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Before the baby does not have the complete ability to express, the various actions made are expressing their wishes, and what parents have to do is to analyze their internal needs through the baby's behavior.
But some babies often make some actions that adults can't understand, the most common of which is to repeatedly take off their shoes and socks, and some babies cry as soon as they wear a hat.
Repeatedly taking off socks and kicking shoes, parents are very broken
Recently, a netizen uploaded a cute and ridiculous video, netizens saw a baby sitting in a stroller on the subway who lost his shoes, and the baby has been sitting kicking and shouting, netizens think that the mother on the side did not notice that the baby's shoes fell off, so he kindly reminded.
Who knows that the mother has long known that the baby's shoes are off, but she is a little broken by the baby's repeated behavior of repeatedly removing the shoes, so she ignores the baby.
Perhaps this netizen does not understand the collapse of this mother, but as a mother who has experience in parenting, she understands her mother's mood at this time.
Most babies have "opinions" on the shoes and socks that protect their feet, take off their socks and kick their shoes at every turn, and do not care about their parents' worries, in short, they must fight with the shoes and socks to the end.
Many new parents think that this behavior of the baby is naughty and deliberate, but in fact, the baby is really not deliberately tossing the parents, they also have their own reasons.
Why do children always take off their socks and kick their shoes? Why is your baby so naughty?
Shoes and socks make your baby uncomfortable:
Empathetic thinking, why do adults sometimes like to go barefoot? Because socks and shoes can feel uncomfortable after wearing them for a long time, babies are actually the same.
In addition, there are small threads in the socks, wrapped around the baby's toes or the threads are piled together, and the baby will be very uncomfortable after putting on the socks.
The same is true for shoes, shoes are too heavy or uncomfortable to wear the baby will try to take off.
It may be an act of imitation:
If Mom and Dad often walk around the house barefoot, the baby will also like to be barefoot out of imitation. If adults don't wear shoes and socks but want to wear shoes and socks for their babies, they certainly won't accept it.
The baby does not yet have the ability to wear and take off shoes and socks independently:
Take off your shoes when you go to bed at home, wear shoes and socks when running on the ground, and your baby's daily activity area is not fixed.
If the baby himself does not have the ability to wear and take off shoes and socks, they will hate having such a complicated step before playing, simply do not wear, many times the baby is invested in the game, really do not want to waste time on wearing and taking off shoes and socks.
In order to get more attention from adults:
Some old mothers see the baby running barefoot without shoes and socks, and they must not be able to help but quickly put it on the baby, and some will give the baby a little punishment.
Bao Mom thinks that this can correct the baby's behavior, but in the eyes of the baby, this is a negative concern, but it has become a driving force to strengthen the baby's "no shoes and socks", and they will also use this to attract the attention of parents.
What should parents do in the face of babies who do not like to wear shoes and socks?
Set a good example:
If you want the baby to obediently wear shoes and socks, then the family members must play a leading role, usually wear shoes and socks at home, take off shoes and socks should also be placed neatly, which can awaken the baby's imitation behavior.
Choose shoes and socks for your baby that fit comfortably:
Socks try to choose pure cotton breathable, even if the baby has a lot of activity and loves to sweat, it will not feel uncomfortable, shoes should pay attention to the fit, although the baby grows quickly, there is no need to buy large shoes.
As for the style and color of shoes and socks, you can let the baby choose what they like, so that they will love to wear it more.
Keep your shoes and socks next to your baby:
When your baby is playing with toys or reading picture books, try to put good-looking shoes and socks next to him, and maybe when you play with them, you will subconsciously pick up the shoes and socks and put them on your feet.
Once you find that your baby is acting like this, you can give a thumbs up or make a tone of surprise and satisfaction to affirm your baby's behavior and give him a positive cue; if your baby is not wearing shoes and socks, don't force it.
Finally, do not use intimidation, exchange and temptation to force your baby to wear shoes and socks, which will only increase your baby's boredom and is not conducive to other aspects of education.
The baby's world is different from the adult world, guide them to need enough patience, young parents in the face of disobedient cute babies do not give up, insist on it, and then insist on it, maybe it will be successful~