Speaking of Lu Liping, everyone's memory is still stuck in the fashionable and beautiful Ge Ling in "The Story of the Editorial Department".
But there are two kinds of life inside and outside the play, but Lu Liping's real life is quite bumpy.
01. Original family
Lü Liping was born in Beijing on April 3, 1960.
Lu Liping has an older brother and a younger brother, the only daughter in the family, and has been pampered since childhood.
When she was a teenager, because her parents were busy with work, she went back to Beijing with her grandmother, who was paralyzed in bed and had no way to move around, relying on her to take good care of her.
Because the parents are not compatible, the mother is kind, always likes to help others, spending money like water, and the father is very frugal and has a more introverted personality, so the two often quarrel.
Lu Liping did not want the contradiction between her parents to become deeper and deeper, so she proposed to take charge of the economic power.
Unexpectedly, her parents really agreed, and since then, she has been responsible for the daily expenses such as chai, rice, oil and salt in the family, and the two parents have never had a disagreement.
Her father attached great importance to her, and the only time her father beat her in her life made Lu Liping remember it vividly.
When She was sixteen years old, Lu Liping practiced playing the violin, and she did not want to play according to the score, but liked to "run wild horse-like hoola".
Once, my father heard the melody she played and thought it sounded good, so he asked her to pull it again. Lu Liping didn't know what she had just "pulled" blindly, so she told her father honestly that she "couldn't pull it out."
But her father thought that Lu Liping was lying, thinking that she was proud of her praise and playing a trick. The two men immediately argued, "I didn't know what was going on that day, he just snapped and punched me in the face." ”
Lu Liping, who was spoiled by her parents and brother as a baby bump since childhood, "blew up the nest at once", and although her father felt that he had done something wrong, he could not erase his face and apologize.
The cold war between father and daughter lasted for a week, until one day Lu Liping was about to write her homework, when she opened the drawer, she found a letter, and opened it to see that it was written by her father: "You will forgive your father who does not understand things--Father's handwriting."
Seeing this letter, Lu Liping cried and laughed, and when she looked up, she just happened to bump into her father peeking at herself, and she laughed out loud without holding back.
The contradiction between the two people was thus resolved.
She has always belonged to the kind of personality that is very top-notch, and once she wants to do something, she must be better than others.
The year she took the college entrance examination, there were many candidates, the competition was more intense than in previous years, Lu Liping wanted to give up, did not plan to continue studying, but her father said that he could not waste time, he had to be admitted to a university.
But at that time, she did not have any goals in life, and after seeing that her brother had taken the North Shadow examination, she said, "Then I will also take the North Shadow examination." ”
However, the teachers felt that her external conditions were worse, and did not recommend her to apply for the exam, and later she chose to play.
On the day of the exam, she wore a very simple dress, walking in the crowd, small and not worthy of attention,
However, when it came to the impromptu performance, she suddenly played beyond normal, her acting skills exploded, and tears burst out of her eyes at once, and this crying scene completely impressed the judges and teachers, and then smoothly entered the Chinese drama.
02, born actor
During her studies, she worked very hard, in a sketch, she played 12 roles, and it did not make people feel jumpy, even director Xie Jin praised her: "This is definitely an artist who can shoot until she is 70 years old." ”
Later, after graduating, her acting career became more and more successful.
In 1984, he participated in the first film "Childhood Friends", which did not make a splash.
Who knows that two years later, she won the Popular Film Hundred Flowers Award and the Chinese Film Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actress with the movie "Old Well".
The rural woman Wangquan's daughter-in-law portrayed by Lu Liping in "Old Well" has vividly appeared and has simply become a representative image of rural women.
In 1992, she won the Best Supporting Actress Award at the Hundred Flowers Awards for "Youth Without Regrets"; in the same year, she won the Best Actress Award at the China Television Feitian Awards for playing Ge Ling in "The Story of the Editorial Department".
In 1993, he was awarded the title of "The First China Top Ten Film and Television Stars", and in the same year, he founded the Beijing Qunxing Performing Arts School.
In 2001, she co-starred with Sun Haiying in the TV series "The Years of Burning Passion", playing the role of Chu Qin, and won the "Most Popular Actress by the Audience" at the 3rd China Television Golden Eagle Festival.
In the following years, Lu Liping has been active on the screen and starred in many excellent works.
To this day, although the frequency of Lu Liping's film and television dramas is not as high as it was then, she has also been acting in dramas, and the acting career of the old drama bones will not be broken.
03. Bumpy marriage
In a cooperation, Lu Liping met Zhang Fengyi, the other party was not famous at that time, only took out a meager dowry, and the two hurriedly got married.
After marriage, Lu Liping temporarily put down her work, put the focus of her life on the family, and soon became pregnant and gave birth to a child.
However, the other party's career development is getting better and better, and they often do not go home, resulting in constant contradictions between the two.
It is said that in a quarrel, Zhang Fengyi also slapped Lu Liping, so the two completely parted ways.
Zhang Fengyi then turned around and married a wife who was 12 years younger than himself, leaving Lu Liping alone with her son.
Once, she took her son to a football game, and happened to meet a football player, the two fell in love at first sight, and the son also liked this uncle very much.
So the two registered for marriage, and it didn't take long for them to go through divorce procedures again.
After that, she met Sun Haiying, who had lost a son in the early years, when the child accidentally fell over his head while playing.
