It is sad that Zhang Yan, a 33-year-old woman in Shijiazhuang City, ran away from home and finally had new information, but tragedy happened, Zhang Yan found it in her village and river beach in the past few days, with the regret of not being able to raise the child and the sadness of having no expectations for daily life.
At 6:00 p.m. on January 22, 2022, Zhang Yan, a 33-year-old woman from Shangjiawan Village, Gangnan Town, Pingshan County, Shijiazhuang, Hebei Province, ran away from home, and when she left, she only told the child one sentence I left, and did not leave other words. The family at first thought that she went out to buy vegetables, but never returned home, and then found that he did not bring money and mobile phones, the three children cried every day to find their mother, until the morning of January 29, the news reporter and Zhang Yan's sister-in-law got in touch, the sister-in-law said that Zhang Yanren is particularly good, usually the children and the elderly care very well, the old people are not in good health, but he is particularly filial to the elderly, it is likely to be close to the year to accompany the elderly and children, as well as to run housework, the burden is relatively large before leaving. The sister-in-law also pointed out that there were no disputes and disagreements on the day of leaving, hoping that he would be able to return home as soon as possible, and everyone would go all out to take care of the family in the future.
At the beginning, I clearly put forward these issues, and everyone expressed their own opinions. According to insiders, Zhang Yan usually does not like to talk, is a particularly obedient and self-respecting person, from marrying into the mother-in-law's family to take care of the sick mother-in-law, gave birth to three children, even if the temperature is cold, will go to the river beach to wash the clothes of the in-laws, every day tirelessly, but suffered from the mother-in-law's family exclusion and contempt. The husband not only does not help each other, does not hurt the daughter-in-law, but also does things that violate the basic principles of conscience.
The mother's family once let Zhang Yan agree to divorce due to a matter of principle, but Zhang Yan was reluctant to have children, and she chose to give her husband the opportunity, hoping that her husband could repent and live a good life. But he broke down completely, shaved off her long hair, and walked into a desperate situation. What completely destroyed his firm convictions? In his 30s, his parents are alive and his children are healthy, but they have left an unforgettable wound on those who love him, cutting off any concern.
I don't want to blame anyone, but I think some people are bound to be condemned by conscience. As a fellow peer, I saw an innocent life leave like this, and I felt sad and sad for her. When people leave, they no longer need to look at the faces of their mother-in-law's family, and they no longer need to take care of sick elderly people and young children, and they are alive not only to be able to have children, but also to have a corresponding sense of family, responsibility and mission. At that moment, I could feel the heartbroken cries of the children and their mothers, and it was difficult to let go of my heart for a long time, and I couldn't help but ask. What is the meaning of being alive? Is it to be able to walk in the world and leave others with a lifetime of pain that cannot be erased? What kind of collapse can force a woman to choose to give up her life, give up her family life, and leave her child? Frozen three feet, not a day's cold, again and again the expectation of exchange for discouragement again and again, the backlog of years of wounds left little sadness, cold to collapse.
I want to say that no matter when, never give up our lives easily, our lives are not only our own, children have no mothers, parents have no daughters, their pain is a thousand times greater than ours. May every husband under the heavens understand the daughter-in-law correctly, may the two sons fully appreciate the input of the other party, warm each other's hearts with love, and create a happy and warm home for the child.