The reason why the Dream of the Red Chamber has been liked and respected for hundreds of years, in addition to its high literary attributes, more importantly, this novel has insight into the core part of the Chinese, that is, complex interpersonal relationships.
Even today, after experiencing three thousand years of unprecedented changes, the country's system, the people's way of life, and the way of daily communication have undergone complete changes, but reading the Dream of the Red Chamber, you can still see the reality.
Because no matter how science and technology changes, human nature is always unchanged, especially the most complex part of Chinese, the relationship between people has existed for thousands of years, and has not changed at all, which is the greatness of the Dream of the Red Chamber.
For example, the relationship between Wang Xifeng, Jia Lian and Ping'er can well reflect many complex things in human nature, which are still applicable today.
There is a small problem, many people may not have noticed, why Wang Xifeng will look at Ping'er and Jia Lian, do not let them have a relationship, but also look very tight.
Is this a problem, hasn't Wang Xifeng always been like this, knowing that her husband loves to steal, but anyone who can find clues, she will look very close, once blocked Jia Lian in the house, making Jia Lian crazy, actually want to take a sword to kill Wang Xifeng.
It is normal for women to be jealous, especially for a strong woman like Wang Xifeng, it is not very normal to look at her husband a little tighter, in fact, this is not the case, this thing is not normal at all.
Speaking of the careful eyes in the dream of the Red Chamber, everyone's first reaction is Lin Daiyu, she is often angry with Baoyu, Baoyu looks at Baochao more, Lin Daiyu will play a small temper.
In this way, Lin Daiyu must have cared too much about Baoyu, so why did Lin Daiyu not get angry at all after learning that the relationship between the attacker and Baoyu was confirmed and made public, but instead expressed congratulations?
Is it a little strange, this is not strange at the time, thinking that the raider belongs to the beard, the male of the ancient big family, this kind of thing is very common and normal, especially from the sneaky of the closest relatives, got the approval of Madame Wang, which is indeed worthy of congratulations.
And Ping'er's identity also belongs to Ya Gui, and she is a close servant who followed Wang Xifeng from the Wang family, and after marrying into Jia Province, Ping'er is a Tongfang Ya mane.
The so-called tongfang yakuza means very simple that when the master and wife have intercourse, she can not only serve closely, but also have sex together under the greeting of the master, and the status is equivalent to that of a concubine.
That is to say, no matter whether Jia Lian has a relationship with water outside, according to the etiquette, it is not right, it belongs to Hu Lai, but it is completely reasonable to have a relationship with Ping'er at home.
But outside things, Wang Xifeng can't control, the family affairs are in front of him, Wang Xifeng must manage, but this is obviously something that should not be managed.
This incident shows from the side that Wang Xifeng is domineering and does not pay attention to rules, and Jia Lian does not dare to argue on the basis of reason, which also shows that Jia Fu has no normal reason to talk about, and some are just stealing chickens and dogs and relying on power to do something wrong.
It is possible to act recklessly, but what can be done according to the etiquette law is seen to death by Wang Xifeng, the great butler, and such a Jia Mansion is already rotten from the root.
Wang Xifeng did what she shouldn't have done, looking at Ping'er and Jia Lian, and this was just the tip of the iceberg of her doing things, because she had already broken through the normal rules and done things everywhere, and her courage was getting bigger and bigger, and the housekeepers of Jia Fu still did not respect the rules according to their own preferences, let alone others.
Rules are a good thing, and once they are broken, the consequences are chained, and the horns are like a building, and everything ends up in dust.