New Year reunion, found that the young people in the family are more and more keen not to get married, this situation is also in line with the statistics of the relevant departments.
This phenomenon appears to be worldwide, with many developed countries experiencing a similar increase in the number of late or unmarried people.
In fact, this is the inevitable result of social and economic development to a certain extent.
Because for many people, marriage is no longer a necessity in life.
I'm young, I'm 35 years old, I've had two kids, and she doesn't have a partner yet.
Every time her mother saw me, she sighed, the girl is getting bigger and bigger, how can I have to have a home!
But Fa Xiao is not willing to make it up at all, she has a stable job with a good income, and she is not very attached to marriage, on the contrary, she now enjoys her life alone.
Why are there more and more unmarried people? Through the situation of friends who have not yet married after 30 years, I have found that there are mainly these reasons:
1. Women are becoming more and more independent
In the past, women had to get married at a certain age, because women had to rely on men for survival.
But with the widespread education of women, many women can now make money on their own, can buy cars, buy houses, do business, and are completely self-sufficient materially, marriage is only a choice for many women, not a necessity of life.
2. Many men simply can't afford to get married
My cousin is 33 years old, and since he was about 25 years old, he has been on the road to blind dates.
Before the age of 30, he was quite picky, especially for girls' looks and figures.
As he grew older, girls became more and more critical of him.
My cousin looks very good, but although there is a car and a house, but this is only the foundation, some girls are not satisfied with the location of his house, to buy a house in a more prosperous area, the bride price is getting higher and higher.
Every time we talk for a while, it's gone.
My cousin now wants to get married, but he feels that he is getting more and more unable to get married, so he just does it, but he is anxious about my aunt and my uncle.
3. Lack of confidence in running a marriage
The fundamental reason I didn't want to get married was that I didn't have confidence in running a marriage.
She said: "If you want to get divorced after you get married, then why do you have to get married?" ”
I remember when I was in junior high school, one New Year's Eve, her parents fought again, and she said bitterly:
"I wish they hadn't given birth to me."
Because her parents often quarrel, her confidence in marriage is very low, although she has talked about several times, it is difficult to establish a long-term intimate relationship with boys, and it is gone.
In short, for many young people, if marriage cannot protect themselves, why should they get married?
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I always feel that if there is no small home, how can there be everyone?
Marriage should not only pursue material conditions, but also mutual understanding, tolerance and love, if you meet a suitable person, do not hesitate, grasp well, build a warm little home of your own, but also one of the signs of success in life, you say?
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