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He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

author:The duck is entertained

In the Chinese opera, He Zhengjun, who was handsome and handsome when he was young, has always been a general figure of "school grass".

As for how popular He Zhengjun is? Ni Dahong's remarks exposed how favored He Zhengjun was in the class.

"At that time, the girls in our class all ran to our dormitory. When I came back today, I saw Gong Li. Ming'er's first dormitory was Wu Yujuan. Yo, this is Kim Lily. Two days later, back to the dormitory, this is Shi Ke. ”
He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

He Zhengjun's peach blossom luck could not be stopped, even if he did not have the heart to fall in love, the girls who admired him still came to the door one by one.

Although the heavy homework when he was in college made He Zhengjun have no intention of falling in love, he has quietly liked Gong Li in his heart.

This made ni dahong and Zhang Guangbei, good brothers in the same dormitory, envious and red-eyed.

But brothers can never be replaced by women.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

In the preparatory stage of "Bright Sword", when the casting just began, the role of "Zhao Gang" was originally scheduled to be He Zhengjun's good brother Zhang Guangbei.

He Zhengjun found Zhang Guangbei, Zhang Guangbei saw that the good brother was so determined to star, coupled with the low salary given by this drama, the conditions were extremely difficult, He Zhengjun was so insistent that there must be his own reasons, so he did not say a word and gave up the role to He Zhengjun.

Later, in the interview, when the reporter asked why He Zhengjun insisted on performing "Bright Sword", He Zhengjun told reporters:

"Because my father was a soldier, he never praised me, and I wanted to use Bright Sword to show my father that my original choice was correct."

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

Before the death of He Zhengjun's father, although the relationship between father and son was eased through "Bright Sword".

However, the death of his father still became an indelible pain in He Zhengjun's heart.

Fortunately, at this time, He Zhengjun's "first love" appeared, which soothed the pain in He Zhengjun's heart.

01 He Zhengjun insisted on learning to perform, resulting in the breakdown of the father-son relationship

In 1962, He Zhengjun fell to the ground in a military family in Chengdu.

The "traditional school" is the educational philosophy of He Zhengjun's father, who has always believed in "filial piety under the stick".

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

For He Zhengjun, "militarized management" was implemented from an early age.

Such a strict way of education, fortunately, He Zhengjun himself is an honest child, so there is no "resistance".

When He Zhengjun was very young, he was often "beaten" because he was lazy in the morning and did not get up to run exercises.

But He Zhengjun's results were very good, which made his father very worry-free.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

After completing the homework, he also took the initiative to undertake simple farm work.

At this time, He Zhengjun still made his father very satisfied.

After He Zhengjun grew up slowly, He Zhengjun, who was deeply influenced by his father, came up with the idea of becoming a soldier.

He Zhengjun thought that his father, who was originally from the military, would support his decision.

But what I didn't expect was my father's strong opposition.

His father still hoped that He Zhengjun could go to a university or find an "iron rice bowl" job to spend his life in peace and stability.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

After all, the conditions for being a soldier are really too tough.

The well-behaved and obedient He Zhengjun still gave up the opportunity to become a soldier and returned to school.

At the age of 17, He Zhengjun graduated from high school.

At this time, the college entrance examination will be reopened, and the competition is extremely fierce.

He Zhengjun then took a different path and turned to the work of a "draftsman" in the Light Industry Bureau.

Because of the college entrance examination, the number of people who applied for the "iron rice bowl" that was originally fiercely competitive was less.

In this way, He Zhengjun successfully got the job of "draftsman" of the Light Industry Bureau.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

But He Zhengjun did not treat the job as "fun".

Know that working for the sake of work is an extremely painful thing.

In this way, the same work was repeated every day for 3 years, and although the work was stable, it was too static.

He Zhengjun's "rebellious period" came, and he violated his father's decision and resolutely resigned from the "iron rice bowl" job.

It just so happened that at this time, the Chinese opera was recruiting, He Zhengjun thought to himself, anyway, he had no hope of becoming a soldier, it was better to become an actor, after all, an actor can also play a soldier.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

His father did not know at that time that He Zhengjun was going to become an actor after quitting his job as an "iron rice bowl".

When He Zhengjun put the acceptance letter of the Chinese opera in front of his father, He Zhengjun's father was furious.

Raising his arm, he slapped He Zhengjun in the face.

"If you dare to go up, our father-son relationship will come to an end."

The young and vigorous He Zhengjun decided to go to Beijing for two reasons:

One is that he really loves acting; the other is that he wants to get out of his father's control and get real freedom.

