Venus said:
"To pursue a teenage girl, you must use sweet words; to pursue a girl in her 20s, you must use flowers; to pursue a girl in her 30s, you must use your heart."
Women are constantly growing, and when we were a little girl, we felt that we could not do anything, as long as this person could do it.
When we are a 20-something girl, we also have to pursue romance, see some gifts sent to us by the other party, we will also feel special happiness and happiness, because these are some indispensable things in love, we will love a person more deeply because of these things.
When we reach our 30s, we experience some emotional pain, we feel that sometimes it is not enough to have this person, at the same time, we also understand that romance can not be eaten as a meal, and some other aspects of men are more important, so at this time, we become picky.
But we've also become sensible, and in some ways we're not so picky.
So many people feel, however, then again, middle-aged women don't want much, conquer a middle-aged woman, do the following three points, basically get it done.
01.
Care for women
When you pursue a middle-aged woman, you have to give the other person enough care.
A teacher once said to us:
"When you reach middle age, you will find that women are becoming more and more vulnerable, and some of the ideas in women's minds are sometimes unthinkable and impossible for men to appreciate."
Men feel pain when they encounter something because you do have some problems. However, when women do not encounter some things, they will also feel particularly melancholy in their hearts, which is a state of mind for women, because women pay too much attention to feelings and are too emotional.
Therefore, sometimes small things will become big things, and some things that are simply dispensable in the eyes of the eyes will be magnified, and it will not be painful for themselves, and they will not be happy for others.
A man must know how to care for this woman in terms of heart, because a woman's heart is relatively fragile, and the more she grows up, the more fragile she is.
On the other hand, women's physical aspects are also different from men's, and when a woman reaches middle age, she is actually very easy to get sick.
Women's body structure is also different from men's, so it is also more fragile, and when a woman reaches middle age, she may go to the hospital.
Then at this time, men must silently care about this woman in the back, and when they take women to the hospital, they will also make women feel warm.
You don't let a woman go to the hospital alone, if you do something like this, the woman will become very rational, will wake up, and will leave you immediately.
02.
Single-mindedness
If a man is devoted to a woman, the woman will also feel that the man is a particularly reliable person and is willing to associate with this man.
A teenage girl, if she has been betrayed in her feelings, then this little girl will cry and cry. The little girl will also try to save this man, because the little girl feels that she has paid a lot in her feelings, and after she breaks up with this man, she will not be reconciled.
But a middle-aged woman will never think like this, middle-aged women often know how to see a man, so when this man betrays himself, smart middle-aged women will immediately leave this man.
Because women know to betray themselves, only once and countless times, this time has been betrayed, so women have been discouraged, as people say, once unfaithful, a hundred times not.
Middle-aged women especially value this, because middle-aged women care more about the second half of their lives, if this man is a playboy.
Then this man squanders his youth for a few years and then abandons the woman, which is a nightmare for the woman, the woman can no longer afford to spend, because the woman has no youth now, and the time that the woman has left is particularly precious.
Therefore, men must be professional, when you treat this woman wholeheartedly, there is no other woman in your heart, this woman will regard you as the most precious person in life, and will silently go down with you.
03.
There is a certain economic basis
Middle-aged men must have some economic foundation, do not ask you to be rich and noble, only that you are safe and secure, and have a certain ability to live.
So when you get a woman, you must understand that some of your financial problems will also become a thing that hinders your feelings.
Therefore, when a man reaches middle age, he must have a stable job, not asking you to have a particularly good job, but asking you to have a job that can support the family, so that women will feel solid.
Women must have suffered such losses when they were young: they did not covet this person's money, they were with this person, and finally found that they had nothing, and women will definitely eat a long and wise, so at this time they will definitely care about some things on your money.
There are some middle-aged women who are particularly powerful, and when these women are with a man, they look at the man's economic strength, if the man's economic strength is not good.
Then this woman will leave this man, and at this point, women, who are more picky in middle age, do not feel happy with this man like little girls.
A boy has nothing in his 20s, and many people think it is normal, because of such a situation now, many people below have gone to school, many men are almost 30 years old, and they have only graduated with a doctorate, so it is understandable that there is no money.
But when you reach middle age, it's different, you've been working for years, you've been going around in this society for so many years, you haven't saved a bit, and your job isn't so stable.
Well, this is a particularly scary thing for a woman, and women will feel that you are not capable, and will also feel that you are not a person who is not pursuing progress.
So the reason why women leave you is not just because you don't have money, but because you feel like you're with someone like you and don't see a future.
Middle-aged women don't want much, all they want is basic life stability, a sincere affection for you, and some insignificant concern for you.
What we want is particularly simple, but it is essential, because now what we want is to be practical. Some of the sufferings we have suffered in love are still so fresh in our memories when we reach middle age, so at this moment we will have defenses in our hearts.
But we also have expectations when we treat feelings, and we are particularly sincere when we treat a love object.
Then again, middle-aged women aren't picky, all we want is some basic stuff.