Girls are always the softest, always give all their heart to help the person they love, and will also love Ya and Wu. The other half's mother, even if she is not her own mother, will treat her well, and his brothers and sisters will treat them like family even if they are not related to themselves.
The same are women, as the same sex, in fact, should be more empathetic, especially the mother-in-law, she is also from the daughter-in-law, her daughter-in-law has what kind of feelings she knows better. After experiencing what others have experienced, how should we love and care for others, rather than harming others, it is said that only those who have been drenched in rain know how to hold umbrellas for others.
1. Despite objections
Li Zicheng and Du Ruoxi's parents were very opposed to the marriage of Du Ruoxi, because Du Ruoxi's parents did not have a very good impression of this man at first glance, a little cowardly, and gave people a feeling of stinginess.
"I wouldn't agree to your marriage to Li Zicheng, don't even think about it."
"Mom, why are you so opposed, I and Li Zicheng are truly in love."
"You have to believe that your mother will never harm you, and we are your parents who are all for your own good." Papa Du continued.
"You say it's good for me, but do you know what's good for me, and none of you know Li Zicheng."
"Your mother and I have been through so many years, what kind of person has not met, I know from his appearance and temperament that he is not good, he will not be good to you." 」
"But he's very nice to me now, gentle and considerate, and I don't know what's wrong."
"Not yet married, of course you can't see it, many people are exposed after marriage, if you can see it, it is a ghost." 」
"What age, you still look at people through their faces, and people have to understand the specific situation of this person through contact with you."
"Some people don't need to understand at all, just look at it, you don't believe us older generations." 」
"Mom, do you have to be like this, I just want to be with someone I like, I want to marry him, if there are really any consequences, I will bear it myself, I don't have to be responsible for you, I'm an adult, I have my own ideas." 」
Du Ruoxi's parents looked at Du Ruoxi's stubborn and stubborn appearance, and had to compromise, after all, there was only one daughter: "Since you insist on marrying him, it is okay, I and your father will not stop you, after all, it is our child, and I do not want to look at you sad, but no matter what kind of difficulties you have in the future, father and mother here will always be your dependence." ”
"Thank you Mom and Dad, I was a little excited when I just spoke, I'm sorry."
Finally, Du Ruoxi and Li Zicheng were together as she wished, and got married, just married this year, Li Zicheng was very good to Du Ruoxi, as long as it was what she wanted, she would try her best to satisfy. At the beginning, when he returned to his mother's house, Du Ruoxi would also show off to his parents: "Mom, you see these clothes, jewelry, bags, he bought me, not bad!" ”
"These things are not expensive, of course he will buy them for you, you are too stupid, think about everything for him, you don't think for yourself." 」
"Mom, things are not valuable, they are in the heart."
"Do as you please!"
2. Sell the house to save the mother-in-law
Every family will have a mother-in-law problem, Du Ruoxi is no exception, but for Du Ruoxi as long as he has his own husband to love himself, so sometimes the mother-in-law is dissatisfied with himself, although there is a mother-in-law to rely on, but Du Ruoxi does not want to tell his parents, let his parents worry, the most important thing is that he also swore that he will have a happy married life, do not want to let his parents feel that they have punched their faces so soon.
Once, when my mother-in-law was cooking at home, she suddenly went black and fainted on the ground. Du Ruoxi came out of the bedroom, found that there was no sound in the living room and kitchen, thought that the mother-in-law was out, he wanted to go to the kitchen to cook, only to find that the mother-in-law fainted on the ground, immediately dialed the ambulance phone, ten minutes later the emergency personnel came to Du Ruoxi's home.
The emergency personnel immediately made a simple examination and treatment of the mother-in-law, and then slowly moved the mother-in-law to the stretcher, and Du Ruoxi also followed him to the hospital and called Li Zicheng.
"Hey, husband, my mother-in-law fainted at home, I'm going to the hospital with the ambulance now, if you're off work, come to the hospital to see, I'm taking care of my mother-in-law in the hospital, you don't have to worry."
