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In 2010, a Jiangsu woman saw a student like her ex-husband, and after investigation, it turned out to be her son who had been dead for 17 years

author:History is a bit cold

Victims have always sued buyers and traffickers when it comes to human trafficking, but have you ever heard of cases where buyers sue victims in turn? The Peixian People's Court in Jiangsu Province has heard the rare case of "China's first buyer suing the parents of abducted children".

When the son of a woman in Jiangsu was born, she was told that her legs suffered from "congenital disability", the woman's cousin and cousin threw the child outside, and the child was "frozen to death" alive, but 17 years later, the woman inadvertently found that a student was very similar to her ex-husband, after secretly doing a paternity test, it was her son who had "died" a long time ago.

In 2010, a Jiangsu woman saw a student like her ex-husband, and after investigation, it turned out to be her son who had been dead for 17 years
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Patriarchal in-laws

Born in an ordinary rural family, Zhang Caihong went to school late, and only graduated from a health school in the northeast at the age of 25, after graduation, Zhang Caihong was arranged by her family to work in a hospital in her hometown of Pei County.

Zhang Caihong is young and beautiful, and a nurse, there are some suitors around, Li Dejun who works at the bus station is one of them, Li Dejun is funny and humorous, and Zhang Caihong has a lot of common topics, over time, Zhang Caihong liked Li Dejun, the two knew each other, and soon walked into the palace of marriage together.

The young couple is newly married, the day and the united beauty, Zhang Caihong's mother-in-law because of Zhang Caihong's work, is also very fond of this daughter-in-law, Li Dejun's family are very concerned about Zhang Caihong.

As the days passed, half a year later, Zhang Caihong found out that she was pregnant, and her new mother could not suppress the joy in her heart, and quickly told her mother-in-law the good news. Zhang Caihong's mother-in-law was also very happy to learn the news that her daughter-in-law was pregnant, and she immediately said that she would cover all the housework in the future, and Zhang Caihong would concentrate on work and raising a fetus.

Zhang Caihong's mother-in-law said and did what she said, since then, she has never let Zhang Caihong touch the housework, and always buys some delicious food for Zhang Caihong on weekdays, afraid that the children in Zhang Caihong's belly lack nutrition.

One day, Zhang Caihong's mother-in-law smiled and touched Zhang Caihong's belly, "Rainbow, your belly is sharp, it looks like a boy, our old Li family is going to have grandchildren." ”

Zhang Caihong listened but was not happy at all, she did not agree with her mother-in-law's words, in her opinion, both boys and girls are their own children.

"Mom, what if it's a baby girl in my belly?" Zhang Caihong wanted to try her mother-in-law's opinion.

In 2010, a Jiangsu woman saw a student like her ex-husband, and after investigation, it turned out to be her son who had been dead for 17 years

Zhang Caihong

Unexpectedly, the mother-in-law immediately changed her face: "Oh, what do you say, what do you say, the one in your stomach must be a male baby, if it is really a female baby, then beat it off, the next fetus must be a male baby." ”

Zhang Caihong also thought that the mother-in-law was just joking, and did not put it in her heart, but she did not expect that the mother-in-law was serious, and after a few days, Zhang Caihong's mother-in-law urged Zhang Caihong to go to the hospital to check the gender of the child, at this time Zhang Caihong was pregnant for 4 months, she wanted to check the child's gender is nothing, can the mother-in-law really give up her granddaughter.

It is reasonable to say that the national law explicitly prohibits the private identification of the sex of the fetus, but Zhang Caihong can't help but the mother-in-law has been making a fuss, so she simply used her convenience as a nurse to go to the hospital to check the sex of the fetus.

The test results came out, it was a girl, Zhang Caihong's heart was a little heavy, not that she did not like girls, but did not know how to persuade her mother-in-law to accept the child, Zhang Caihong's mother-in-law since she knew that the child in Zhang Caihong's belly was a girl, she saw that Zhang Rainbow's nose was not a nose, her eyes were not eyes, and she always said some ugly words.

What makes Zhang Caihong even more sad is that the mother-in-law actually asked her to beat up the child and ask her husband to get another one, Zhang Caihong's unreasonable request for the mother-in-law, angry to the point of trembling, but hindered by the fact that the mother-in-law is an elder, she can only sulk herself.

