I heard such a story from the mother of a two-child family. Xiao Li just gave birth to his second child this year, and the birth of the little baby brought a lot of joy to the family.
But Xiao Li's big treasure Yingying didn't seem to like the arrival of Erbao. Xiao Li did not understand why her daughter suddenly did this, and repeatedly asked Yingying the reason.
Under Xiao Li's repeated questioning, Yingying muttered, "Now that I have a little brother, my parents don't love me anymore, and all I think about is how to take care of my brother." I don't want to sleep with you anymore, let my brother accompany you! ”
After listening to Yingying's reasons, Xiao Li regretted it very much. Unexpectedly, these days, my attention to my daughter Yingying will make my children have such thoughts.
Fortunately, I did not promise to let Yingying sleep by herself, otherwise my daughter would sleep alone in a small room, and after a long time, she might still have a psychological distortion!
After giving birth to the second child, who should Dabao sleep with?
This problem should be a lot of two baby families to consider the problem, if you do not choose a good guidance method, directly let Dabao sleep alone, it is easy to make Dabao feel abandoned, and the reason for their abandonment are pointed to the second treasure.
This phenomenon is not conducive to the harmonious coexistence between children, and further affects family harmony.
Here, to give a small suggestion, you can refer to it: if Dabao is about 5 years old, parents should try to explain to Dabao, or apologize to Dabao, so that Dabao understands that his unique position is not replaced by Erbao.
If Dabao is still within 3 years old, then parents need to take the time to slowly cultivate Dabao's sense of independence.
If you are like Xiao Li, with the second treasure, the psychology of the big treasure has been unbalanced, what should parents do?