"You've worked hard, I'll come over right after work!"
The doctor did a lot of examinations for the mother-in-law, and finally came to the result, it is liver cancer, but fortunately, liver cancer has only changed from the initial stage to the middle stage, and there are opportunities for treatment, which is not malignant, that is, it requires a lot of funds for treatment, and the money should be prepared in advance.
Li Zicheng got off work, rushed to the hospital immediately, and asked Du Ruoxi: "How is my mother?" ”
"The mother-in-law has woken up and is infusing."
"So, what did the doctor say?"
"The doctor said that liver cancer is in the middle stage, and it can be treated, but it needs a lot of money, so let's prepare the money in advance."
"How much?"
"It might take half or six hundred thousand."
"So much, now the money is not enough, I only have a maximum of two hundred thousand."
"Don't worry, I'll work with you to find a way."
"Wife, didn't your mother buy you a house in the second ring road, and now you live with me, don't need to sell the house, for some money."
"I have to ask my parents if they agree with this."
"Wife, I beg you, help me well, relatives and friends are not reliable, I can only beg you, I only have this one mother."
"Well, I'll help you!"
3. Regret saving her
"That's the house I gave you, even if you quarrel in the future, you have a place to go, and now you have to sell it to save your mother-in-law, I don't agree."
"It's a very critical matter that people's lives are at stake, and she's also your mother."
"Does her son have no money, and he needs the help of this daughter-in-law in everything."
"Mom, I beg you, you can help him!"
"How many times have you begged me for his business?"
"Last time Mom."
"Okay, I promise you, if you think clearly, do it, anyway, I can't stop you every time."
Du Ruoxi told Li Zicheng that her mother promised to sell the house to save her mother-in-law, and the next day Li Zicheng and Du Ruoxi went to the intermediary company to sell the house, and the only requirement was that the money should arrive as soon as possible, and the house that could have been bought was only 950,000. But in order to save her mother-in-law, she had to agree.
With money, the mother-in-law's treatment is also very smooth, more than a year the mother-in-law can be discharged from the hospital to go home to recuperate, and Du Ruoxi has been at home to take care of the mother-in-law, but this mother-in-law is not sympathetic, during the period of taking care of her mother-in-law is still harsh and mean to her.
Once Du Ruoxi's parents wanted to come to see their daughter, by the way to see their own mother, because the door was not closed, Du Ruoxi's parents directly came in, just saw their daughter mopping the floor, without the initial look.
"How are you mopping the floor, how is this picture?"
"Mom, Dad, how did you get here?"
"We don't come to see you, we don't know you're making servants."
Before Du Ruoxi could speak, an order came from the room: "Du Ruoxi, grind what is it, cut some fruit for me." ”
"What is your tone, why, so call my daughter, I have raised a daughter for so many years, I am not willing to call." Mother Du directly shook back.
"Mother, why don't you say anything when you come?"
"If I were to talk to you, wouldn't I not see this picture?"
"Isn't it right for a daughter-in-law to serve her in-laws here, mother-in-law, you don't have a son, and if you do, you're like this."
"Stop, I'm not the same kind of person as you, selling a house to see a doctor for a phoenix man's mother is the stupidest decision in my life, daughter, let's go, tomorrow we will go to divorce, this time listen to me."
4. If you don't love, please don't hurt
The problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really a big problem since ancient times, and until now there has not been a good solution. In fact, the best way is for two people to understand each other and understand each other, which is the best way to solve the problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Some mothers-in-law are indeed unreasonable, and the daughter-in-law has been very tolerant of the mother-in-law, but the mother-in-law is still not spared. Everyone's heart should be more tolerant, think more about the good of others, and not be so bitter. After all, before she married into your family, it can be said that there is no ugliness and no complaints, so why treat her like an enemy.
To be your daughter-in-law, you should also give a little of your love, even if you don't want to share your love with her, then why hurt others, your daughter-in-law is also the precious daughter of others, holding in the palm of your hand.