In the evening, after Zhang Caihong's husband Li Dejun returned home, Zhang Caihong complained to her husband about what happened today, but the reaction of her husband Li Dejun was extremely disappointing to Zhang Caihong.

Li Dejun not only did not comfort his daughter-in-law, but stood on the same front as his mother, "Rainbow, my mother is right, now the child is still young, and it will not hurt your body much, and we are all still young." ”

In 2010, a Jiangsu woman saw a student like her ex-husband, and after investigation, it turned out to be her son who had been dead for 17 years

Zhang Caihong did not expect that her husband was such a patriarchal person, she said angrily: "What's wrong with the girl, isn't the girl your child?" Anyway I don't fight, you don't hurt, I hurt her. ”

After learning that the daughter-in-law insisted on giving birth to the child in her belly, Zhang Caihong's mother-in-law instigated her son and family to isolate Zhang Caihong, the family cold violence is the most uncomfortable, Zhang Caihong can endure at first, but as time goes on, she becomes more and more aggrieved.

Moreover, she is now pregnant, her husband is also chosen by herself, and if she divorces now, she is not embarrassed to stay in her mother's house, in order to save her family, Zhang Caihong can only compromise and give up her daughter.

Zhang Caihong's parents heard the news of their daughter's miscarriage, immediately rushed to her home, Zhang Caihong's mother hated her daughter iron and steel, and at the same time she was extremely distressed about her daughter, she and Zhang Caihong's mother-in-law had a big fight.

But this one did not let Zhang Caihong's in-laws cherish Zhang Caihong, but let the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, who had a gap, drop to the freezing point.

Soon after, Zhang Caihong became pregnant again, and Zhang Caihong's mother-in-law had a good look at Zhang Caihong, "Heaven bless, bless the daughter-in-law's fetus must be a male baby." ”

When the month came to identify the sex of the fetus, Zhang Caihong's mother-in-law began to urge Zhang Caihong to go to the hospital to check the child's gender. But after suffering a loss, how could Zhang Caihong listen to her mother-in-law's words again, and she decided that this time, whether male or female, she would give birth.

In order to avoid her mother-in-law's daily nagging, Zhang Caihong decided to go to her mother's house to give birth.

In 2010, a Jiangsu woman saw a student like her ex-husband, and after investigation, it turned out to be her son who had been dead for 17 years

Stayed in the mother's house for more than half a year, and finally waited until the day of imminent delivery, but because of the child's reasons, Zhang Caihong's mother and mother-in-law had a quarrel again, Zhang Caihong's mother was angry with Zhang Rainbow's mother-in-law, after returning home, she would always complain to her daughter, Zhang Caihong listened to more and was upset.

However, the in-laws could not go back, and her husband Li Dejun was still angry with her because she insisted on giving birth to a child, and her father-in-law called directly to ask her not to go home first.

At this time, Zhang Caihong thought of her cousin Wei Chenghe, who grew up with her, and she remembered that there was also a health center near her cousin's home, so Zhang Caihong simply packed up her things and went to her cousin.

According to Zhang Caihong, in the few days when his cousin Wei Chenghe's family was waiting for childbirth, his cousin and cousin cared for themselves very much, and they treated themselves as sisters, and it was precisely for this reason that Zhang Caihong never doubted that his cousin and cousin would actually do that kind of thing to himself, so that he could live in pain for more than ten years, and also completely broke off the affection between the two families, so what did Zhang Caihong's cousin and cousin do to make Zhang Caihong so painful?

Parents and children "freeze to death" and go to the northeast

In 1993, Zhang Caihong gave birth to a baby boy in a hospital near her cousin Wei Chenghe's home, and after giving birth to the child, Zhang Caihong finally breathed a sigh of relief, the mother-in-law's family has always favored sons over daughters, and now that she has a son, her life may be better in the future.

However, before it was too late to be happy, the cousin's next words made Zhang Caihong's mood fall to the bottom.

"Rainbow, this child's legs can't be straightened, I'm afraid he's not a cripple, right?"

Zhang Caihong sighed in her heart, and vaguely had a bad guess, she was worried that the child was "crippled" because she often accompanied patients to X-rays on weekdays?

