Feng Xiaoqin, played by Haiqing, was born in the countryside, but was mentally and materially malnourished as a child, and according to Maslow's theory of needs, the depth of security is lacking.
Where does a woman's sense of security come from?
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Girls who would rather cry in BMW than laugh on a bicycle feel that BMW cars can bring security. What if it's rented?
Feng Xiaoqin, a Shanghai daughter-in-law who has been a 10-year-old woman, feels that a house can bring a sense of security. If she often read the headlines at that time, "3 million drops!" Shenzhen's top school district houses have walked off the altar, and the owner's selling unit price has dropped from 300,000 to 130,000 "crack down on school district housing speculation!" The good times of school district housing are difficult to continue. Goose, her concept may be different...
Yang Mi, the sober heroine in the world, is looking forward to love but is troublesome and does not want to pin her sense of security on others. So she worked very hard and was excellent.
How can we not pin our security on others?
Back to Feng Xiaoqin, the sense of security belongs to the range of nourishing the heart, and a marriage with Gu Lei, basically there is no nutritional supply, no love, this is to go to the identity of the Shanghai daughter-in-law. Every day from morning to night, physically and mentally exhausted. It was nothing more than a drain, and there was no nourishment for her already barren spiritual land.
Good nutrition can even make up for congenital deficiencies and deficiencies. Later, Gu Lei died, and she knew that it was useless to rely on anyone, and she could only rely on herself. Running a nursing home, realizing the value of her own life, reaching the highest level of psychological needs in life, so whether there is a house, renting her own life or renting to others, are all forms, when she has nothing to ask for, she succeeded and realized her original wish to truly become a Shanghainese.
As Haiqing said, inner stability is far more important than the external house, relying on their own hard work to find their own value to make themselves feel at ease, than the sense of security brought by buying a house is much richer.