Because of yingda's tiger and wolf operation in the past 25 years, let the son of Yingrudi who participated in the Winter Olympics join himself and suffer from the insults and ridicule of netizens.
At the Winter Olympics, Ying Rudi played ice hockey as a member of the national team, and finally lost to the United States team with a score of 0:8, although the results were not satisfactory, but on the ice hockey track, it was also considered to be a defeat.
Unfortunately, after the netizens saw that Yingda loved Yingru's father deeply, they showed full of malice.
Some people denigrate the identity of Yingrudi, saying that "Rudi" is not a concubine, Batu is the eldest son of The Concubine, and he only knows Batu.
Someone taunted Indah for blowing his son too far.
As early as 2015, when participating in the interview program, Yingda stressed that in the 2022 Winter Olympics, his son Yingrudi must be the strongest player in the Chinese team, and he must lead the Chinese team instead of following the Chinese team, and achieve good results.
In fact, in this competition, Yingrudi is neither the captain of the ice hockey team, or appears as a substitute, and some netizens asked bluntly: "Why did I always think that Yingrudi was the captain of the national ice hockey team?" ”
The person who answered pointed out without mercy: "The captain is Ye Jinguang, and these two grandfathers just jump up and down on their own. ”
As an Olympic athlete who marched for the country, Yingrudi will support and encourage no matter what the results are, and the malice of netizens is not because of Yingrudi, all stems from his father Yingda.
What Yingda did was the same as Wang Xifeng in "Dream of the Red Chamber", which can really be described as "the organ calculated too cleverly, but it mistook Qingqing's life", how poisonous the original plan was, how fierce the reaction is now.
01
In 1960, Yingda was born in a prominent Manchu Zhenghongqi family.
Founded by his great-grandfather Yingzhi, the Ta Kung Pao newspaper, the longest-running Chinese newspaper in China's current history, he is also the founder of Fu Jen University, and his great-grandmother was the royal Manchu Qinggege.
His grandfather, Ying Qianli, was the only son of Ying, who was recognized as "the best English speaker in Chinese" and served as an English professor at Fu Jen University, Peking University, and Beijing Normal University.
His father, Ying Ruocheng, graduated from the Department of Foreign Languages of Tsinghua University, because he liked drama, he was assigned to Beijing Renyi as an actor after graduation, and later became the vice minister of culture, his mother Wu Shiliang helped Premier Zhou as a translator, and his grandfather was the president of Shanghai Jiaotong University.
Inheriting such excellent family genes, Yingda showed extraordinary intelligence and alertness as soon as she was born, and when her parents quarreled when she was a child, in order to avoid Yingda's influence, she used English to fight, and Yingda actually listened to her parents quarrel and learned English.
Born brilliant Yingda, when he was a child, he studied very badly, almost every exam was the first in the class, mischievous and mischievous was the first place, Jiang Wen's nickname "horse face", that is, Yingda gave him when he was a child, for this reason, Yingda's parents were not less called to the school by the teacher to reprimand.
After hanging Erlang went to school for a few years, the time turned to 1977, after smashing the "Gang of Four", the country resumed the college entrance examination in this year, Yingda's parents attached great importance to it and decided to have a good talk with their son.
Parents told Yingda that the opportunity that did not exist before has now appeared, which may change the fate of your life, and if the college entrance examination is successful, you do not have to go down to the countryside to join the queue, so the 16-year-old Yingda promised his parents to study hard, and he did it.
In the next two years, Yingda did not see a favorite movie once, the most favorite game "knock three" also left behind, single-mindedly to make up for the basic knowledge, I heard that where there is a set of college entrance examination real questions, if you do not take it back to do the heart will not go, tasteless sleep.
In 1979, Yingda took the college entrance examination, studied hard and was talented, and the final score he got was enough to let him go to any university he wanted to go to, and Yingda finally followed the advice of his parents and went to Peking University to study psychology.
After enrolling in school, Indah found that the content of psychology was 108,000 miles behind his expectations, and he couldn't like it at all.
Yingda is really passionate about acting, so he conveniently founded the "Drama Troupe" at Peking University, as the founder of Peking University Drama Club, Yingda is both a director, a screenwriter and an actor here, which laid the foundation for his future career transformation.
In 1982, the third year of Yingda decided to apply for the central academy of drama majoring in directing graduate school, hard preparation for a year, the result of the physical examination vision is not qualified, did not enter the examination room was brushed off.
After graduating from college, Indah had to obey the assignment and go to the East Side Normal School as a teacher to teach psychology, and it was here that Indah met the first nobleman of his life, George White, a foreign theater expert.
In 1984, George White of the Eugene O'Neill Theater Center came to China to rehearse the play "Anna Cresty", and Indah, who was good at English and had dabbled in theater for many years, was responsible for working as an assistant to White.
