What a happy thing it is to have a bully at home.
However, if parents and families lack the influence of cultural upbringing, and do not respect, understand or think in the process of educating their children, it is almost impossible to cultivate a high-scoring scholar with good knowledge and excellent grades.
Maybe you want to say that every year so many cold door scholars are admitted to Tsinghua Peking University, are you "blind"?
But I would say that good test scores and high college entrance exam scores are not the only signs of a child's excellence. A person with good IQ and emotional intelligence can also make achievements in his field after graduating from college, and the academic bully from small to large is often inseparable from the meticulous and sincere accompaniment and supervision of his parents in his family.
Of course, in addition to family education, the elements of genetic inheritance are also indispensable.
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At the end of 2021, after hearing the touching story of Sun Zhuo and Sun Haiyang's success in "recognizing relatives", Mr. Ding, 48, asked the police for help, wanting to find his twin brother who was taken away at 3 months, so that his elderly parents could see their long-lost son again in their lifetime.
It is reported that this pair of twin brothers was born in Jiaxing, Zhejiang Province, 48 years ago, when Mr. Ding's parents had 2 elderly people, an older son, and a pair of twins. The food and clothing of the whole family of 7 people made the couple unbearable for a while, and in the case of last resort, the twin brothers were given to others to raise.
They are all flesh and blood that fell from their own bodies, if it is not a last resort, who is willing to send their precious son to someone else's home?
However, the old couple of the Ding family, there is no mine at home, there is no surplus grain in the warehouse, and when they encounter the situation of economic constraints, they can only "send their children to support their families".
It is estimated that although Mr. Ding reported to the police, in fact, he did not hold out much hope, but no one expected that the current DNA comparison and face recognition technology were so powerful, and it took more than 1 month to find relatives successfully! Through the "Yonghui Studio" set up by the Xihu District Public Security Bureau to focus on finding people, Mr. Ding successfully found his twin brother Mr. Feng, who had been separated for 48 years, the day before the Chinese New Year's Eve on January 24, 2022.
This family search efficiency is really a lever drop!
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As the saying goes, "Relatives meet relatives, and two tears flow."
For a time, the two brothers Mr. Feng and Mr. Ding, the old husband and wife of Ding who wiped their tears with handkerchiefs, the eldest son, Uncle Ding, and the children and family members who were full of emotions were all in tears.
Especially growing up in the family of his adoptive parents and now a 48-year-old twin brother Mr. Feng, in addition to a slight difference in height and appearance, his face looks exactly the same as his twin brother Mr. Ding. At the scene of the recognition of relatives, Mr. Feng knelt down when he saw his biological parents, took the initiative to say that he should repay the grace of childbirth, and showed a sincere attitude of not forgetting gratitude and having the courage to recognize his relatives in front of his children, which made countless netizens feel very emotional.
What is even more surprising is that although the old couple of the Ding family is poor, and even in order to support the family and support the old and the young, they have to give away their second son, but the xueba gene contained in the bones of the Ding family, even if it is 48 years apart, has not changed in the slightest!
In the conversation after the success of the recognition, Mr. Feng and Mr. Ding, the twins, on the occasion of the long-term reunion of a thousand cups, could not help but open the mode of sunbathing at the dinner table.
Mr. Feng mentioned that his eldest son is a graduate student at the University of Science and Technology Beijing, his second daughter is an undergraduate student at Northwestern Polytechnical University, and a pair of dragon and phoenix siblings, who usually have good grades in the class.
As for the children of the Ding family's eldest brother and twin brother, they are not willing to show weakness. Both of Ding's sons are studying in the United States, and the son of his twin brother, Mr. Ding, is studying computer science at Nankai University. And counting the fingers, the Ding family now has a total of 5 grandchildren and two granddaughters, 3 of whom are college students from 985 or 211 colleges and universities.
Such a bully gene is simply terrifyingly powerful!
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In fact, many famous foreign schools have studied the influence of genetic factors on children's academic qualifications.
The oxford research team believes that highly educated parents can make better use of the quality educational resources at hand to ensure that their children can improve their education.
Johns Hopkins University, through a follow-up survey of 790 children, concluded that "in terms of overall class mobility, 50% of children are in the same class as their parents", that is:
"The children of rich families are easy to get rich, and the children of ordinary families are easy to be ordinary."
It is gratifying that there are also 33 children born in ordinary families, who not only achieved the "counterattack of life", but also entered the high-income group in their 20s, which is really enviable. But at the same time, most of the children from wealthy families are doing well, and only 19 have become poor as adults.
Therefore, many people's speculation about the "increasing solidification of classes" is actually not unreasonable.
The research team at the University of Southern California believes that "there is a certain correlation between the child's learning ability and the final academic qualifications that can be obtained and genetic genes."
This can be seen from the twin brothers Mr. Feng and Mr. Ding, who have successfully "recognized their relatives" after 48 years, although the brothers were originally born in a poor family, but with the diligent efforts of the day after tomorrow, they have given their children a better education, so that the children of the two brothers are either going to the United States to study, or graduates of 985 or 211 universities.
Such a bully gene is not only caused by the so-called "genetic gene", but also this pair of twin brothers, from the hard work and perseverance of poor parents and families, and finally created such a "scholarly mendi" reunion!
In short, to cultivate a bully child, it is not only dependent on the child, but also on the parents:
Either you rely on your own efforts to become a highly educated parent and give your children a better education, or you can honestly accept the ordinary parents and family and make yourself a better child.
Whether it is a recognition of relatives or a college entrance examination, only hard work can see hope!
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