Mind control, also known as mind control, is the use of means by one person to make another person change the latter's words and deeds according to the former's wishes, and to make the latter obey the former.
Similar to brainwashing and pua on the web.
The purpose of mind control is to make the other party completely obedient to himself, so as to achieve the desired purpose, such as cheating money, cheating feelings, etc.
Mind controllers tend to behave naturally at first, gradually approaching their target person and becoming good friends or lovers.
Then it slowly reveals its true colors and begins to use mind-control techniques such as verbal repression and behavioral abuse, cold violence, and so on.
By gradually making one's other half obey himself and dependent on himself in these ways, you can begin to summon your other half to do anything for him.
People who are easily mentally controlled have the following characteristics:
1. Weak self-awareness
Psychological self-awareness, also called self, refers to each person's awareness, experience and desire for their own physical and mental state, and can regulate, monitor and correct the formation and development of personality.
Weak self-awareness manifests itself
No opinion, easy to doubt yourself,
So when the mind controller denies and suppresses him, he will not suspect the other party's fault.
Because there are very few thoughts and opinions that belong to him in his mind, he will not doubt the other party, only himself.
This may be due to imperfect development of self-awareness in early childhood.
For example, parents are very busy at work and cannot meet the needs of children who need companionship and need to play;
Parents are wrong about their children's education, often scolding their children, rarely encouraging and performing children, which will lead to the child's evaluation of themselves too low, because he does not get positive feedback, so self-evaluation will be lower.
2. Low self-efficacy
Psychologists believe that everyone's judgment about their ability to perform a certain behavior is self-efficacy, which is similar to the concept of self-confidence in our lives.
If a person thinks he is capable of accomplishing a certain task, he has a high sense of self-efficacy and a high level of self-confidence.
And if a person's self-efficacy is low, it means that he does not think he is capable of completing various tasks, which will cause him to dare not try.
At this time, if the person next to him tells him, "I can do it, you can't do it, so you have to listen to me", he will think that the other party is more capable than him, and thus obey the other party.
The reason may also come from the way the original family was educated.
The child's imagination is very rich and always interested in everything in the world.
If a child's parents often forbid him to do something when he is a child, does not let him play with caterpillars, and does not let him try new toys, then it is easy to become forward-looking and afraid of losing sight of one or the other when he grows up.
3. Sensitive personality and inferiority
People with low self-esteem are confident in nothing but inferiority to themselves.
People with low self-esteem and sensitivity are also prone to mental control because they are overly concerned about the emotional changes of others, which in turn cause changes in their own emotions.
When a person is emotional, self-defense is reduced, which is the time when it is most likely to be controlled by the mind.
The above are the common characteristics of people who are easily controlled by the mind, and I hope it will help you.
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