On January 19, Wang Xiaofei was interviewed by "Financial Appointment You", and for the first time responded positively to the divorce storm with his ex-wife Big S, which aroused the attention of netizens and was quickly sent to the hot search.
According to the official announcement of the divorce, a pair of children are currently living with Big S in Taipei, and under the epidemic, Wang Xiaofei is doomed to find it difficult to see the children.
When the host asked Wang Xiaofei: "Are you afraid that children will ask you that your parents are not together?" "What kind of father image do you want to establish for your child", Wang Xiaofei took up the teacup, pretended to drink water to hide his inner sourness, and replied with a bitter smile: "The child is quite young now and does not know" and "I don't know how to answer you now." ”
Regarding marriage, the host talked about his two classmates, the family background is completely different, from the beginning of a complete stranger, to come together, to go through ten years of marriage, thinking that this is already a very successful relationship. The host believes that there must be too many compromises in marriage, but people's nature is to pursue personality and freedom, and I don't know how Wang Xiaofei views this marriage?
Wang Xiaofei asked rhetorically, "I think they must have not experienced the epidemic in those ten years, right?" [The pandemic] has changed a lot of the way we used to live. The implication is clear that his marriage with Big S has come to an end, and the ongoing epidemic is the first killer.
The pandemic has changed lifestyles, lifestyles have changed marriages.
Long-term separation can not see each other, so that Wang Xiaofei and Big S's cross-strait marriage, the husband and wife feelings are getting weaker and weaker, as Big S said in response to the media, more and more in the direction of relatives and friendship. In the end, for the sake of both sides to be better, choose the right time, and separate decently and friendly.
After the divorce, Big S completely turned to the background, as a producer, and joined forces with his sister Xiao S to launch a new program "Xi Di Wants to Talk", spending more time and energy with accompanying the children.
After Wang Xiaofei's divorce, what she cares about most is her career, and at present, her brand hot pot restaurant has opened from Beijing to Chengdu, and her Shanghai store is about to open, and her career is on the right track.
Ten years ago, Wang Xiaofei and Big S fell in love at first sight and flashed love and marriage. After marriage, both of them made a lot of changes, loved each other deeply, and spent a flash marriage model of becoming a fairy couple.
In March last year, Wang Xiaofei risked the epidemic to fly to Taipei to give his beloved wife a pigeon egg diamond ring to celebrate the decade of marriage and look forward to the next decade. Interestingly, the diamond ring brand spokesperson happens to be ex-girlfriend Zhang Yuqi. In June, Big S suddenly unilaterally called for divorce, and Wang Xiaofei was caught off guard, saying that she did not know.
Many netizens once thought that it was a crisis public relations for Wang Xiaofei to talk nonsense. Unexpectedly, half a year later, it suddenly became a fact. Regarding the reason for the divorce of Big S and Wang Xiaofei, netizens first ate radish and worried about it, giving a lot of speculation.
It is said that it is because Wang Xiaofei's wealth has seriously shrunk, and he has not shown any ability to create wealth, and Big S wants to escape from the pseudo-giants. On this point, big S fans absolutely do not agree, if so, the decisive big S will not drag mud and water, and Wang Xiaofei's career will gradually improve.
It is said that it is because Wang Xiaofei is simple and rude, often drunk and unobstructed, so that big S is not good at being a person inside and out. Big S gave up marriage, took the initiative to cut, and saved himself and his family.
It is said that it is because Big S is a child slave, and when he married Wang Xiaofei, he was in order to find a suitable man and have his own children. Now that both children and daughters are complete, the purpose is perfectly achieved, and it does not matter whether the marriage is left or not.
The above are the subjective speculations of netizens, and there is no solid evidence so far. However, another negative speculation about Wang Xiaofei seems to have been verified afterwards.
It is said that under the epidemic situation, Wang Xiaofei, who has been separated for a long time, has been exposed from time to time in his prime, hurting the arrogance and self-esteem of Big S, so he was resolutely kicked out by the "Queen".
Soon after the divorce, Wang Xiaofei and Internet celebrity Zhang Yingying's lace has been continuous, with the same money chain, the same car in and out, the same live broadcast room, the same posture to play golf, and Zhang Lan and the three people traveling with Taishan... No matter how strongly Wang Xiaofei denied it, netizens did not buy it, and even determined that he had already cheated in marriage. Therefore, every time Wang Xiaofei is on the hot search recently, netizens leave messages without any courtesy.
In recent years, celebrities or public figures have seen more and more about love and marriage, and they have become more and more commonplace, and they have become less and less like breakups or divorces, and they have indiscriminately judged the character of the parties. It is increasingly believed that behind every marriage that dies halfway, there must be unspeakable bitterness and hidden feelings.
For example, Wang Xiaofei and Big S, after a three-hour voyage, he could fly to two places without hesitation to reunite with his wife and children. But in the two years that the epidemic lasted, the forced change of lifestyle, the long period of quarantine back and forth, and the high cost of time made reunions a luxury. Both sides must have endured too much helplessness and experienced too much suffering.
Wang Xiaofei's anxiety and exhaustion were fully displayed in Weibo. The most impressive, such as "I used to fly when I wanted to fly, back to Beijing, back to Taiwan, now I haven't seen my family in Taiwan for more than a month, and I haven't seen my parents in Beijing for more than six months... It's really tiring";
For example, "I'm a dad who has never been away from home for 5 days, this time for two months, and I'm fucking homesick." Sometimes when I think of my girlfriend, I will sweat inexplicably, have palpitations, and sweat all the time";
For example, "I haven't seen you in months, and I don't dare to recognize it when I go back... Or will they really become brothers and sisters";
For example, "quarantine for 210 days, go home for the Spring Festival, and then go back to work"... I believe that the number "210" is definitely not a slippery hand, but a life in the heart.
Under the epidemic, it is not easy for anyone. The same is true of Wang Xiaofei, who is running between the two sides of the strait, and cannot afford to pay for money, but cannot afford to pay for time. It is not easy for Big S to take the two babies alone, and they have made efforts for each other.
But marriage and human nature often cannot withstand too much suffering and testing. Even if today's communication is developed, you can meet and chat online at any time, but the gathering is less and more, and there is no real touch to get enough, which will inevitably lead to mutual suspicion and alienation, disputes and coldness, until the feelings change. Divorce must be the most profit-seeking compromise under the trade-off.
At first, I did not expect that in addition to harming people's health, the epidemic will also bring about various impacts. The pandemic is really going to change lives, it's going to change marriages. At this point, love or no love, all make people sigh.
People are middle-aged and no longer easily take sides because of emotional entanglements. After seeing the complexity of marriage and the depth of human nature, I began to feel that there must be a moral weakness in the occasional infidelity of married people, and a person who respects the strict self-discipline of his partner should definitely not make such mistakes. However, if only by occasionally missing a foot, a stick is beaten into the ranks of "moral corruption", it is inevitable that there will be bias. They are all ordinary bodies, mortal flesh, and it is really difficult to resist human nature.
In the interview with "Financial Appointment You", Wang Xiaofei also said that in the ten-year marriage with Big S, he has enjoyed the beauty of love and the warmth of his family, which is worth satisfying. At present, when he comes to the stage of fighting for his career, he will work hard.
"Life is a series of losses and gains", for Big S and Wang Xiaofei, the right and wrong disputes have passed, and they are still willing to bless them.
I wish Big S a happy companion to a pair of children and wish Wang Xiaofei a smooth career. Whether in Taipei or Beijing, live their own lives.