No one is in the clouds, does not follow the tide of life, is not bound by worldly dogmas, and such a free and free style is completely reflected in Xu Jinglei. Who would have thought that Xu Jinglei, who is now so free and debauched, used to be a "well-behaved woman"?
Xu Jinglei is already forty-seven years old, she once had many boyfriends, why did she choose not to marry and be infertile?
Only in love and not married?
The goal of a person should be to live out his own appearance, not to live out the eyes of others. Xu Jinglei once said: "Why are we taught to be a likable girl instead of a person we like?" "To dare to express yourself and become yourself, Bi Jing's printing does not mean that it is the truth." Don't restrain yourself with marriage, live spontaneously, and only cherish the moment! This is the way people live! Unconventional, maverick!
Under Xu Jinglei's glamorous appearance, she did not want to look back on painful memories. Perhaps because of childhood injuries, parents are not harmonious, often quarrel, parents quarrel, will bring the greatest harm to their children. It will make the children become inferior, irritable, and so on. Xu Jinglei may be like this, because of her parents' emotional problems, she has developed inferiority or evasive emotions for her feelings.
Xu Jinglei began to fall in love at the age of nineteen, and until the age of forty-seven, she had feelings with many men, but without exception parted ways. Wang Shuo, Zhang Yadong, huang Jue, are Xu Jinglei's ex-boyfriends, and each of them is a very good talent.
Her first boyfriend was Wang Shuo, who also had a family at the time, and Xu Jinglei stepped into Wang Shuo's family as a junior, leaving Wang Shuo's marriage to end in brokenness. There are many posts on the Internet that are scolding Xu Jinglei and Wang Shuo, scolding them for being shameless and uncertain.
But it is precisely because of this relationship that Xu Jinglei has achieved a career leap. Wang Shuo was also very successful at that time, knowing many directors and connections, which also helped Xu Jinglei's career a lot. Wang Shuo not only introduced xu Jinglei to his personal connections, but also won many resources for Xu Jinglei, and was also Xu Jinglei's investor.
Wang Shuo's full entrustment did not exchange For Xu Jinglei and his marriage. Even if he wholeheartedly treated Xu Jinglei, even for her to dissolve his original family. Think about whether Wang Shuo will regret it now?
Xu Jinglei is now forty-seven years old, and she is already close to half a hundred years old, but she still thinks that she is a young and beautiful girl and a talented girl. Wake up! Her current image is compared to when she was young, she has become blessed to become old, hurry up and have a child, and the joy of heaven is the ultimate happiness of life. Look at Fang Shu who was once so beautiful, now like a stinky old lady, miserable. Fortunately, she also has two daughters like flowers, which can also be regarded as a sustenance in life.
Parenthood is a practice
Parenthood is not so much about practicing eighteen martial arts and eighty skills, but about cultivating just a heart. What parents should learn is how to "love."
Empathetic thinking, Bi Jing no one is born to be a parent, just like no one is born to be a child. Looking at the sea for a long time, I want to see people, and I want to see the sea when I see people.
Time is a thing that has always been developed, and it will not give you a few more hours of time because you did not get up on time this morning, and it will not be because you missed an opportunity, and you will get the same resources, which will not allow you to waste.
Everyone is also growing up slowly, it is a process of continuous development, do not pursue speed, but pay attention to quality. Every period has what we must go through and what we ignore. You miss, you give up, you can only blame yourself for hesitation and stagnation, no one will wait for you to know your intuition.
The childish pursuit of emotions, freedom, and ideals is now slightly more mature, focusing only on reality. Don't say right or wrong, just look at your own choices. Even Xu Jinglei, such a romantic literary and artistic person who pursues feelings, when she and Ma Dong played table tennis, Teacher He Jiong asked her: "When you have the most valuable thing" The direct response given by her brain is "house".
It's really real, I admire her, I'm not pretentious, I don't brag or show off. We are all in change, we will lose interest in new things, and we will find what we love again, new and old, which is such a development. At each stage, grasp what you want most and what suits you best.
In fact, there will be many people who will misunderstand the star chasing, and you who may be here today will also be misunderstood by others. But I think that star chasing is not about losing your own life, but getting better and better with your idols, with your idols and your love beans. Only when we are stronger, and only when we are stronger, will you not be misunderstood.
On Tan Yonglin's 61st birthday, a female fan sent a photo with him, in which she smiled so happily, and the female fan she was Xu Jinglei. Jay Chou also said that if the star chasing makes you not remember your mother and father's birthday, then sorry you are not my fan, and Wang Junkai finally turned his love for Jay Chou into his current self.
In the process of chasing stars, they use better selves to meet their idols, which is the correct way to open the stars. At the best age, we met some wonderful people who happened to be stars or actors, and then we started the "chase", although from the beginning we knew that this grand crush would not have any results in the end, but you are still willing to put your youth on it. In fact, what you are really chasing is that your youth is the self that wants to become better, isn't it?
Many people follow Xu Jinglei like this, not only to be impressed by her talent, but also to her idea of unmarriedism. Xu Jinglei's behavior has resonated with many people, so many people support Xu Jinglei, believing that her life is exactly what she pursues.
brief summary
Life is a practice, and everyone chooses a different path of practice. Everyone has different choices and will have a different life. Some people choose to hurry, some people choose to be light and flowing, and everyone interprets their own different "TV series" on the road they choose. I hope that everyone can find their own life direction and walk out of their own different life!