In the entertainment industry, it is common for celebrity couples to be divided and combined.
Some are peaceful breakups, such as Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying, while others are torn to "a place of chicken feathers", such as Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei.
How much love there is when you get married, how much you lament when you divorce.
The same is true of veteran artist Song Dandan's marriage to her ex-husband, Indah.
After the two divorced, the son Batu returned to Song Dandan, and Yingda was "alone" and quickly married someone else.
For years, Indah gave the impression of an "irresponsible" father.
Recently, in a show, he denied the accusations of netizens.
However, this wave of "counterattack" of Yingda was not only not recognized, but also caused a lot of controversy for itself.
A few days ago, Yingda's son Yingrudi came on the field to win glory for the country, and Yingda as a father was even more proud.
Itself is a public figure and the father of an Olympic athlete, and Yingda, who has a "double aura", has naturally become the focus of netizens' attention.
When he recently made a guest show, he said that netizens questioned his love to his younger son and did not care that the eldest son was nonsense.
He also said that as long as he has the conditions to treat his children equally, he will not be biased.
Indah also said that if people do not let them care, or even get tired of contacting themselves, how to pay attention?
When Indah said this, he particularly emphasized the three words "conditional".
The implication is that he himself failed to treat Batuu and Yingrudi equally because there were no conditions.
According to the logic of Indah's words, it is very much like pushing the "pot" that he has not paid attention to Batu for many years on Song Dandan and Batu.
It is suspected that he is blaming Song Dandan's mother and son for not giving him the conditions of attention.
As soon as this statement came out, the network was ridiculed.
The majority of netizens not only did not buy it, but also pulled out some of Yingda's past remarks.
In contrast, there is a lot of "punching the face".
Remember indah's classic "quote"?
Among the three things he can only take with him to outer space is a picture of his son Ying Rudi.
Indah's love for her younger son is visible to the naked eye.
Painstakingly cultivated and accompanied by heart, Ying Rudi became his pride.
Yingda has brought Yingru dysprosium to the show more than once, and the father-son love between the two can be felt by the audience across the screen.
In addition, on the popular short video platform, Indah has also opened its own account.
He did not post content under his account, but he had three followers, one of which was his youngest son, Ying Rudi.
In the treatment of Yingrudi, Yingda can be called a good father.
For Batuu, however, the opposite is true.
When Batuu was young, Indah divorced Song Dandan.
After that, Batuu followed his mother Song Dandan, and his father Yingda soon formed the next family.
Indah has made an "amazing" point of view on previous shows.
He said that after the divorce, he turned the page and did not come to him again.
This view can also be found in the dynamics of Song Dandan's anger at Indah's "multiple sins".
Previously, Song Dandan had posted on social platforms to publicly "shell" Yingda.
In the article, she claims that Indah ignored Batuu's request to let him take him out once when he was 7 years old.
When Batuu asked Indah for a phone call when he was 11 years old, he did not give it, and the father and son were like strangers.
At the end of the text, Song Dandan directly scolded Yingda for not being a human being, saying that it was okay for him to perform fatherly kindness and filial piety, but he could not hurt his own son.
Song Dandan's text is quite sharp, and it is not difficult to see her anger at that time.
Compared with the "conditional theory" recently published by Yingda, his previous "flipping theory" is more in line with what Song Dandan said.
At this point, the so-called "conditional" in Yingda's mouth has become a joke in the eyes of many people.
Not only did it not usher in a reversal of word-of-mouth, but it made netizens more contemptuous of his suspected "throwing the pot" behavior.
Fortunately, netizens are very rational, and they will not "sit together" when they are dissatisfied with Yingda, so as to avoid giving Yingru a black.
Of course, it is difficult for a clean official to break off family affairs, and family affairs have been difficult to distinguish between right and wrong since ancient times.
As an outsider, we have no way of knowing whether Indah's words are true or false.
In fact, if it were not for Indah's high talk, the past between him and Batu and Song Dandan would not have set off such a big wave.
In a previous program, Song Dandan had publicly thanked her ex-husband Yingda, which was considered by netizens to be the "great reconciliation of the century".
But Yingda's words pushed himself to the cusp of the storm.
When it comes to the past, the one who hurts the most is Batuu.
In order to "justify his name" and ignore the child's feelings, in order to "justify his name" and ignore the feelings of his children, in the end, in indah's "fatherly love" for Batu, it is inevitable that people will sigh.
I still remember when Song Dandan angrily scolded Yingda, he was obviously upset for his son, but in the end he did not forget to ask his son for forgiveness.
The two people's behavior is a comparison, which is higher and lower, I believe that everyone has a scale in their hearts.
Some people may say: "My father was always less attentive than my mother, and Indah probably didn't think so much at the time." ”
Although this statement is not difficult to understand, for a child who has been injured, since he cannot give him love, at least please do not hurt.
A few days ago, Batuu released a dynamic with the content of the paragraph on its short video platform.
The gist of the paragraph is that he hates Andy Lau because his name is Liu Hua, and others say that he is "lacking in morality".
His dynamics were interpreted by netizens as another mystery.
In the comments under the dynamics, many netizens have pointed the spearhead at Yingda.
However, Batuu did not reply.
So far, neither Song Dandan nor Batuu has responded to the matter.
We may wish to wait and see if there will be any further developments in the event.
YingruDi is the pride of Yingda, and Batuu also did not disappoint Song Dandan.
Today, Batuu and his wife have broken out of their own world in the field of live streaming.
From the original "Ma Bao Man", he has become an independent career man.
And not only career, but also in life, Batuu is also a big step ahead of many male stars of the same age.
After being promoted to fatherhood, Batuu's wife became pregnant with her second child.
Now Batuu has a wife as a companion, a mother who loves him deeply, and a stepfather who has made up for his fatherly love that he has lacked for many years.
He has already become a winner in life with a successful career and a happy life.
Finally, what do you think of Indah's words?