Nowadays, when we choose the other half, the first thing we think about should be the other party's family situation, rather than whether we and the other party are suitable or have feelings. I just think that if the other party's family conditions are good enough, then it can help their future life or career, so these people do not feel that they are at fault, but feel that they are the current affairs of the times as Junjie.
But we are going to live with each other for a lifetime, not like a child,So this is a major event in our life, we must be cautious and take into account all aspects of the conditions, rather than for the sake of a little bit of small profit in front of us to choose our own marriage, such a marriage, even if it is at that time, the contradiction will definitely break out in the future.
And girls must be clear about whether the other party is for your family situation, and you are with, or sincerely want to marry you, do not be blinded by love.
Today's story comes from the sharing of fan Wang Qiang.
The other half of the grease mouth slippery tongue
Wang Qiang and Li Pengyu met at the company's party, and Li Pengyu saw that Wang Qiang was a charming and independent woman, so he took the initiative to talk to Wang Qiang, and Wang Qiang also felt that Li Pengyu was a very humorous and interesting person. So the two of them started chatting, and the conversation became more and more intense.
Afterwards, Li Pengyu and Wang Qiang also added contact information, and often contacted, just like that, the two of them met in one after another, and Li Pengyu began to pursue Wang Qiang.
In the face of Li Pengyu's pursuit, Wang Qiang was very happy, because after all, she also had a good feeling for Li Pengyu, plus Li Pengyu was indeed an interesting person, often making himself laugh, but Wang Qiang felt that he could not casually agree to Li Pengyu, and should first test Li Pengyu for a while.
Li Pengyu, who learned of this incident, was not angry, but calmly said to Wang Qiang: "It's okay, it's normal for you to think so, and I myself am confident that I can pass your test, and I only hope that you will not deny the account when the time comes."
Wang Qiang felt that Li Pengyu's attitude was very good, unlike other people who were high above, but he respected his choices very much, and he was also very considerate in his daily life, never ignoring his feelings, but taking into account all aspects.
Therefore, after getting along for a while, Wang Qiang felt that Li Pengyu was a perfect suitor, never putting pressure on himself, but patiently waiting for his own decision, and would not let himself get off the stage in front of everyone.
The most important thing is that Li Pengyu has no other friends of the opposite sex around him, even the contact information is very small, and Li Pengyu took Wang Qiang to meet his best friend, which made Wang Qiang feel very happy, and naturally agreed to Li Pengyu's pursuit.
After the two people were together, Wang Qiang felt that she was spoiled in the sky, and she didn't have to think about anything, and she wouldn't be angry at both ends for three days like other people's girlfriends, because Li Pengyu wouldn't make Wang Qiang angry at all, but whenever she saw that Wang Qiang's mood was a little wrong, she would take the initiative to apologize.
And Li Pengyu never plays disappearing, and will talk to Wang Qiang in advance before doing anything.
Negotiate marriage
After the two people were together for two years, Li Pengyu proposed marriage to Wang Qiang, and promised that he would not let Wang Qiang suffer a little grievance in the future, and in the two years of getting along, Li Pengyu was indeed a qualified boyfriend, and Wang Qiang was also very satisfied with this boyfriend, so he did not hesitate to agree to Li Pengyu's marriage proposal.
Then the two people went to see the parents of both sides, and expressed to their parents the idea of getting married, and then the parents of both sides did not have any dissatisfaction, the only thing that made Wang Qiang's parents a little worried was that Li Pengyu's family situation was not very good, and after meeting Li Pengyu's mother, they always felt that Li Pengyu's mother was not a particularly good person to get along with, so Wang Qiang's parents were afraid that Wang Qiang would be wronged after marrying in the past, but Wang Qiang felt that a boyfriend like Li Pengyu would definitely not let himself be trapped in the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Wang Qiang's parents were indeed quite satisfied with Li Pengyu, so they thought of discussing the issue of the bride price and marriage.
In this regard, the attitude of Li Pengyu's family is that the family's economic situation is not good, and Li Pengyu also has a younger brother, so it is impossible to come up with too many bride price, otherwise Li Pengyu's brother will not be able to marry his daughter-in-law, so I hope that Wang Qiang's family can be more considerate.
