The ratio of men to women has always been a major concern. Teacher Zeng also saw a set of data on the census published on the Internet, showing that there are nearly 9.4 million single men and women in the mainland between the ages of 30 and 35. Among them, the number of leftover women is as high as 2.392 million.
In fact, women can't find a partner, when to get married, we have no right to ask, but the data of more than 2 million people really feel shocked. If women don't care whether the other party has a house or a car, doesn't care how much bride price the other party gives, and can have no requirements on academic qualifications, a woman wants to marry herself out, in fact, it is not so difficult.
So, what is the reason for the emergence of a large number of elderly leftover women on the mainland?
Some people said that perhaps because there are more strong women in the contemporary era, they can create a sense of material security for themselves, and do not need men to provide a safe haven for themselves to dock, so women's mate selection standards are generally high, which has caused a large number of elderly leftover women on the mainland.
Some people also said that women are now independent of the price, and they do not want to become a "nanny" after marrying a man, serving a family every day.
However, none of the above are the main reasons, and what really makes them feel "good alone" is the poisonous chicken soup articles pushed daily on the Internet.
These poisonous chicken soups erode women's desire to get married every day, and over time, women become reluctant to get married.
Poisonous chicken soup brings the following hazards:
1. Make women feel like they can stand alone and don't need a warm family
The typical idea is: I can cook, I can also earn money, and I earn no less than men, what is the use of men?
One person cooks, eats alone, two people eat, in order to eat the temperature of the meal, so that a meal has a feeling of home. One person earns money, earns very hard, but two people earn money, you can build a nest of love together, let each other build a harbor of love for each other.
In this world, most people are eager to have a harmonious and happy family, although in a young age, you may be young and vigorous, you can live alone very dashingly, but in your old age, you will find that loneliness will erode a person's soul and make you feel particularly helpless.
2. Make female friends have negative emotions of fear of marriage
Now some short video platforms, every day will push some poisonous chicken soup, many women in this poisonous chicken soup erosion, full of fear of marriage, become a "fear of marriage", they treat marriage is prohibitive, dare not step into the palace of marriage, do not dare to touch marriage.
Many short videos are saying: Sisters, there is no good man in this world, I would rather believe that there are ghosts in the world than believe in the mouth of a man, do not easily step into the temple of marriage, because after you enter the marriage, you will find that you have entered a deep grave.
These copywriters make girls dare not easily believe in love. If women want to live more rationally, they must stay away from these "poisonous chicken soups" and make themselves a thoughtful person, rather than fully accepting the content of poisonous chicken soup.
It can be said that these poisonous chicken soups have indirectly caused the phenomenon that there are more leftover women on the mainland. Man is a social creature, leaving the crowd, he will feel lonely, lonely, and it is easy to produce negative emotions.
Women are weak, whether you are a strong woman in your career or not, you need a precious love to care for yourself, and having the nourishment of love will make your career develop better and make your life more motivated.
Some women lack the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, they always "take all the orders" on the content of the poisonous chicken soup, will remember the content of the poisonous chicken soup, and feel that they should be a dashing single woman, but you ask yourself, do you really want to live your life alone? In the depths of your soul, don't you have the slightest desire to have sweet love?
Every woman should have her own happiness, let herself be nourished by love, embrace a better life, and become a better self.