In 2010, a Jiangsu woman saw a student like her ex-husband, and after investigation, it turned out to be her son who had been dead for 17 years

Zhang Caihong and her sister

Zhang Caihong had just given birth, and when her body was weak, she asked her cousin and sister-in-law to let them take their son to the hospital for examination. Half a day passed, Zhang Caihong, who was lying in the ward, finally waited for the figure of her cousin, she got up and asked: "Sister-in-law, how is the child, what did the doctor say?" ”

Zhang Caihong's cousin pretended to have an unbearable expression: "The doctor said that the child's legs are disabled, and when he grows up, he is paralyzed, and this child will drag you down in the future. ”

Throwing the child away, what is this? Zhang Caihong struggled to get up to find her child, in Zhang Caihong's view, no matter how the child's body is, even if he is a disabled person in the future, it is also a piece of meat that fell from her body.

"Sister-in-law, why don't you say a word to me and throw my child away, you take me to him, no matter what, he is my child." 」

Zhang Caihong struggled to get out of the hospital bed, at this time the cousin who was standing next to him could not see it, he said: "Rainbow, you have just given birth, you can't get off the ground, since you insist on raising that child, brother will find you back." ”

Hearing his cousin's words, Zhang Caihong temporarily put his mind at ease, Zhang Caihong's cousin went out to look for the child, but Zhang Caihong waited in the hospital for half a day, did not see his cousin come back, was in a hurry, and saw his cousin push the door in.

Zhang Caihong was busy asking if he had found the child, but his cousin said that the child was found, but because it had been thrown outside for too long, it had now been frozen to death.

Zhang Caihong collapsed instantly, the son is a piece of meat that fell from her body, and then the child is gone, how she has to explain to the in-laws, and the "original intention" of the cousin and cousin is also for her own good, she can not blame the cousin, cousin, in order to escape from this sad place, Zhang Caihong went to the northeast alone after being discharged from the hospital to join her classmates, and no longer contacted the people in her hometown.

The son of "resurrection from the dead"

Zhang Caihong "disappeared", even her mother's family did not know where she went, Li Dejun was angry, and sued the court for divorce from Zhang Caihong.

In 2010, a Jiangsu woman saw a student like her ex-husband, and after investigation, it turned out to be her son who had been dead for 17 years

Time is a good medicine to heal the pain, after a few years in the northeast, Zhang Caihong's pain of losing her son was slowly cured, and after a long time, she also missed her parents, so with the help of friends, she sorted out her mood and returned to her hometown.

Soon after returning to her hometown, Zhang Caihong met her current husband, so she planned to let go of the past and start a new life. The days after marriage were plain and happy, but just when Zhang Caihong thought that everything had passed, a conversation she overheard overturned all the calm.

Zhang Caihong clearly remembers that it was a day in January 2010, when Zhang Caihong was concentrating on giving injections to patients in the hospital ward, when suddenly, the conversation between a young man and woman next to her caught Zhang Caihong's attention, and she listened quietly.

The woman lowered her voice and said to the man next to her, "You know what? I heard that my neighbor's child was born to a female nurse in this hospital, and I heard that the woman's husband worked at the bus station, and she thought her child had been frozen to death. ”

The nurse's child, her husband working at the bus station, and the child being "frozen to death" is not what I am talking about? Zhang Caihong immediately eased up, just wanted to ask the man and woman clearly, but the man and woman were gone, Zhang Caihong hurried out, looked around, and did not see the figure.

Zhang Caihong returned to the hospital in a trance, but he couldn't calm down, didn't his cousin and cousin say that the child had been "frozen to death"? How can I still hear the news of the child now, but since the child is still alive, why did the cousin lie to himself that the child was "frozen to death"? Why should he lie to himself?

Suspicion is like a seed taking root in Zhang Caihong's heart, the more Zhang Caihong thinks about it, the more she feels that something is wrong, and she secretly resolves to understand this matter.

In 2010, a Jiangsu woman saw a student like her ex-husband, and after investigation, it turned out to be her son who had been dead for 17 years

Zhang Caihong confessed this matter to her current husband, and unexpectedly, her husband actually supported Zhang Caihong to find her son, and with her husband's support, Zhang Caihong was even more determined to find her son's heart.

Zhang Caihong thought that since the man and woman would appear in the hospital, it was very likely that they were from the county, then their neighbors could also be people from the county, 17 years later, the son is now estimated to have gone to high school, and it is very likely to find the son when he goes to the high school school in the county.

