Take your boyfriend home during the Spring Festival, and your boyfriend has an unpleasant affair with his father after drinking, what should I do?

My answer:

First of all, a female colleague of mine, Chinese New Year's Eve to go to her boyfriend's house for the New Year, and as a result, her boyfriend's father drank too much, revealing his dissatisfaction with her family's conditions were not as good as his family's, and she was a little older, which made her unhappy.

She was halfway through her meal and lifted her ass to go. The boyfriend pulled her, his father said that he did not show up, eight lifetimes have not seen a woman, on this goods still what to stay, let her go, can not get used to this stinky disease, no tutoring things.

She casually grabbed the ashtray on the coffee table and smashed the old man's head, and the blood came down.

The whole family was frightened and stupid by her toughness, and the old man's wine also woke up for the most part, snorted for a while, and resolutely let his son break up with her.

Cowardly, he was frightened and stunned, not only did not dare to rebel, but also felt that she was really excessive, so he let her go.

She dropped a sentence: "I'm not rare yet." ”

At that time, she was very happy, and she was not calm when she ran to me to cry afterwards.

In fact, she and her boyfriend have always been strong women and weak men, and her boyfriend is very honest. But being honest in front of her means that she has no say in the original family.

His family is his father's master, and the money is also managed by his father, so the things that his father is not optimistic about are basically no play.

She also knew that she could not change this fact, but she felt that she was too impulsive to hang up the color for the old man at that time, so she bought supplements and apologized, but the old man did not open the door for her, saying that she was not welcome.

Anyway, in the end they broke up.

Back to the topic, you said that your drunken boyfriend and your dad had an unpleasant affair, how unpleasant is it? Insulted? Got it? The problem is also unclear and cannot be judged.

And why did they have an unpleasant experience? This is also not accounted for. Is it talking about the marriage between the two of you, and we can't talk about it? Or when watching the Spring Festival Gala, everyone has different views on the program and mixes their mouths? There is a big difference.

In addition, the problem behind this matter is the most terrible. That is, your family will think that your boyfriend's bad wine is equal to bad character, drink too much and even dare to offend the would-be boss, and what else is there that he is afraid of? If you get married in the future, will he be drunk and abusive? And during the holiday to the girlfriend's house, you should restrain it, how can you drink more directly without measure, is it not very impolite behavior, indicating that the sense of proportion is not very good, and the control is also poor. If he usually doesn't drink much, because he is happy that day, or your father tries to persuade him to drink more, it also shows that this person is not strong in principle, if there is no amount of alcohol, you should politely refuse. All in all problems.

Did he wake up drunk and know what was going on? Is there any remorse? Why isn't it that he came up and asked what to do, but you asked? Isn't that something he should have figured out for himself to solve?

You seem to be nervous that your family will disagree with you. But everyone is responsible for what they did wrong.

It is imperative that he wake up and come to the door to take the blame, so that your family, especially your father, can dispel the concerns mentioned above.

If he has a habit of drinking, it's not a good sign, and you have to understand your family's concerns. And drinking alcohol is also bad for health, let him change it.

In the future, let him behave well in front of your family, let them accept him, recognize his character, and understand that he is very good to you.

In short, to make him good, to offset the bad effects of this matter on him.