He did not take his father's threat to heart, and walked into the door of the play alone with his bags.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

02 Although I regret missing Gong Li, Ni Dahong and Zhang Guangbei have brought too much happiness to He Zhengjun

College friendships are the easiest to build.

Here he meets Ni Dahong, who "steals hot sauce", and Zhang Beiguang, who changed the trajectory of his life.

The three of them ate and lived together and established a deep friendship.

He Zhengjun's personality is not only "mixed" among boys, but also especially popular among girls.

Every time I see various types of big beauties go to the bedroom to find He Zhengjun.

Both Ni Dahong and Zhang Guangbei would "beat up" He Zhengjun.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

But no matter how many people pursued it, He Zhengjun already had a heart to belong to at that time.

Gong Li's agile eyes, and even a smile, deeply attracted He Zhengjun.

But at that time, the schoolwork was very heavy, and He Zhengjun, who was in trouble with his family, had no financial resources, and he needed to use his spare time to do some part-time work to maintain his life, and he had no time to pursue Gong Li.

At that time, Gong Li needed to go to the countryside, and He Zhengjun, who knew the news, wanted to go to the station to send Gong Li.

But He Zhengjun is a hesitant character, and has been struggling with whether to send Gong Li.

He ran to find Gong Lili's good sister Jin Lili in college, and Jin Lili encouraged him: Love will chase it.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

But it was all too late, and by the time He Zhengjun arrived at the station, Gong Li was already gone.

He Zhengjun also regretted missing the opportunity to fall in love with Gong Li.

Gong Li also liked He Zhengjun in her heart at that time, otherwise she would not have frequently run to He Zhengjun's bedroom to play.

But neither of them broke the window paper.

At a time when He Zhengjun did not have time to remember this love that had not begun.

He Zhengjun began a life of "fighting wits and courage" with Ni Dahong.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

At that time, in the dormitory, He Zhengjun was worshipped as the "head boss" because he had a bottle of hot sauce, and in that era, owning a bottle of hot sauce was like having a can of "baby".

For this bottle of hot sauce, Ni Dahong is a tiger.

But He Zhengjun put the bottle of hot sauce in the cabinet and put a lock on it.

Ni Dahong jumped up with Zhang Guangbei and tried to steal the hot sauce.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

They wanted to pry the lock, but they were afraid of being discovered by He Zhengjun.

The three "stinky cobblers", the three people led by Ni Dahong, thought of a "damage move".

They unloaded the wooden planks of He Zhengjun's cabinet, unloaded the wooden planks when they ate, and put them back after eating.

If you ask, was the last hot sauce incident discovered by He Zhengjun?

Ni Dahong said triumphantly, "No, he didn't find out." But I watched him hesitate, he was dangling the hot sauce bottle there, and he felt the hot sauce inside it evaporate a bit. But in fact, we ate. ”
He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

03 In order to repair the relationship between father and son, He Zhengjun "does not act without Zhao Gang"

The happy times of college always pass quickly, and He Zhengjun graduated.

After graduation, He Zhengjun was assigned to Shanghai Renyi.

Because of He Zhengjun's appearance as a "cream boy", he soon got the opportunity to perform on stage for the first time.

But at this time, the family called to tell He Zhengjun that his mother was dying.

After hearing this, He Zhengjun rushed home in a hurry, fortunately, he saw the last side of his mother.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

He Zhengjun's father lost his wife in his later years, and his body collapsed at once.

But his father was a face-loving man, and when He Zhengjun offered to go home and take care of him for a while, he did not hesitate to drive He Zhengjun back to Shanghai.

Since then, He Zhengjun's acting career has gradually improved.

One script after another was handed to He Zhengjun's eyes, but He Zhengjun was not too satisfied.

It wasn't until He Zhengjun saw the script of "Bright Sword" that his eyes lit up.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

He Zhengjun stayed up late to read through the script of "Bright Sword", and after reading the script, He Zhengjun stayed up all night and called the director early the next morning.

At that time, the director wanted He Zhengjun to play another role, because "Zhao Gang" had been handed over to Zhang Guangbei.

After listening, He Zhengjun immediately said that if he could play this role, he could even not be paid.

Seeing the director's hesitation, He Zhengjun told the director that he personally contacted Zhang Guangbei.

In fact, Zhang Guangbei has also been hesitant to play this role, after all, everyone is out to make money, the "Bright Sword" crew gave a low salary, the conditions are particularly difficult, why not be a smooth water, not to say that the role is let out.

