There are two kinds of love: one is just lip service, and the other is action, real care.
People who say they love you always commit more than they act. It will use a lot of sweet words to soak you in the bay of happiness, but there is little sincerity to "cross the ocean to see you".
If a person wants to pocket you, then he will know to start with the details of life and let you slowly fall in love with it.
And if a person is constantly careless about your things and makes you feel that his love is so reckless, then he may not love you as much as you think. The man who cares about you may not have expressed it, but you can see it from these 4 details of him!
01, he will not buy you gifts, but the red envelope transfer card is not a lot
Zhang Zhilin always said: "My wife is good everywhere, but she loves to buy bags too much!" ”。
But in life, he will take out the world to accompany his wife to shop and buy bags, and Yuan Yongyi also said that every time she pays for the bag, she looks at Zhang Zhilin, and Zhang Zhilin will take her card to the cabinet sister to brush.
Maybe it's the "straight man's gift" that has been ridiculed many times, and you don't like all kinds of well-prepared gifts. It is better to let you transfer money directly and swipe your card, and you can buy the gifts you want yourself.
02, he always hates you in his mouth, but he hurts you more than anyone
He will always dislike you for not looking at the weather forecast in advance, and then silently prepare an umbrella or coat for you.
He will always dislike you for cooking and cutting vegetables and will always hurt your hands, and then snatching the kitchen knife will not let you get close to the kitchen.
He would always say that you didn't know how to take good care of yourself, stayed up late and worked overtime for work, and then always waited for you downstairs at your company to get off work and pick you up.
03, he may not be sweet talk, but he is sincere
Now I still remember what Yuan Yongyi said to Zhang Zhilin: "You can't die until I die, because I don't want to see you leave before me." ”
Zhang Zhilin has made many promises to his wife and said a lot of love words, which are not the point.
To test a man's sincerity, you can't see how much he says, but how much he does. Whether in love or marriage, those so-called novelties will eventually disappear and be replaced by blandness.
04, he will take what you said to heart
The man who truly loves you will listen carefully to every word you pour out to him, even if it is a small thing you inadvertently mention, he will silently write it down.
You will find that even if what you are saying has nothing to do with him, he will look at you intently and listen carefully. For example, if you just inadvertently mention that you like the stars, the other party will bring you a bouquet of stars on an important holiday. For example, you say you have rhinitis and often have a runny nose. The other party is on every trip with you, and prepares a pack of tissues.
All in all, you will find yourself in the eyes of the other party, like a delicate flower, which will be carefully cared for and constantly given nourishment. And under the care of the other party day by day, you will become more and more sunny, more and more beautiful, more and more confident...
Love is silent, but the details are enough to see everything.
When you love someone, you can't hide your mouth and your behavior.
The most feared thing in the relationship is that one person likes himself with another person, and finally hurts the other party unscrupulously, so that you will end up with a lose-lose situation.
If you have found out that he loves you very much, then don't try to test him easily, and give back his love for you.
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