofen is the standard of a good mother. Everything is family-oriented, and for the three children, it is the children themselves! In contrast, papi sauce throws children to the care of nannies and the elderly from an early age, which is an extremely irresponsible behavior!
But in my opinion, both Cai Shaofen and Papi Sauce are good mothers. Because there is no standard for a good mother, no one stipulates that the mother must pay infinitely, the mother is also an independent individual, and sometimes giving the child freedom is also a way to love the child!
As Papi Sauce wrote in the song: "Don't be afraid, go grow up, the next period will be a better life." ”