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Marriage says that two people know and love each other, and it is not easy to come together. However, after marriage, chai rice oil, salt and vinegar is the true portrayal of marriage. Some of them parted ways because of these, and some of them made the hearts of the two people get closer and closer because of these. However, more important than chai rice oil, salt and vinegar is the original family of two people. Two different primitive families, some of which can be harmonious, but some of which will become enemies over time. So, the question is, will the primitive family have an impact on married life?
My answer is yes, because the combination of two people's growth experience, environment, education, etc. determines a person's personality and way of handling things. For example, a child who grew up in a domestic violence will feel that it is normal for a man to beat a woman, and it can also be said that he expresses his love in an extreme way (I am talking about part of it, but there are also parts of remarriage that are more doting on their wives). When a girl grows up in a violent environment, she will especially like her husband to beat her, and feel that the harder her husband beats, the more he loves her. If one day, her husband does not beat her, she will feel that life is boring and want to divorce. On the whole, children who have grown up in discordant families for a long time will have some mental illness in their hearts and need to see a psychologist. Otherwise, it will accompany them for the rest of their lives, and perhaps this life will be ruined.
If the above is still not convincing. Let's talk about "Voldemort"! Voldemort grew up living in a patriarchal environment for a long time, and their parents demanded that they be younger brothers from an early age, even if they ended up against themselves. Maybe these girls have resisted since childhood, but in the end they are greeted with a violent beating; otherwise, in order to please their parents, they do everything they can to please their brothers. For a long time, in their eyes, it is natural to be good to their brother, and even in order to make their brother rich and married, as long as the other party gives a bride price, it really does not matter whether he likes it or not. Sometimes, for the sake of one's own brother, it is not inevitable to divorce and divide the property; after divorce, taking one's nephews and nieces as one's own children, one regards one's own children as the children of other people's families.
Do you think primitive families had an impact on married life? Welcome to the comments and suggestions in the comments section, I will continue to optimize my work.