Uncle Lover's Introduction:
Love is easy to make people lose their minds, and love is also easy to confuse people. Some people struggle to find their ideal love, but they are eventually deceived. Many men also do something they don't love in the name of love.
True love must be something that you can actually feel. There is real giving in true love. Men who love you on the surface and don't love you in their hearts usually say these few words to treat you
"What else do you want me to be good to you?"
Men who are good to you don't necessarily really love you, they may just ask for you and take what they need. But if a man is not willing to give you even the most basic good in love, it is not at all about loving you.
There are some people who say they love you, but they just talk about it, and they try to confuse you with the love on their lips and make you give everything they have for the cheap love on their lips. Women must have their own principles and bottom lines in love, and they must also have their own ability to think and judge. Don't be fooled easily.
Men who don't love you in their hearts, despite the sky-high prices, accidentally expose themselves. If a man inadvertently says to you: How do you want me to be good to you, such words are proof that they do not love you. The man who really loves you is that no matter how much he gives, he feels that it is not enough, so he will not say such a thing at all, even if he pays a lot for you, he will not complain.
"Don't do too much"
The person who truly loves you loves all your appearances, whether it is the appearance of your temper tantrums or your cute and well-behaved appearance are deeply imprinted in his heart. If a person only loves you when you are cute and well-behaved, but treats you differently when you are not good, it is not really loving you.
Some men are nice to you on the surface and talk sweetly, but when you provoke him, he starts to get impatient. When you are willful, he blurts out a sentence: You don't do too much. In fact, he has had enough of you.
"Whatever you like to think"
When the man who really loves you has a contradiction in getting along with you, his first thought is to communicate with you in time to alleviate the contradiction between you, his attitude is definitely correct, and his mind is definitely inclusive.
If a man just says that he loves you every day, but there is no tolerance and affirmation for you in action, then this is undoubtedly love on paper. When a man has a conflict with you, he says to you: Whatever you like to think, in fact, he does not care about you, and your thoughts are not important to him, because after all, his mind is not in you.
"Do you have anything you want?"
There is also a kind of man who also likes to play love tricks, on the surface he does it seamlessly, he will tell you to drink brown sugar water when you are menstruating, and he will remind you to drink medicine on time when you have a cold. You are sometimes moved by these details, but you know, although this is a detail, but what did he pay for in these details?
It's just a few words, and it's really cheap. None of these loves are love, but nothing more than empty words. Especially on some important holidays, if a man asks you if you have anything you want, but won't offer to buy it for you. You must understand that he has not paid his true heart to you, and he does not love you in his heart, so he will only say it everywhere, and will not implement it into action. To say that love is nonsense.
Uncle Epilogue:
Details will never deceive people, but women must also open their eyes to understand what the details are. The real details are not words spoken, but actions in life.
If a man puts all the details on his mouth, then his love for you is only superficial. Only when a person implements the details of loving you into his life, so that you can truly feel that he values and cares about you, it is worth cherishing.