With witty and humorous language, coupled with years of immersion in theatrical performance, White completely conquered White, and White invited Indah to the Eugene O'Neill Theater Center in the United States to study in a place similar to the National Academy of Drama, and also undertook all the costs of Indah's study abroad.
From Yingda's growth experience, it is not difficult to find that he can be called a rare talent, whether it is eloquence, degree of effort, dedication to love things, etc., will make him stand out in his future career.
However, cleverness and wit are also a double-edged sword, which can help people soar in the right place, and can also make people perish when used in the wrong place.
It is precisely because Yingda plays his own cleverness emotionally, not only deeply hurt Song Dandan Batu's mother and son, but also makes yingrudi, who is regarded as the pearl in his hand, implicated.
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In 1984, when Yingda went abroad for further study, he took his first wife with him.
The first wife was a college classmate of Yingda, studying biology at Peking University, and after finding that her major had more room for development abroad, her ex-wife did not want to return to China after graduation, so she divorced Yingda and went their separate ways.
In 1987, Yingda returned to China alone, was the first batch of returnees, at that time the state did not have a clear policy arrangement for them, helplessly Yingda could only borrow his father's relationship, to Renyi as an assistant director, similar to today's interns.
Song Dandan was an actor at that time, and he had just divorced his first husband, and the two people who were connected to the same fate quickly attracted each other, Yingda Hui was alert and witty, Song Dandan was young and delicate, and everyone thought that they were a match made in heaven for Lang Cai's female appearance.
In 1989, Yingda and Song Dandan registered their marriage in the Dongcheng District Street Office, and the following year the love crystallization of the two was born, and the nickname Batu that Yingda gave to his son was "hero" in Manchu, which shows that he also attached great importance to this son at the beginning.
After getting married, Song Dandan's career has been soaring, and for several years, Zhongyingda has been unknown.
At the Spring Festival Gala in 1989, Song Dandan left a very deep impression on the national audience with her sketch "Lazy Blind Date", and in 1990, she partnered with Huang Hong to present "Super Life Guerrilla" for the Spring Festival Gala, which was popular all over the country.
Song Dandan is a person who is fully committed to performance, so she can achieve remarkable achievements in her career, but privately Song Dandan is a very sincere person, and there are not so many twists and turns in her heart, one is one and two is two.
This in front of the seven exquisite hearts of Yingda, Song Dandan seems to be a little stupid, as the time spent together is getting longer and longer, the more unbalanced Yingda's heart is, Song Dandan's stupidity can actually become popular, and his talented people are actually illiterate.
Under the influence of this depressed psychology, Yingda left all the old and young in the family to Song Dandan's care, and on the grounds of his own career, there was nothing wrong with the family, and Song Dandan was not good at saying anything in order to maintain Yingda's self-esteem.
At that time, Yingda's father was seriously ill and hospitalized, Batuu was young and inseparable from people, Song Dandan went out as a respected artist, but when he returned home, he was exhausted by the miscellaneous housework, and gradually the contradiction between the two became bigger and bigger.
However, Song Dandan still loves Yingda in his heart, so in 1993, when Yingda was preparing to shoot "I Love My Home", Song Dandan spared no effort to support Yingda and took on a heavy role in the play.
"I Love My Home" became more and more popular after the release, Anda's reputation as a director grew, at this time Yingda did not read Song Dandan's good, but felt that Song Dandan was not worthy of himself, and Liang Huan, the screenwriter of the same crew, secretly crossed Chen Cang.
Rumors spread to Song Dandan's ears, the grumpy Song Dandan and Yingda divorced, Yingda's father loved his grandson Batu and did not allow the two to divorce, plus Song Dandan did not have conclusive evidence that Yingda and Liang Huan were together, and could only swallow their anger and nestled in an unhappy marriage.
The feelings between husband and wife, even if the stupid people have no intention of each other can be perceived, and Song Dandan is just a true temperament and not stupid, Yingda's long-term cold violence made her bitter, and finally could not bear the inner torment, and had an extramarital affair with Zhao Yuji in 1997.
Different from Yingda's greed and cunning, the red flag at home does not fall outside the bunting flag fluttering, Song Dandan is a very real person, the 3rd day of the derailment with Yingda on the phone, the alley to catch the pig straight to go straight, clearly told Yingda that he had an extramarital affair to divorce, Yingda is also very happy to agree.
If things only developed to this point, Song Dandan would always be burdened with guilt, would not hate Yingda to the bone, and would not have a protracted hatred between the two of them later, and the bad would be bad in Yingda's riotous operation.
03
In 1997, on the day Yingda and Song Dandan went to get their divorce papers, whether intentionally or unintentionally, Yingda's pager landed on the car.
Song Dandan, who was sitting in the car, heard the voice of the message and picked it up to see that it was the message that Liang Huan sent to Yingda: Is the matter done well? When will you be back?
Liang Huan's information exposed Yingda's relationship with her, and also made Song Dandan's guilt disappear, instantly turning into resentment and suffering for several years.
