Hello everyone! I'm Yuko.
The East Olympics are in full swing! Sports stars such as Gu Ailing and Yusheng Yuxian are moving, they all have a quality called "perseverance", without fear of people's words, and do their best to be themselves! Their talent is beyond our reach, but their spirit can be learned from.
"Yuzi Book Club" today introduced the book "Grit Perseverance" through live video, introducing the importance of grit to personal growth, child growth, and how to cultivate this quality.
To give you a summary of today's live broadcast content:
The author of "Perseverance" is a psychologist at the University of Pennsylvania, Duckworth, the core idea is: do not be misled by talent, the greater contribution to personal success is the quality of perseverance, talented people are not necessarily successful, but successful people are often tenacious.
How to cultivate perseverance?
Maintain a growth mindset: never say never, this road does not work to find another way, explore the possibility of failure, dare to step out of their comfort zone, maintain optimism, "this method does not work, another way is".
Discover the passion in your heart: what you really yearn for in your heart can inspire us to have more potential! Doing what you love and trying to develop your interests is the origin of perseverance.
Perseverance = Passion Persistence: Most skills develop according to the law of 10,000 hours, and spending 10,000 hours on the things you love will definitely reach a better level!
How to cultivate children's perseverance: Parents maintain an open mind, do not easily label their children, see the possibility of children's development, respect the children's necessary self-choice, passion and persistence are the products of self-development, not forcibly given by parents. Parents can create opportunities for children to develop hobbies and interests, and can encourage children to insist on practicing, but strong pressure will make children shift their energy to laziness and confrontation, and the gains are not worth the losses!
Finally, welcome to follow my video number "Yuzi Said", next Saturday morning, Yuzi will share Chen Haixian's book "Love, Need to Learn", discussing the construction and maintenance of intimate relationships, and how to get rid of the negative impact of the original family and build a better family with your partner
