A relationship is broken, more or less caused by the accumulation of grievances in daily life, everyone has their own ideas, but we must also learn to consider the other half while thinking for ourselves.
A marriage is inseparable from the management of two people, many people feel that marriage is to receive a certificate, after marriage estrangement of the operation of marriage, which leads to the gradual rupture of feelings.
Don't blame others at every turn, men should learn how to be a husband, and women should learn how to be a wife.
Marriage is not a child's play, whether it is marriage or divorce we must think carefully, many people miss it, they can never find it again.
As soon as Tian Hui (pseudonym) opened the door, a smell of commotion came directly to her face, and the mood that was originally quite good also disappeared in an instant.
This is not to blame Tian Hui, no matter who returns home, pushing open the door is a smell of commotion, the mood is not much better.
Without thinking about it, it must be a good thing for the husband, who does not pay much attention to the toilet, and often spills urine on both sides of the squat toilet.
Tian Hui had told her husband about this matter many times, but her husband, who had a big grin, couldn't listen to it at all, and Tian Hui said more and he still felt annoyed.
Husbands are good in many places, more cheerful, so there are many friends, usually there are things that rush in front, and Tian Hui is well protected, but the personality is a bit macho.
In the case of peeing, Tian Hui has also communicated with her husband many times, hoping that he can change it, or replace the squat toilet with a toilet, which can avoid many problems.
Whether his husband liked it or not, the habits he had formed over the years, he was not used to the toilet at all, and he spent so much money on this little thing, and his husband felt that it was not worth it at all.
Later, Tian Hui suggested that her husband squat and pee, and her husband was not happy after listening to it, how could he squat and pee as a big man?
There was no way, Tian Hui had to retreat to the second place, bought a basin for her husband to put in the bathroom, and let her husband flush it with a basin every time he went to the toilet.
However, the pots were all dusted there, and except for every time I said it, I almost didn't use it at any other time.
If this is fine in winter, the temperature is not high and the temperature is not fast, but in the summer it is unacceptable, and sometimes the smell makes it impossible to breathe.
This time, Tian Hui felt that she had to talk to her husband well, otherwise she would bring a friend back one day, or her parents would come and stay for a few days, and where would her face go.
As long as Tian Hui mentioned it, her husband's attitude of admitting mistakes is very good, but it is only lip service, and how much it can really be executed is still unknown.
Tian Hui didn't have to think about it to know that in a few days, her husband would become the same old man again, and this conversation would have no effect at all.
Tian Hui decided to be fierce this time, but when he said that his husband was angry again, he accused Tian Hui of always holding on to this matter of him, and how could anyone have no shortcomings.
Just sprinkle a few drops on both sides, how big a thing, why should the wife keep holding on to herself, and eventually affect the feelings of the couple.
Tian Hui did not expect that she did not get angry with her husband but first angry, and in the end it seemed that she was wrong, and the angry Tian Hui directly proposed divorce.
It seems that it is only because of a bubble of urine, but in fact, the couple's long-term accumulated resentment has erupted, and the husband has ignored the needs of his wife for a long time, which eventually leads to the outbreak of his wife.
Perhaps in the eyes of the husband, it is a harmless little thing, but in the wife's heart, it is a major event that affects her life.
It was originally a very small thing, but because the husband and wife did not communicate well, they were in ineffective communication for a long time, which eventually led to the end of the relationship between the two.
If the man does not change his attitude, even if he does not divorce this time, he will divorce for other reasons in the future, which is not as simple as a soak of urine.
After marriage, neglecting the management of marriage, ignoring the feelings of the other half for a long time, and eventually the contradiction is getting deeper and deeper, which is the real culprit that leads to the divorce of the two.
The man says that the good point is some machismo, and the ugly point is selfishness, not caring about his wife's feelings at all, or not loving his wife so much, and only himself is the most loved.
Author: Mushroom
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