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Women who are always fortunate to be favored often have high emotional intelligence, can see the occasion and speak, and behave generously and decently. With such an elegant and generous woman, not only will I not feel tired, but I even want to confide more to her.
Such a woman has always been humble and courteous in her dealings with the world.
But there is a kind of woman, but always think that she is smart, talking in a hurry, afraid that her belly manuscript will be published first. Obviously, the ability to do things is not high, and it is necessary to direct the people around him to do things like a commander-in-chief.
Such a woman has a characteristic, that is, things are always unclear, and good luck naturally has nothing to do with her.
One: Unable to figure out one's own identity, it is easy to make life complicated
Everyone's words and deeds should be in line with their own identity, so that they can be respected, appreciated by more people, and bring good luck to themselves.
Women who often think they are smart are mostly unable to figure out their identities. People are self-aware, know what position they are in, and what kind of things they should do.
In the TV series "Little Parting", Xiaoyu's stepmother is such an example.
In fact, she is not much older than Xiaoyu, but she has become Xiaoyu's stepmother, perhaps because of her young age, she did not correctly understand the identity of her stepmother.
In the play, she is like a rebellious sister, who has been fighting with Xiaoyu in the ring. In the understanding of ordinary people, even if the stepmother cannot love her husband's children as much as her mother, she must tolerate their non-being more than tit-for-tat.
Poor Xiaoyu, who is not compatible with his stepmother, is even more taught by his father. He burned paper money at home late at night to give money to his birth mother, but his stepmother thought that Xiaoyu was going to burn the house, and the two had a big quarrel.
The quarrels between the two in the play like this are not in the minority. If this stepmother can clear her identity and not worry more about children, it will not be a peaceful day.
After all, the harmony of home and everything, the harmony of the family, is related to the prosperity of men's careers. Women can clear their identity, do things in order to be reasonable, accumulate positive energy for themselves, and good luck will patronize.
Two: I can't figure out my own weight, and I am easy to be looked down upon
What women are most afraid of is that they can't figure out their own weight, obviously in the eyes of the other party, they are only friends who are more familiar with passers-by, but they regard themselves as each other's confidants, and they care about everything.
A woman's concern, only when the other party has you in her heart, will be as warm as sending charcoal in the snow.
If the woman's weight in the other party's heart is insufficient, and the woman perseveres in asking for care, it can only be classified as gossip, causing the other party to be more dissatisfied.
In the novel "A Slight Smile Is Very Charming", Xiao Nai fell in love with Bei Weiwei at the beginning, so he never paid attention to the pursuit of school flowers.
Once, the school flower called Shawnai's dormitory and sought Shawnai's help on the grounds that the computer was broken. In fact, the two of them have intersected and once hosted a party together.
The school flower thought that Xiao Nai was impressed by himself, but he was ashamed to take the first step, and the school flower finally plucked up the courage to take the initiative, but only had to come to Xiao Nai's sentence: Who are you?
Some women just can't figure out their weight in each other's hearts, thinking that the other party is obsessed with themselves, but in fact, the other party has long forgotten themselves in the jianghu.
When a woman asks the other party for help or an invitation on the grounds of familiar friendship, she will only put herself in an embarrassing situation.
Women who can clear their own weight never take the initiative easily. Because in their opinion, if the other party has himself in his heart, he will naturally come to care about it. If you answer it logically, you will not cause embarrassment to yourself.
Women can clear their own weight, in the eyes of the other party is a person who has a measure of the world, over time, but also to the people around them to leave a dignified and reserved reputation. A dignified and reserved woman, her luck will not be too bad, because her existence is already an attraction to good people.
Women are smart, don't say it yourself, let others praise it. A woman who thinks she is smart may be like a clown jumping beam in the eyes of others, after all, there are thousands of people in the world, and you are not the only one who is smart. A mountain and a mountain high, a woman who thinks she is smart, in the eyes of those who are really smart, is nothing more than a banmen axe.
Women who think they are smart often can't do things clearly, and naturally there will not be too many people willing to interact with them, and good luck will not often be taken care of.
Smart women always have a magnetic field around them that can attract like-minded people to come closer and provide themselves with help within their ability.
Smart people tend to keep a low profile, and those who have to reveal themselves all the time are actually just self-righteous.
Women, even if you think you're smart enough, know how to keep a low profile and be humble in your work. People who have the ability and don't like to show off can get more people's favor and bring more good luck to themselves. People who show off a little bit of skill are not really convincing.
Remember, the gun hits the head bird, don't be too out of the head in everything. Only by carrying yourself clearly can you calm others.
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