Women must be financially independent, do not feel that they can sit back and relax because of a man's "I raise you", and give up the ability to live independently.
The promises when in love are all beautiful, but they cannot be taken seriously, perhaps the words spoken by the other party at that time are from the heart, but people's hearts are unfathomable, the most likely to change, if you are serious, you will lose.
Many girls mistakenly think that the boy's "I raise you" is very romantic, but they don't know that this is the beginning of inequality, why do they need others to raise them? If someone else raises you, do you have to pay any price?
Personality independence is based on economic independence, you can not achieve independence financially, you need to reach out to others for money, can you expect the other party to respect you?
On February 9, 2022, according to netizens, a woman in Suzhou, Jiangsu Province, broke up with her boyfriend and was driven out by her boyfriend, and the woman was penniless and had to live in the ATM room temporarily.
Netizens went to withdraw money at that time, saw a young woman dragging her luggage to live in the ATM room, felt curious, and asked her why she did not go home? The woman said that her family was out of town and was kicked out after arguing with her boyfriend.
It turned out that when a woman first fell in love with her boyfriend, the boyfriend was particularly kind to her, and when she heard her girlfriend complain about the bad things she encountered at work, she said "Don't go to work, I will raise you."
At that time, the woman was feeling irritable at work, and really resigned, taking care of her boyfriend's diet and living every day, and looking for her boyfriend when she had no money. At first, there was nothing, and then I found that my boyfriend's attitude was gradually impatient, and he would interrogate her where the money was spent.
One day, she found that her boyfriend was ambiguous with other girls, so she quarreled with her boyfriend.
But the boyfriend said that the woman's is not, saying that she can't do the housework well, the money can't be earned, what can't be done, what to eat, nothing is left, nothing is too big a gap with herself, and she and she have no common language.
The woman first doubted herself, really felt that she was not doing a good job, so she reflected on herself and tried to improve her own is not. But when the boyfriend is not satisfied with her, he will always pick some faults.
That night, because of some small things, the boyfriend was picking the woman's fault again, and the woman couldn't help but argue with him, and the boyfriend let her roll, saying that this was the house he rented.
The woman finally woke up to the fact that no matter what she did, the other party was not satisfied, she had lost the right to speak in front of him, and the two people were not equal at all.
In order to preserve her last dignity, the woman packed up her clothes and moved out of the rental house overnight. But in the city of Suzhou, I have no relatives and do not know where to go. I have some money in my pocket, but I have to save some money, whether to go back to my hometown or look for a job here, I don't know what to do for the time being.
Netizens kindly want to give the woman some money to let her live in the hotel, but the woman politely refused, saying that she still has money, but can save a little is a little, she plans to go to find a job tomorrow at dawn, really can't go back to her hometown, and can start again.
Netizens are very emotional, life will not be especially kind to you because you are a girl, I hope that women can get through the difficulties, and future life can be smooth and smooth.
Long Moon view
Women should be self-reliant, no matter how much the man loves you, don't lose yourself, you must be independent financially, you must have your own social circle, you can't just revolve around men.
Don't be too serious about men's sweet words, men's hearts will change at any time, they are unreliable, and only they can be relied on. Many people have suffered such hardships, no one is an exception, you are not special than others, do not wait for the loss to regret.
The woman is still young, and she does not have to be too sad when she encounters such a thing, and how to go in the future depends on her own efforts. The more you live, the better, and this loss is not in vain.