Love is uncontrollable, and you don't know who you'll meet at what time or who you'll end up falling in love with.
But it is conceivable that if you meet the right person, you can love well, two people have a perfect ending, if you fall in love with someone you should not love, it may only be painful, and there will be no end.
At this time, the most feared thing is to cling to it, knowing that you should not love, or persistently love, and even believe his love words, waiting for him to give you a desired result.
And most of the time, you wait for only disappointment, after all, a person with a family, he has to consider not only the love of this thing, but also consider many factors, in the weighing of pros and cons, you may be the only one who can sacrifice, at this time, love is nothing at all.
Therefore, it is still necessary to stay sober, especially after you fall in love with someone you should not love, but also to understand that fate cannot be forced, not what you want to get.
If you're in love with someone with a family, the most sensible thing to do is these 3 points!
01
Break the connection, cut off each other's love affair
The most direct way to let go of a relationship that shouldn't be done is to no longer be in contact with the other person, and you may think, we just maintain a relationship of friends, and we will not cross the line, so what does it matter?
But your heart is not necessarily controlled by you, you don't know what thoughts will arise in your mind when you contact him again, and you don't know if you will be impulsive and entangled with him again.
Since things are uncontrollable, then solve the problem from the source, and disconnection is the best way to cut off each other's love, when you do not contact him, you will slowly stop thinking about him, and then you can let go.
And repeatedly contact each other, your heart will have some expectations, so that you can not let go, let alone start a new life.
02
Understand the truth that fate cannot be forced
In fact, there are a lot of things you can't do, especially emotional things, not who you want to be with, and there are many emotions that you can't control.
When you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, you will also force it, and you will try your best to fight for it, but later you understand that some people are doomed to love and can't, and it is useless for you to force it.
The result of this is only to make yourself more miserable, and the other party will only say a few words to coax you, and then you will live your normal life, only you are forgotten there.
Therefore, when love is not possible, it is still necessary to understand that fate cannot be forced, and meeting the wrong person at the right time will only be a disaster, and a beautiful karma cannot be achieved.
03
Tell yourself to learn to let go
There is no one who can't put it down, just see if you want to let go, sometimes, it's just your inner obsession, it's your lack of getting that makes you not want to give up.
You will always think about why it is you, why you have met a loved one, or can not be together, but what is the use of clinging, some things just can't be changed.
When you meet him at the wrong time, when the other person already has a family, then the best thing to do is to let go, so that it is good for each other.
The more persistent you are, the more you will persecute each other, and when you ask him to sacrifice something to be with you, he will hesitate again, and slowly, your relationship will also be affected.
Instead of the last two people becoming enemies, it is better to break up peacefully, at least leave a good memory.
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Conclusion
Meeting the right person at the right time is a kind of happiness, and meeting the right person at the wrong time is a kind of pain, we can't decide what kind of person to meet at what time, but we can decide what kind of attitude you use to face after meeting him.
If you know that he is a person you should not love, and if you understand that you will not have results, then all you have to do is face it rationally and accept the fact that you cannot be together.
Instead of obsessively wanting to have a result with him, even if it costs some money, but in the end, the least worth it is you.
When you fall in love with someone with a family, please give yourself some decency and don't wait until you are covered in bruises before leaving!