Since then, Zhang Caihong has time to go to the gates of various high schools in the county to look for the figure of his son, this day Zhang Caihong stood at the door of a high school as usual, looking for boys who looked like her ex-husband among the students who came and went, just at this time, a boy's figure appeared in Zhang Rainbow's vision.

There was a very familiar feeling in the boy's eyebrows, like her ex-husband Li Dejun was like herself, Zhang Caihong quietly asked the others for the boy's name according to the excitement, and it turned out that the boy's name was Liu Shangshang.

After in-depth understanding, Zhang Caihong's back was cold, it turned out that the boy's mother was called Zhang Yongyun, and Zhang Yongyun was the sister of Zhang Caihong's cousin, and the truth of the matter was about to come out.

Zhang Caihong, who calmed down, decided not to fight the grass snake first, she found her ex-husband Li Dejun and wanted Li Dejun to go with her to take Liu Shangshang for a paternity test, so that she could justifiably bring the child home.

But what Zhang Caihong did not expect was that Li Dejun actually refused her request: "Back then, you insisted on going to your cousin to give birth to a child, and the child was gone, but you left, have you ever thought about how I lived?" ”

"Besides, I haven't seen this child before, I don't have feelings, I now have my own family and children, and have you ever thought that if you admit it, it may destroy my current family?"

In 2010, a Jiangsu woman saw a student like her ex-husband, and after investigation, it turned out to be her son who had been dead for 17 years

The ex-husband can have this kind of thought, Zhang Caihong is not surprised, after all, he did not blink at the beginning to ask himself to beat up their daughter, for the ex-husband's worries, Zhang Caihong also said that she can understand, she will not force the ex-husband again.

Unable to convince her ex-husband, Zhang Caihong went by herself, she found Liu Shangshang, looking at the big boy in front of her, Zhang Caihong couldn't help but choke and Explain everything to Liu Shangshang: "Child, I am your mother, when I was...). ”

"If you don't believe it, we'll do a paternity test." Zhang Caihong said that he had persuaded Liu Shangshang to the hospital.

Waiting for the result of the time is difficult, fortunately, the identification results show that Liu Shangshang and Zhang Caihong are the relationship between biological mother and son, Zhang Caihong's heart of the big stone finally put down, at the same time, a fierce resentment gushed into the heart, the cousin, the cousin lied to themselves that the child was "disabled" and was "frozen to death", but turned around and gave his child to his cousin's sister, but he was their own cousin? These two mouths can also be handed?

Zhang Caihong said that she had been in a state of collapse in the days after learning the truth, and she could not accept that her cousin who was connected by blood had deceived herself.

Zhang Caihong calmed down at home for two days, in the company of her husband to find the cousin, cousin's residence, want them to help them recognize the child, Zhang Caihong thought that she would hear the cousin and cousin repentant voice, but did not expect that the questioning words have not been spoken, the cousin and cousin who have not seen for many years have a big change of face, and then blasted her out of the house.

"Wei Chenghe, you lied to me, I am your sister!" You have lost your conscience and taken away my child, I am sorry for you, you have to treat me like this! Zhang Caihong collapsed and sat on the ground in front of Wei Chenghe's door.

In 2010, a Jiangsu woman saw a student like her ex-husband, and after investigation, it turned out to be her son who had been dead for 17 years

However, Wei Chenghe and his wife did not have the slightest hint of guilt, and they even arrogantly said, "You are dead heart!" I will not go with you to have children, you have a kind of go to court to sue me, if you don't sue me, you will admit your fate! ”

Zhang Caihong only now recognizes her cousin's face, she wiped the tears from her face, came to the public security bureau to report the case, accused Wei Chenghe of abducting and selling children, but Zhang Caihong did not expect that the police actually refused to file a case on the grounds that the litigation period had passed 10 years.

A difficult road to confession

Zhang Caihong returned to Xuzhou in despair, no matter what, she planned to tell him the origin of her son first, he did not know that he was his biological mother!

What made Zhang Caihong even more devastated was that she couldn't find her own child anymore, it turned out that Wei Chenghe told Zhang Yongyun the news that Zhang Caihong was looking for a child, and in order to prevent Zhang Caihong from recognizing the child, Zhang Yongyun transferred Liu Shangshang to another school.

It was not easy to find his own child, how could Zhang Caihong be willing to give up?

