In life, if you hear that so-and-so is an interesting person, people can't help but be fascinated and want to get acquainted. Interesting, as opposed to boring and boring, is the sparkling quality of a person, the "flavoring agent" in ordinary life. Saying that a person is interesting is highly rated. As the saying goes, the good-looking skin bag is the same, and the interesting soul is one of the best.
So, what's interesting? Yuan Hongdao, a Ming dynasty, said, "What is rare in the world is fun." Fun is like the color of the mountain, the taste of the water, the light in the flowers, the state of the woman, although the good speaker can not say the next word, only the heart knows. ”
There is no conclusive conclusion on "what is fun", ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, and can only be seen in different opinions. In the pen of the literati inker, people have interest, things have interest, and natural scenery has natural interest. Interesting people, with one heart, and everything that makes people happy and happy, is not fun.
Interesting people with a big love for life. Sometimes, even in the face of adversity, they can live happily; even if the eyes are full of hardships, they can always find poetry and distant places.
Su Shi is a very interesting person. After being demoted, he did not worry about it, but discovered the truth and fun of life. In Huangzhou, he made pork with "price like dirt" and "nobles refuse to eat it, and the poor don't cook" into "Dongpo meat" with full color, aroma and taste, and wrote an essay "Ode to Pork" to talk about the experience of firing. In addition to "Dongpo meat", there are also "Dongpo elbows", "Dongpo fish" and "Dongpo cakes", all of which are sensational and widely circulated.
Living on a tight budget, Su Shi cultivated the land, taking pleasure in this, and wrote poems such as "Eight Songs of Dongpo" and "Vegetable Garden After rain", which was pleasant and self-satisfied, jumping on the paper.
Interesting people with strong curiosity. Because of all curiosity, everything wants to explore and understand, and naturally you can find fun and happiness that is generally difficult for ordinary people to find.
Shen Fu, a Qing dynasty man, wrote in the "Six Records of Fusheng": "When Yu recalled his childhood, he was able to open his eyes to the sun and see clearly. When you see small and micro objects, you must carefully examine their textures, so there is always an interest outside the thing. ”
His writings are also interesting, for example, "One day, when I saw two worms fighting grass, I saw that the view was thick, and suddenly a huge creature pulled up the mountain and fell from the tree, covered with a leper shrimp and toad, and the tongue spat out and the two worms were swallowed." Yu Yu was young, Fang was out of his mind, and he was terrified unconsciously. God is determined, catch shrimp and toads, whip dozens, drive away the courtyard. "Such an interesting text, if it is not an interesting person, it is certainly scratching the ears and scratching the cheeks, and it is impossible to write it with painstaking thoughts."
Interesting people, deep in great wisdom. To taste the fun from the ordinary days, it is inseparable from the keen insight into life, the profound insight into human feelings and sophistication, and the profound accumulation of knowledge experience. Mr. Lu Xun is the first fun person in China in the past hundred years. In that stormy era, Lu Xun laughed and scolded, all became articles, needles and disadvantages, into the wood three points.
Lu Xun himself, on the other hand, was humorous and funny. Once, a friend brought Lu Xun some persimmon frosted sugar, which was "cold and delicate to eat." Hearing that there was a medicinal effect, he wanted to keep it for later. Who expected, "At night, I ate a large part of the hidden persimmon candy, because I suddenly thought that there were not many sores on the corners of my mouth, and it was better to eat it fresh now." Unexpectedly, I ate more than half of it. Reading this, people can't help but laugh.
Interesting people not only harvest happiness themselves, but also the "pistachios" of others. And once people are bored, they can't help but look abominable and avoid them.
Now, young people who grew up in the Internet era usually take pleasure in "fighting pictures" and seek pleasure from various small games and small programs, and once they close the computer and lock the mobile phone, they often have their eyes swollen, their brains are dazed, and their fun is lost. Such fun is not really interesting in the end. You may wish to learn from the predecessors, discover more, dig out the fun of life, absorb more and absorb all aspects of knowledge, make yourself interesting, and make life tasteful.
Liang Qichao said: "I am a person who advocates funism. I thought that mortals must always live in fun for life to be valuable; if they have been weeping and mourning for decades, then life has become a desert, and what is the use of him. "So, it's better to act, from tomorrow onwards, and be a fun person."
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