Yingda knew that his private affair with Liang Huan was exposed, so he simply stopped hiding it, divorced only 53 days, and then he and Liang Huan received a marriage license, which further confirmed the dumb loss that Song Dandan ate during the marriage and humiliated Song Dandan fiercely.
In addition, Song Dandan is not a very city-oriented person, what he thinks in his heart, but he is not ashamed, and the beginning and end of the divorce between the two people are all known to the people around him.
Everyone knows that his ex-wife brought her a green hat, and Indah does not reflect on how Song Dandan got to this point, does not review her first infidelity to marriage, but hates Song Dandan for destroying her reputation.
Yingda's counterattack began, he was a very clever person, naturally understood that hitting the snake hit seven inches, where is Song Dandan's seven inches, naturally it is the son Batu.
Yingda's great-grandfather was very wise, and when he was alive, he left an ancestral lesson to the Ying family: no matter how successful the children and grandchildren of the Ying family are, if they do not cultivate successful offspring, they cannot consider themselves successful.
This admonition of Ying Zhizhi still sounds like a chill today, far from saying that Jackie Chan and Zhang Guoguo's own careers are rarely comparable, is it not because the descendants are willing to degenerate, and the name of the british is destroyed and the evening scene is desolate?
Compared with other giants that are declining in the same period, the Ying family has several generations of talents, Yingda of course has a deeper understanding of this sentence, the method of punishing Song Dandan is simply hand-to-hand, as long as he spares no effort to fight and destroy Batu, go all out to cultivate his son Bayan (Yingru Dixiao),In time, he can naturally make Song Dandan lose a mess.
After making this plan, Indah brought out the ruthlessness of a father to the fullest.
When he and Song Dandan divorced, Batuu was 7 years old, and since then, Indah has never asked Batuu a word of warmth, Batuu can't give up his father's love, and offers to see his father, and every time He is rejected by Indah.
Yingda publicly said that divorcing his ex-wife and son has nothing to do with him, "since he is divorced, there is no need and should not (re-contact), mainly because he does not want to hurt his current children (Bayan)."
Indah not only ignored Batuu, but also ruthlessly trained Bayan to stimulate Song Dandan and Batuu.
In the process of Bayan's growth, Yingda accompanied him every day, spending huge sums of money to help Bayan learn piano, practice ice hockey, and even relocate his family to the United States so that his son could learn ice hockey well.
In contrast, Batu, Song Dandan did not dare to change his mobile phone number for 14 years, worried that if Yingda figured it out one day, he would not be able to contact Batu, and as a result, Yingda did not make a phone call.
In 2003, Yingda's father Yingruocheng died, and Batuu remembered his grandfather's love with his grandfather in his childhood, and took the initiative to come to mourn, but was stopped by Yingda from attending his grandfather's funeral, scolding Batuu for not being surnamed Ying anymore.
In 2011, in order to pave the way for Batu's career as an actor, Song Dandan took Batuu to participate in a show, and as a result, shortly after the program was broadcast, Yingda quickly brought his son Bayan to participate in the same program, and also showed the father-son affection in front of the camera, which made Song Dandan angry and scolded Indah as "not a person"!
04
Before the Start of the Winter Olympics, it can be said that Yingda's poison plan is indeed very effective, and Under the revenge of Song Dandan's mother and son, Batuu did not perform well.
Now 32 years old Batuu, as an actor, with the help of his mother Song Dandan, the only role he can get his hands on is the role of Ying Dang in "The Legend of Mi Yue".
From Batuu's participation in the reality show, we can also see that he is very smart but not confident, and he can't wash away his fearful personality with his hands and feet, and Indah finally ruined the first half of Batuu's son's life with his own extreme intelligence.
There is a saying in the "New Book" of Jia Yi of the Han Dynasty, "Those who love to go out love to return, and those who are blessed to go to the past are blessed", no matter how wise people are, the sins they have created will one day be repulsed, and no one expected that Yingda would suffer such a quick regurgitation.
Before the youngest son Yingru Dysprosium was able to go to heaven and earth, the result was too much pressure on his son, the first winter Olympics mentality collapsed, and YingruDi regrettably summed up in the interview that "losing in play and mentality, we can do better, it should not be this result."
And Yingda himself was even more miserable, originally wanted to cheer his son up as a celebrity when his son participated in the Winter Olympics, but Song Dandan and Batuu did not say a word, and fans had already scolded him to the point of bloodshed.
Right and wrong have their own merits, justice is in the hearts of the people, and as a father taking revenge on his son's future as a chip, it is no wonder that he can offend the anger of the public.
I hope that Yingda, who is smart, can calm down and ask himself, is he doing the right thing? Is today's ending self-inflicted? To create a hostile relationship between the two sons by oneself, sorry for the eldest son Batuu, is it worthy of the younger son Bayan?
Author: Xiaohe, born in the gravel, the heart to the warm sun, write the words of the heart, live an interesting life.