The opinion of Wang Qiang's parents is that no matter what the economic situation in the family is, it is always necessary to come up with some bride price, because this not only represents money, but also represents the attitude of the man, and it is also a custom, in order to please a good lottery, so this matter is inevitable, but since Li Pengyu's family economic situation is not good, it is completely fine to give less.
In the end, Wang Qiang and Li Pengyu discussed the matter with a dowry of 30,000 yuan, and the marriage of the two people was finally decided.
Nature exposed
After getting married, although Li Pengyu was still very good to Wang Qiang at first, I don't know why, Wang Qiang just felt that Li Pengyu's attitude was not as good as before, and even seemed to be getting worse and worse every day.
But then I thought about it, maybe Li Pengyu was too busy at work or had other troubles, so Wang Qiang felt that she should be more considerate of Li Pengyu and should not make a fuss about everything.
However, this situation became more and more serious day by day, and Li Pengyu even began to perfunctory Wang Qiang, because Wang Qiang called Li Pengyu and asked Li Pengyu: "What are you doing?" Why don't you go home so late? ”
Li Pengyu said impatiently: "I work overtime in the company, so I will hang up without anything." After speaking, Li Pengyu hung up the phone.
At this time, Wang Qiang's heart was very uncomfortable, because Wang Qiang obviously heard the noise of Li Pengyu's side, so Li Pengyu did not work overtime in the company at all, but in the bar, and Li Pengyu never took the initiative to hang up Wang Qiang's phone in the past.
Wang Qiang sat on the sofa and waited for Li Pengyu until the early morning when Li Pengyu came back drunk, and Wang Qiang immediately went up to help, but Li Pengyu did not take care of Wang Qiang, but fell back to sleep.
Early the next morning, Li Pengyu said to Wang Qiang, "Do you have any money in your hands?" Give me a few hundred bucks, my brother is getting married, and we should buy him a house more or less. ”
Wang Qiang's eyes widened and she asked Li Pengyu, "Why did your brother buy a house when he got married?"
Li Pengyu said with a straight face: "Isn't this what it should be?" After all, I was a brother, and we didn't have any money in the family. ”
Wang Qiang was angry, and then said: "However, this should not be you buying a house for your brother, besides, what money do you have?" What do you buy for him? ”
Li Pengyu said, "Isn't this yours?" You go home and ask your parents how many to take? You have money at home anyway. ”
Wang Qiang said, "What do you mean by that?" Where is the girl who asks the family to take the money and buy a house for the little uncle? I wouldn't take the money anyway, and I wouldn't do it in the future, because after all, I was already married, and I couldn't take it from my family. ”
Li Pengyu said, "Marry you to help my family get rid of poverty, otherwise I'd rather beat a bare stick."
At this time, Wang Qiang understood that Li Pengyu did not really love himself at all, but looked at his own family and thought that he could help him, so he pursued himself so hard, thinking of this, Wang Qiang felt a little ridiculous, and then sneered at Li Pengyu and said: "Then as you wish." You hit the bare stick and go, let's get a divorce. ”
Li Pengyu was also angry, and then said: "Leave, leave, I am afraid that you will not succeed."
After the divorce, Li Pengyu became destitute, and he did not find a foolish girl like Wang Qiang who was willing to give a low bride price to their family.
When Li Pengyu first met Wang Qiang, he knew that Wang Qiang was a rich man, so he spared no effort to pursue Wang Qiang, and Wang Qiang was also deceived by Li Pengyu's slippery tongue, chose to be with Li Pengyu, and even married.
In fact, there are many men like this, they do not think about how to make their careers to a higher level, but constantly deceive rich women, hoping to change their poverty through women's family situation, even if the girl's personality is not good, they can endure for money, but also pretend to be obsessed. And there are many girls can not distinguish the true face of boys, just think that boys are sincere in their love, and can accept and tolerate all their small shortcomings, such boys are simply the ideal type in their hearts, but after marriage, everything is also the truth, they will regret their sloppiness.
Today's Topic:
Have you ever met someone like Li Pengyu?
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