Since that day, Zhang Caihong has joined various abduction groups, "Baby Home Group", seeking help from enthusiastic people on Weibo, Zhang Caihong said: "I have endured for 17 years, I am not afraid, no matter how long I look for, I will not give up." ”

Xuzhou to Pei County, two years of time, Zhang Rainbow back and forth do not know how many times to run, as long as there is a little wind and grass, Zhang Rainbow will not give up. Fortunately, Huangtian did not pay off, and finally in early June 2013, Zhang Caihong received a call from a well-wisher, who revealed that Liu Shangshang would return to Pei County to take the college entrance examination.

Zhang Caihong cried with joy, she came to her son with the paternity test report, hoping that his son could call herself a mother, she had been waiting for this day for 19 years.

In 2010, a Jiangsu woman saw a student like her ex-husband, and after investigation, it turned out to be her son who had been dead for 17 years

Zhang Caihong and son Liu Shangshang

However, Liu Shangshang looked at the woman in front of him with a cold face: "Why didn't you say that you were my mother when you threw me away, and now that I'm doing well, what are you doing?" ”

Zhang Caihong was in tears, she could guess why her son hated her, it must be the son's adoptive father and adoptive mother who fabricated some rumors of their own, saying that they abandoned their son first.

Zhang Caihong quickly explained: "Son, not the mother does not want you, when the mother just gave birth, the mother's cousin lied to me that you have a physical disability, I said that the disability is also my child, I let them take you to check, did not expect them to lie to me and said that I threw you away, I begged them to find you, but they lied to me that you have been "frozen to death", child, you are born in October by your mother, how can I abandon you. ”

At this time, the volunteers on the side took out a rainbow diary and ticket: "Shang Shang, what your mother said is true, you look at the tickets for these two years, your mother has never given up on you!" ”

The buyer sues the victim

Liu Shangshang read Zhang Caihong's diary and realized how sad his mother had been over the years, and he did not expect that "parents" would actually deceive him. His biological mother suffered so much grievance for him, Liu Shangshang decided to live with his biological mother.

Out of anger, Liu Shangshang did not say a word to his adoptive father and adoptive mother and followed Zhang Caihong, under the guidance of Zhang Caihong, Liu Shangshang also changed his idea of going to work after graduating from high school, he successfully participated in the college entrance examination and successfully entered the university.

However, just when Zhang Caihong thought everything was back on track, a court summons interrupted her peaceful life.

It turned out that her son's adoptive father and adoptive mother sued her in court and demanded that she compensate 300,000 yuan in maintenance.

Looking at the court summons in her hand, Zhang Caihong was trembling with anger, she looked at the child's face, and did not sue Zhang Yongyun for abducting and selling children, but now they were beaten upside down. On September 25, 2013, the Peixian People's Court in Jiangsu Province publicly tried a rare case known as "China's first case in which a buyer sued the parents of an abducted child."

Zhang Yongyunfang's lawyer said that Zhang Caihong had no ability to raise the child at that time, and Zhang Yongyun and his wife raised Liu Shangshang for 20 years, counting education expenses, medical expenses, etc., and it was reasonable to claim 300,000 yuan.

In 2010, a Jiangsu woman saw a student like her ex-husband, and after investigation, it turned out to be her son who had been dead for 17 years

Court scene

Zhang Caihong was simply laughed at, she was a nurse, and her in-laws at that time were also well-off, how could they not be able to raise her. Zhang Caihong's lawyer also produced strong evidence that Zhang Yongyun and his wife were illegally adopted, and that the two of them already had a daughter when they adopted Liu Shangshang, and that both were under the age of 35 at the time.

Things have reached this point, which is right and wrong, the judge has already decided, seeing that there is no hope of winning the lawsuit, Zhang Yongyun and his wife expressed their willingness to mediate, but at this time Zhang Caihong was already unwilling to mediate, she said that she would counter-sue, to make her cousin, cousin and Zhang Yongyun and his wife pay the price.

At the end of the trial, Zhang Yongyun and his wife looked at their son who had been raised for 20 years, and their hearts were sad and uncomfortable, they said that they did not really want 300,000, but they were angry that the child left without a word, and they hurt Liu Shangshang for 20 years!

In this regard, it can only be said that without abduction, there is no harm, if it were not for Wei Chenghe and his wife doing the wrong thing, there would be no current situation, I hope that all the abducted children can find their biological parents, and I hope that there is no abduction in the world.

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