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During the lunch break, my father hurriedly brought me a video call, saying that my grandmother was sick, let me take it to the hospital for examination, when I asked who else was accompanied, my father said that my grandmother's three children did not have time, and the surrounding relatives were not willing to come, so I became an accompanying family member when I was seven months pregnant.
Grandma is 76 years old this year, and Grandpa died on National Day last year, so Grandma's life now is to live with my sister and her granddaughter.
In fact, in this life, I am very sad for my grandmother, when my grandmother was not yet an adult, my parents both passed away, when my grandmother's generation also had a younger brother and a younger sister, my grandmother chose to give up the middle school that she had been admitted to all day in order to solve the problem of food and clothing, and maintained the family's livelihood all day.
When I got married as an adult, my first grandfather also died when my father was six years old, when my uncle was 10 years old and my father was 6 years old, my grandmother chose to remarry for the sake of a last resort, and then I gave birth to my aunt with my second grandfather, and then I worked hard with my grandfather to raise these three children.
Coincidentally, the first two years of grandpa was paralyzed, not long after the death, grandma also fell down because of an accident, broke a rib at the waist, grandma called these children and grandchildren one by one, except for my father and I who answered the phone and were willing to go back to take care of it, the other offspring said that they did not have time.
The attitude of the children after the matter came out
My uncle means that my aunt does not agree to take care of my grandmother, because of the traditional mother-in-law relationship, as long as my uncle helps his mother to do anything, it will cause quarrels between uncle and aunt, but uncle has not been able to be in a middle position, is to defend his wife, scold his mother for not being careful to bring trouble to future generations.
My aunt means that she is a married girl, these things should not have been taken care of by her, plus my grandmother has two sons, so there is no need to worry about herself, and what is even more speechless is that my aunt said that my grandmother did not help her much, and her two children did not let my grandmother take care of her, so she was not obliged to take care of her mother
My dad meant to take my grandma to the hospital for a check-up, but he didn't have the time himself, and he was quite far from home, so he needed to ask me to take care of it, and how much money he used to pay.
Treatment after going to the hospital for a check-up
The test results came out, is a rib above the waist broken, need to do minimally invasive implant surgery, before and after the operation need to spend about half a month, when I told my father about this result, my father's idea is more excessive, let me this 7 month pregnant woman to guard the hospital for half a month, I said that I am not convenient now, plus the company that works is not allowed to take leave for so long, but the father directly yelled at me, directly said that he did not have time.
Grandma also said after hearing that she did not want to be hospitalized for surgery to drag others down, or let my father come back to take care of it, my father has always insisted that I can make a lot of money a day and do not want to come back, saying that I don't earn much money anyway in this job, sacrifice me, there is no way, I only have to let my husband take leave to come and take the operation, the mother-in-law said that they are also willing to come and take care of it, after all, I am not very convenient to be pregnant
Written in the end: Grandma has worked hard for most of her life, and when she is old and needs to be taken care of, the posterity is all kinds of push and obstruction, and there are reasons why they are reluctant to come. So I am very sad for my grandmother, she never said this in front of me, all the grievances swallowed in my stomach, so as a descendant of us, I hope that I can do my best to make the old man live better.
I am Yuanqi Sugar, a post-95 self-media writer, whose desire is to achieve economic freedom through my own efforts