A netizen saw a pregnant woman with a "story" at the door of the hospital delivery room, the pregnant woman was lying on the bed wiping tears, did not see her family, and the woman talked with the doctor and delayed entering the delivery room.
Through their exchanges, I finally learned that the pregnant woman was "signed" and chilled.
Some scholars have divided marriage into 4 levels: desirable, passable, tolerable, and intolerable.
When the marriage can't stand it, it is the day when the relationship breaks down, some people accumulate too much because of small grievances, a blow collapses, and some people have completely seen each other's disposition because they have experienced one thing.
Marriage in the end, it is always human nature to meet human nature, without exception.
The hospital is full of stories, netizens recorded a scene of testing human nature with the lens, heated by netizens, coordinates in a hospital in Chongqing, a husband because he did not arrive at the "good day", delayed signing. If the family does not sign, the pregnant woman is delayed.
Witnesses said that at that time, it looked like they were about to give birth, right at the door of the delivery room, but because her husband did not sign, the pregnant woman argued with the doctor, and from time to time wiped her tears with her sleeve, and the time could not be delayed, and it is said that she finally signed her own name.
Can I sign it myself?
The regulations of each hospital are different, when pregnant women give birth, some places do not allow pregnant women to sign themselves, the reason is very simple, assuming that the mother signs and agrees, but the family does not agree, the result is that the mother unfortunately left during the operation, the family will come to make trouble, the doctor is sandwiched in the middle, and the two ends are embarrassed.
The rules are dead, people are alive, in the case of maternal lucidity, you can consult with the doctor, take this matter as an example, about to give birth, if the husband does not agree and delay the time, it is easy to be dangerous, so you can not take care of the rules and regulations.
Absurd "Good Day"
Is time so important? I don't understand, and netizens can't understand. Compared with the safety of life, folk claims that have no scientific basis seem absurd and ridiculous.
In order to pursue the so-called "good day", some people force the mother to give birth to a baby according to the "prescribed" time, regardless of the safety of the mother-to-be and the child, which is not to seek luck, but to take risks.
It's so chilling
Gestational weeks, due date are regular, folk algorithms are unreliable, there is no scientific basis, there have been many news records because of the family's pursuit of good birthdays, the result of harming the mother and son duo. Therefore, childbirth is a natural process that requires scientific guidance, and safety cannot be gambled in order to achieve selfish ideas.
Although the pregnant woman herself finally signed it, looking at the state of the mother at that time, I can probably guess the emotional direction of the husband and wife after childbirth: it is too chilling.
I believe that no educated man would make such a ridiculous decision, or even dare not believe it, is there really such a person in real life?
Women during pregnancy are the most sensitive and the most vengeful. She will remember every moment you have done for him, wait until you get out of the "ghost door" and then settle the account, and then all that awaits you is a chicken flying dog jumping, a chicken feather marriage.
Having a baby is a big thing, will change the direction of a family, many couples because of having children, life began to change, because there is a third person, the two people have more identity and pressure, when both sides face a thing together, the concept can not be agreed, there will inevitably be contradictions and differences, small things can be forgiven, but in the face of life safety can not be compromised.
I advise you not to be confused at critical times.
If you were pregnant, what would you do after giving birth?