Text/Moran
In this world, not all efforts have results, not all likes can be responded to accordingly.
Feelings of this kind of thing, there is no way to work hard, a person does not like, pay more is useless.
At any time, we must understand that feelings are not a one-man show, but need to go in both directions.
If in a relationship, the other party does not care about your feelings at all, does not take you seriously, to put it bluntly, it is rejecting you.
Sometimes, feelings do not need to be said too clearly, a person does not take the initiative, does not care, does not care, is to refuse.
Therefore, the person who treats you like this is actually rejecting you, don't understand.
When you take the initiative, the other party does not respond
Feelings such a thing can not deceive people, a person to whether you are sincere or false, can be expressed through the other party's attitude.
The person who likes you will respond positively to you, while the person who does not like you will resist and will refuse.
Feelings can't be forced, and people who don't like it can't take the initiative, and they don't bother to respond.
In fact, many times, feelings are the most unreasonable, and not loving will be very realistic, very cruel, and unable to give enthusiasm to each other.
When you take the initiative to find someone, he does not respond to you and does not act positively, the meaning is obvious.
You can't touch someone who doesn't love you, and you can't wake up someone who pretends to be asleep. A person does not have you in his heart, no matter how much you pay, it is also yourself who is finally moved.
Therefore, we must understand that if you like it, you will care, you will respond, and if you don't like it, you will reject it, and you will treat it in this indifferent way.
You try to get closer, and the other party subconsciously avoids it
We can't force our hearts, and if we don't like a person, we can't be as enthusiastic as we are with the person we love.
When faced with a person you don't like, the first reaction is to resist, and the other party's proximity will make you feel helpless.
Although many times, this kind of performance will make a person discouraged, but the feelings are not forced.
If you don't like a person, you will naturally subconsciously avoid it, and if you want to avoid the other person's sight, you will feel at ease if you are far away from him.
When you like someone, you will unconsciously approach each other and give the best enthusiasm to each other.
You see, love and dislike are obvious, like is not to deceive people, dislike is also. When you take the initiative to approach each other, he will subconsciously avoid, just don't move forward, there is no point.
You give as much as you can, and the other person doesn't accept anything
I have always felt that feelings have no reason to speak of.
If you like a person, you will give the best love to each other, and you will naturally give willingly and want to give the best to each other.
If a person always wants to give you the best thing, it is obviously a real feeling for you.
Cuteness is never a matter of one person, if you give everything, the other party will not accept your payment and has been rejecting your kindness.
At this time, your efforts become redundant. Feelings must be consistent with each other's hearts, what you pay is meaningful, and the other party will understand your intentions.
A person will never refuse the heart of the person he likes, only if he does not love will he frankly refuse, no matter how good you are to her, it is useless.
When a person is not willing to accept your kindness, your efforts are actually rejecting you, then his attitude is very firm, and he will no longer torture each other.
summary:
Feelings need to pay attention to luck, sometimes it is at the right time, meet the right person, there is a result.
Once the timing is not right, even if you pay more, it will not help. It's only when you actually meet the right person that your efforts become meaningful.
And when a person does this to you, it is actually rejecting, at this time, give up early, don't be grumpy.