To love someone, or to like someone, is to speak out.
However, because everyone handles feelings differently, or some people are inherently reserved.
Therefore, when they deal with feelings, most of them are waiting, and most of them are thin and long-flowing.
However, liking a person and not liking a person are two completely different attitudes.
When you like a person, even if you are embarrassed to say it, your inner emotions are still turbulent and you still can't stand it.
Then, even if you don't say it, it will still flow from other aspects, and you can't disguise it at all.
In short, in a relationship between the sexes, a woman has a crush on you, it will be so implied, don't miss it.
First, will ask what you like
01), from the "Cole Effect of Psychological Suggestion and Self-Suggestion", we can know that a person's best friend is very similar to their education level, economic conditions, social values, etc., that is, the so-called door-to-door pair.
That is to say, things are clustered in groups, people are grouped, and people are generally more inclined to like things that they are interested in or familiar with, which will make it easier to have emotional connections and more likely to have common topics, thus further deepening each other's relationship.
This sense of intermingling, absorption, and symbiosis will make people appreciate themselves more and play a positive role in dealing with interpersonal relationships.
Looks, is it bread, or loyalty?
In gender relationships, similar people tend to form a group more easily, and when they live in this group, they can get a stronger sense of security and belonging.
So, when a girl asks you what you like, or what you are interested in, it actually shows that she is having a crush on you, after all, if you are not interested in you, your hobbies, she is afraid that she does not have half a desire to understand.
Second, I will ask you what are the criteria for choosing a mate
Yang Beibing in the movie "That Roaring Youth" likes a boy, because the relationship between the two people is relatively good, Yang Beibing does not know what feelings the other party has for herself, so she knocks on the side and asks the other party what kind of girl she likes, and the other party says that she likes Liang Yongqi.
So the next day, Yang Beibing, who has always shown the image of a tomboy, made up the world, wore a skirt, spoke deliberately low, whispered softly, and the original stride meteor also became a graceful footstep.
Because she likes the boy, when she knows what the other person's mate selection criteria are, she will let herself move towards the way the other person likes, which will make the relationship between them further.
All the questions are not sudden, they are all with a certain purpose, for a woman, when they have a crush on a person, they will not show it directly, they will knock on the side, they will ask what kind of women the opposite sex likes, so that they will know that the gap between themselves and the other person's mind is not big.
Behind all the careful probing, there is a big fanfare of liking, because no one cares who a person who has nothing to do with himself likes and dislikes.
Third, will reply to your message in seconds, will become active
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
In fact, it is not, the most important thing in a relationship is to share, because sharing is often the beginning of the fall.
If when we chat with a member of the opposite sex, we find that no matter when, as long as we send a message, the other party will definitely return in seconds, as long as we need help, the other party will be there, which shows that the other party likes us and may not express it, because in this world, no one is willing to pay for another person for no reason.
Bacon once said: "Love not only occupies the open and open mind, but also sometimes breaks into the well-fortified mind." ”
And if a girl is emotional, it is like this.
Because I am shy and uncertain, I dare not rush to confess, but also because I don't want to miss this relationship, I also force myself to become brave from another angle.
So, when you find that a woman always responds to your message in seconds no matter what time she sends, don't doubt that the other person is having a crush on you.
Bi Shumin said: "Love is afraid of silence. Too many people think that love to the depths is speechless. In fact, love is a difficult emotion to describe, which needs to be expressed and transmitted in detail. ”
Many times, fate slips away in silence, one thinks the other will know, the other thinks the other party will say, so the relationship drags on to the end.
Therefore, if the boy is also interested in the girl, you may wish to try to respond to this crush, and may achieve a beautiful love.
One will know, the other will think the other will say, so the relationship will not end until the end.
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Author | Psychological counselor Fu Dongsheng
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