When Xue Baochao first arrived, he stole the limelight from Lin Daiyu, making her particularly unhappy. Since then, the reality of the "incompatibility" of the two has been buried.
As soon as Baochao came, he "lixian corporal" and "conquered" the Jia family. Everyone up and down likes her, and the little girls also like to play with her, which naturally makes Lin Daiyu, who is "dustless at the moment", feel resentful in her heart.
It's like Shi Xiangyun is good to everyone, but lin Daiyu often makes trouble. It was lin daiyu's arrival that robbed Shi Xiangyun of her attention and status in the Jia family, making her grumpy.
(The fifth time) I don't want to suddenly have a Xue Baochao now, although he is not much older, but his character is square, his appearance is rich, and many people are said to be beyond Daiyu. Moreover, BaoChao's behavior is open-minded, and when he follows the division, he is not higher than Dai Yu and promises himself, and his eyes are not dusty, so he is bigger than Dai Yu and has the heart of the people. It is those little ladies who are also happy to play with Baochao. Therefore, Dai Yu had some displeasure in his heart, but Bao Chao was completely unaware.
Xue Baochao made Lin Daiyu "jealous", which is a common disease of little girls. Lin Daiyu has a "small" aspect, but it seems more real. On the other hand, Xue Baochao's performance is somewhat inappropriate.
Xue Baochao first came to the Jia family as a guest, and it was good to perform well, but "measured" pinching reflected the upbringing.
She wanted to get praise, but she stole the limelight from the girl in the master's family, and she couldn't help but be in a hurry.
In ancient times, the upbringing of everyone was extremely strict. Words and deeds, codes of conduct have strict requirements. Different social statuses must have different codes of conduct.
"Rules" are the different standards set by the ancients for people of different classes.
Just like Grandma Liu came to Jia's house, even if she was polite and tied her hands and feet, she would still be ugly.
When Lin Daiyu first came to the Jia family, she was "paying attention step by step, always caring, refusing to easily say one more word and take one more step, lest he be ridiculed." ”
Lin Daiyu's caution is certainly a huge family gap between the Lin family and the Jia family, but it is also the embodiment of her upbringing.
Dai Yu's caution is manifested in all aspects, one step does not dare to go more is not chaotic, a word does not dare to say more than not to say indiscriminately. Fear of shame does not mean that she may do wrong, but she is not familiar with people's rules, so do not do things that do not conform to other people's rules and embarrass the master.
Therefore, Lin Daiyu saw the little girl serving tea after eating, and began to think that it was drunk. But it is clever to see how others do it first. It turned out that it was gargling, so I didn't make a mistake.
Lin Daiyu's education is convenient for herself, but also convenient for others. It is not a maverick to follow the customs of the countryside. She integrated into the environment of the Jia family in the most appropriate way. It is not only in line with her upbringing, but also acceptable to the Jia family.
But Xue Baochao is not! Judging from the dissatisfaction that caused Lin Daiyu at the beginning, her upbringing was not enough.
Xue Baochao performed extremely well as soon as he came, showing his perfection. It is common for little girls to show their love. It does not conform to the way everyone is a guest.
She is so good to the outside world, it must make people compare, so how can the girl of the master's family treat herself?
As a guest, the performance is more perfect than the host's child, and it is easy to compare people now, "You see who is in the family", is this not adding to the blockage?
Not to steal the limelight, but not to show off is the code of conduct that everyone should show.
As for the little girls who like to play with Xue Baochao, she is also "open-minded and tolerant, and can be divided at any time", which is not in line with the model of everyone's boudoir.
The Jia family Sanchun sisters and Lin Daiyu and Shi Xiangyun could never play with the little girl. Between the master and the slave, no matter how close it is, it is also private, and it will not be dignified in the less chaotic and chaotic proportions and rules.
For example, after the little girl in the later text, indigo did not have a fan, she ran to Xue Baochao to ask for it, that is, she was usually too "easy-going" and lost her measure. No big, no small.
The key is that Xue Baochao's "unconsciousness" and Lin Daiyu's "caution and caution" are in stark contrast. As for right and wrong, there is no doubt that Lin Daiyu is right and Xue Baochao is wrong.
On the one hand, she did not mind Lin Daiyu's hostility, and on the other hand, she did not think that her behavior was wrong.
Xue Baochao was too "obstinate" to decorate the Garden like a snow cave, so that Jia Mu was greatly dissatisfied and reprimanded for being "unlucky" after seeing it.
She lives in the Jia family and takes care of the dignity and feelings of her master. What did she mingle with the little girl and make her room into a snow hole for others to see? What I know is the children of relatives, and those who don't know think that the Jia family is so unruly?
Therefore, Xue Baochao's open-mindedness and generosity are good, but they are too late.
BaoChao's overly lax performance in the Jia family is in sharp contrast to Lin Daiyu's restraint, and it also exposes her deficiencies in parenting.
Jia Muming praised and secretly degraded the Xue family, which is also good!
Being human does not mean being well-educated!
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