Although the rescue was timely and a life was recovered, she was half paralyzed, and her wife, who was incontinent in urine and urine, was overwhelmed and chose to leave alone.
After that, he was busy filming during the day and took care of the children in his free time, and even so, the children eventually died completely after a few years.
Later, after marrying Lu Liping, he regarded the other party's son as his own, perhaps adding the love he originally wanted to give to his own son to Zhang Boyu's body.
Zhang Boyu also treated him as a father, and repeatedly expressed his gratitude to him in public.
Today, Lu Liping has become a big winner in life, love and career are not wrong, and life is very happy.
Therefore, I have to say that there is nothing wrong with having experienced one or two failed relationships, as long as you believe in love and dare to try, you will definitely find a suitable partner.
On a variety show, talking about divorcing Zhang Fengyi, Lu Liping also spoke frankly about her feelings.
"In fact, choosing these, all kinds of tastes, I really don't want to choose this way, so I always advise everyone now, don't break up easily, don't easily break up the family;
So this is also one of the things that I am very sorry for my child, so I will try my best to love him and make up for all the things I owe him. ”
First of all, the one I was most sorry for was the child, because the son was only three years old at the time. There are regrets and regrets, and finally I also give everyone advice, since a family has been formed, do not lightly tear the family apart.
To say that Zhang Boyu, because his parents divorced since he was a child, living with his mother, it is inevitable that he lacks fatherly love.
Therefore, in front of everyone, Zhang Boyu is undoubtedly very inferior. What he hopes most in his heart is to get the affirmation of his father Zhang Fengyi, but Zhang Fengyi is very strict with him.
In one show, Zhang Boyu was afraid that his father Zhang Fengyi would scold him because he acted too much in front of everyone.
For marriage, Lu Liping has no requirements for him. But Zhang Fengyi is different, he hopes that Zhang Boyu will find a beautiful woman, so that he can also improve the genes of the next generation.
Although Zhang Boyu has lived with his mother most of his childhood, in fact, Lu Liping is also very busy because of filming, and the only relatives who really make him feel familiar are his uncle.
Therefore, nowadays, his name is Lu Liping, and he is generally called Teacher Lu. The obstacles and strangeness in my heart are difficult to make up.
Zhang Fengyi is really very strict with Zhang Boyu, and he hopes that Zhang Boyu can follow the path he arranged.
But Zhang Boyu did not listen, because his father had always been an idol in his mind.
In order to be closer to his father, he chose to enter the entertainment industry.
Zhang Fengyi was undoubtedly extremely angry when he knew that he was going to enter the entertainment industry.
After all, in Zhang Fengyi's view, his son Zhang Boyu is simply unlearned, his appearance is not outstanding, and being an actor is purely foolish.
When Zhang Boyu got married, Zhang Fengyi repeatedly asked him not to do a big deal, and it was enough to get married and have a table. But Zhang Boyu still did it for the sake of the woman.
The wedding was all after the stepfather Sun Haiying was busy, and he also went on stage to speak a few words, and he couldn't help but cry like rain, and it seemed that his feelings for Zhang Boyu were very deep.
However, his biological father, Zhang Fengyi, has never appeared.
Zhang Fengyi said: "I think this wedding can be Jane, but they have set up dozens of tables, which is very different from my concept, then I don't think there is any need to participate, and the three of them are quite awkward together." ”
After this matter was exposed, many people were mocking Zhang Fengyi, thinking that he had married a wife and forgotten his own son.
It is so good for the stepdaughter, but it is so demanding for the son.
Moreover, this kind of harshness has reached the point where people and gods are indignant.
In public, Zhang Boyu was interviewed and talked about most about his mother, Lu Liping.
And his father, Zhang Fengyi, he is subconsciously avoiding, unless others ask, otherwise he will not talk about his father.
In 2014, he went on a reality show, "Travel with Mom and Dad."
Later, because Zhang Fengyi's friends attacked him as a "thief as a father". In order to avoid quarrels, he called out to Teacher Sun Haiying in the program.
In the end, he quit the show. I have to say that Zhang Boyu and his father Zhang Fengyi, the gap between the two is really too deep.
On the other hand, Zhang Fengyi treated his stepdaughter more than a million times better than Zhang Boyu. From this point of view, I really feel very sad for Zhang Boyu.
From an early age, his parents divorced. And his father not only failed to give him any fatherly love, but also repeatedly demanded him harshly, causing him great psychological harm.
With the passage of time, Zhang Boyu was also able to fully realize that no matter what he did, it was impossible to achieve the way his father Zhang Fengyi thought.
The reason why Lu Liping regretted divorcing Zhang Fengyi that year should also be to see the lack of family affection in her son's growth process, resulting in a lack of sunshine in his personality, which produced complex emotions in his heart.
But no matter how many regrets and regrets you have in your heart, you can't go back. Presumably, this is life. There is a difficult scripture in the family.
Time flies, and now, Lu Liping and Sun Haiying's less optimistic reorganization marriage has now become the perfect family in everyone's mind.
The two support each other and are very affectionate. Zhang Boyu has also grown up a long time ago, has his own family, and has his own life.
There is no turning back on this road of life, and the roads traveled count.
Even if the marriage is bumpy, it has gone step by step.
This positive attitude towards life, which is always willing to start over, is worth learning from each and every one of us.