There is a rumor that mothers who are pregnant with their sons will become ugly.
When the medical level of the older generation is not very developed, if you want to know whether the pregnant woman is pregnant with a man or a woman, there will be a lot of small tricks in the street, such as a round belly is a daughter, and a pointed belly is a son.
There are even speculations from the change in the mother's appearance, if the mother is getting uglier, the face is long spots, the navel is raised, it will be speculated that the belly is a boy, on the contrary, the mother's skin is getting better and better, that is, the daughter.
Don't look at the B super at all, you are pregnant with a son
After Sister Jin became pregnant, the whole family regarded her as a "giant panda", and everything was done by the family, and even exaggerated to the point that there would be someone to protect her when she went to the toilet.
The reason why it is so important, on the one hand, is that Sister Jin is an elderly mother, who has not been pregnant with her husband for many years before, and now it is difficult to conceive, but can not be careful!
On the other hand, Sister Jin seems to be pregnant with a son in her belly. After pregnancy, Jin Jie's skin became more and more rough, and there were many pregnancy spots, and the original white skin became dull.
At first, Sister Jin didn't care, but just thought that this was a normal phenomenon of pregnancy! After all, I had no experience before, and I didn't know what to do when such a situation occurred.
But one day, the mother-in-law watched Sister Jin's belly getting more and more pointed, and she boldly speculated that there must be a son in her belly! Even every day I fantasize about having a grandchild.
The things prepared for children are also the colors that boys like. Sister Jin has never believed in these feudal superstitions, and she feels that it is still safe to take a B ultrasound, but her mother-in-law keeps blocking, listening to my no mistake, wasting that money on what to do!
When the child was born, it was indeed a boy, and this time Sister Jin believed in her mother-in-law, and in the future, in terms of feeding, she always learned from her mother-in-law.
Why does giving birth to a son hurt the mother's body more and get older faster? These three reasons are very real and very serious
Reason one: The son has the "gene" that naturally torments the mother!
When the mother gives birth, the body will be affected by the degree of oxidative damage to the cell membrane, and when the girl is born, the girl will naturally carry the antioxidant defense ability, and the role of this ability is to help the mother reduce the degree of oxidative damage to the cell membrane.
Of course, the smaller the degree of injury, the less pain sensation is obtained. When giving birth to a boy, the situation is very different, because the boy does not carry this ability, and the mother's personal feelings will naturally multiply.
Moreover, when the mother is pregnant with the baby boy, the testicles of the baby boy will secrete a kind of testosterone, which conveys to the mother that I am a boy and wants to eat more, which leads to the boy being born with a weight more weight than the girl.
In this way, the larger the child, does not the difficulty of childbirth naturally increase a lot? There is even the possibility of dystocia. Tortured Bao Mom from birth.
Reason two: Boys are more mischievous and too difficult to bring
Because of the hormones in boys, the brain is far more likely to have excitement than girls, causing them to be unable to stay quiet for a long time, as if they were not honest for a minute, or because they are too bored?
Therefore, since the male doll learned to crawl, the action is completely out of the mother's jurisdiction, and he can go wherever he wants, often a casual action, which can make the mother half dead.
If you wait until the boy rebels, it will make the mother sad all night. How can it be good that the children who have worked hard to pull up are always in opposition to themselves?
If you go out and get into trouble, it is better to be in the nest at home! Once you hurt other people, not only do you have to apologize to them, but you also have to break the money and avoid disaster, how bad!
Reason three: boys spend a lot of money, and the mother's financial pressure is too great
Raising a boy, although it will not be as pampered as a girl, carefully dress them, and do not need to pursue how high-level material enjoyment, but in terms of food intake, it makes the mother very helpless.
But because of the needs of the child's physical development, what can the mother say! If you delay a long time, your mother will be very guilty. Therefore, even if it is twelve o'clock in the middle of the night, my son is hungry, and he must go to supper immediately.
In addition to the fragmentary expenses of growing up, the bride price and marital pressure when marrying a wife are the biggest! The number of bride price gifts can be according to local customs, but the house price is one day at a time, which is painful.
After the son gets married, he will continue to fight for his grandson, when will he be able to enjoy the blessings!
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