A person who is pretending to be asleep, you can't wake up.
Just like a person who does not want to make progress, no matter how much outsiders spur him on, it will not help.
The saddest thing in life is that you can change yourself and live a better life through personal efforts.
However, most people seem to be asleep in another world, and they have no interest in the current real world, nor can they talk about fighting spirit.
People who pretend to sleep are making excuses to procrastinate, do simple things, and avoid things that need to be responsible.
Such people can't bear the hardships of life, but they often have resentment and resentment, and they are sad everywhere they go.
People who pretend to sleep, three days of fishing, two days of drying nets, the days have to pass, it is best to live in fantasy.
To be a person, you must wake yourself up in time, stop the loss in time, and do not let yourself fall into endless internal friction.
As Zeng Guofan said:
"Light wealth is enough to gather people, self-discipline is enough to convince people, and measure and breadth is enough to win people."
To be a person, you need to have a goal, so that life can become more and more full in your own hands.
To be a person, we must always be alert to ourselves, so that in the process of waking ourselves up, we can remain rational and show our sharpness in doing things.
1: Light wealth is enough to gather people
Living in the world, every day is inseparable from dealing with money.
People who follow the good quality of money can not only earn money, but also make money with dignity.
People with good money, in general, feel that money is not a panacea, but they will also affirm the importance of money.
But such people will not fall into the eyes of money, and they will not let themselves be controlled by money.
In their eyes, the importance of money is like a bridge, which can help them find like-minded people.
For the people they identify, the money people will always tell themselves to be generous to people and be casual with money.
Such a "light money" rather than "heavy money" character does not regard money as dung, but does not let money rank ahead of love.
People who are light on money usually see the role of money on a spiritual level, not in material importance.
Because in this world, there are always people who have been living in the eyes of money and lost themselves for the so-called wealth.
Even in the eyes of some people, if you can have enough money, then you would rather live in this beautiful dream than wake up.
Wake yourself up in time, don't see the benefits and forget the righteousness, and don't ruin your own great future for the sake of life's temporary gains and losses.
In fact, people who are generous enough in dealing with money, know how to treat rationally, and even stand on the pattern are often able to live a better life.
Because in reality, they will not only be able to attract more talents, but also more easily recognized by others.
2: Self-discipline is enough to convince others
If a person wants to gain the respect of others, the first thing he needs to do is to respect himself.
The premise of respect is that a person can do something good for himself and, indirectly, accept others.
Obviously, if a person wants to do something that even deserves his own respect, then the first thing he can think of is that no matter how difficult it is in the process of pursuing his goals, he can stick to it.
It's like when we want to evaluate a person, or educate a person, we first have to ask ourselves if we've done that.
As Confucius said, "Do not do unto others what you do not want." ”
If a person does not even do a good job of himself, but prefers to stand on the moral high ground and ask others to do it according to his own standards.
Well, this kind of behavior is undoubtedly shameful, and this theory is also untenable.
Only by doing it yourself first, and then asking others to do it, can people be convinced.
Therefore, a person must know how to be self-disciplined, self-reliant, and self-reliant before he is qualified to ask others to do what he wants.
Then, in the crowd, in the circle, his ability and strength will one day shine brightly, and then attract more people, and also make more people convinced of themselves.
3: The amount of breadth is enough to win people
In the world, it is inevitable to deal with people.
Good at dealing with people, the road is getting wider and wider, and there are more and more friends.
Not good at socializing, everywhere you go is a person, encountering anything, no one to help.
Of course, man's biggest backer is to rely on himself. But life is long, a lifetime of nothing to argue about, nothing to participate in, it is too pale.
In fact, everything has two sides, even multi-faceted, so much so that when we make a choice, we have to tell ourselves not to trust ourselves too much.
Your own judgments, ideas, and opinions, no matter how much time you have experienced, or how long you have been thinking, cannot be perfect.
Therefore, do not think that if you live according to your own thoughts and ideas, you will be able to live a full life.
In fact, we may as well let those around us replace our "eyes", or help us observe ourselves more, more objectively and comprehensively, to perceive ourselves.
Then, in this situation, we can find more ways to go down with more life possibilities.
On the road of life, it is always good to have a companion, or a circle or group.
Because when you feel tired or confused, there are always people who will kindly wake up next to you.
So, be generous, be generous, just like the river goes into the river, the river goes into the sea, as much as possible to accommodate everything.
Wake yourself up in time, really take out your personal efforts and opinions, take out your heart and vision to treat your own life, to win people's hearts, to collect popularity, to create life.