But why is He Zhengjun so insistent on not acting out of "Zhao Gang"?

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

04 The death of his father is a lifelong regret of He Zhengjun

It turned out that his father was originally from the 129th Division, and it just so happened that the role of "Zhao Gang" was also from the 129th Division.

He wants his father to see it, and he hopes to use this role to mend the paternity.

When his father learned that he was going to play this role, he did call He Zhengjun.

He hoped that He Zhengjun could go to Taigu County to see where he had fought.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

He Zhengjun told his father that he was in Taigu County.

Fate is so indescribable.

Hearing this, He Zhengjun's father shed tears, and he told He Zhengjun that he must play this role well.

In fact, He Zhengjun's father wanted to revisit the old place, but at that time, his body could not withstand the long journey.

He Zhengjun's father never praised this son, but when "Bright Sword" was broadcast, He Zhengjun's father watched it over and over again.

Or called He Zhengjun and said: The performance is OK.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

After the broadcast of "Bright Sword", it became popular all over the country.

Repeatedly created the ratings miracle of the year.

With the soaring ratings of "Bright Sword", the image of "Commissar Zhao" has become more and more deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

There are also a lot of jokes.

Once, He Zhengjun parked improperly, and He Zhengjun, who happened to drive, encountered a traffic policeman who was preparing to post a note.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

When the traffic police saw that it was "Commissar Zhao", they dismissed the idea of sticking a note.

He Zhengjun told the traffic police that they should be treated equally, and after taking the ticket, they got into the car.

After getting on the bus, He Zhengjun looked at the ticket and cried and laughed, because the traffic police wrote their names as Commissar Zhao.

He Zhengjun was busy calling the traffic police and telling him: "Your list is wrong, my name is He Zhengjun, not He Political Commissar." ”
He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

In 2007, He Zhengjun's father's health was worse than a day.

But He Zhengjun, who is busy with work, does not have much time to accompany his father.

In September, He Zhengjun's father died.

He Zhengjun thought about his once strict father, who desperately wanted to escape from his father when he didn't understand things before.

But when his career was gradually improving and he had enough ability to prove to his father that his previous choice was correct, his father was gone.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

The son wants to raise and does not wait, which shows the infinite heartache in He Zhengjun's heart.

Although he Zhengjun's father was about to die, He Zhengjun was unable to accompany his father.

But there was a girl who quit her job to do filial piety instead of her father's bedside.

05 He Zhengjun and "first love" Fan Yu have been with him for 30 years

Time back to 1990, when He Zhengjun was in Yunnan, where he met his first love, Fan Yu.

At that time, the two were on the same scene, in the gap between filming, He Zhengjun was like a "child", circling Fan Yu every day.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

Drawing lessons from Gong Li's unbelieving relationship, He Zhengjun launched an "active attack" on Fan Yu this time.

But this is also the first time that He Zhengjun has chased a girl, and he does not understand the "routine" of chasing the goddess at all.

He could only talk to Fan Yu from time to time and brush up on the "sense of existence" in front of Fan Yu.

After three months of getting along, Fan Yu found that this man, although he did not understand romance, and did not have any flowers and intestines, honestly and dutifully, agreed to He Zhengjun's pursuit.

But the first love, because of the "killing" of this drama, was forced to start a long-distance relationship.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal
"At that time, I only had 40,000 yuan in my passbook, and as a result, I fell in love with her for two years, and the money was gone, and all was spent on long-distance telephone bills and transportation costs between the two places."

In that era when everything was developing rapidly, He Zhengjun finally encountered "porridge stewed in a small fire".

He Zhengjun and Fan Yu laughed and said that because they had spent on these things before, in order not to waste more money, they could only talk for two years and get married quickly.

So the two got married in a nine-square-meter single apartment.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

After the two get married, an interesting thing happens and they find it as if the gender between them has been "reversed".

He Zhengjun washed and cooked at home, and even did needlework, doing "women's work".

And Fan Yu, the big and small affairs of house decoration are all hands-on.

Soon after, the duo's daughter "He Hugo" fell to the ground.

Speaking of the name He Hugo, it can also be regarded as a great meaning, which means the fruit of the love between "He" and "Rain".
He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

After getting married and having children, He Zhengjun was even more "incomprehensible".

After filming and going home, Fan Yu said whether to leave the child in the care of the nanny, and we went out for a candlelit dinner.

As a result, He Zhengjun, who had a solid eye, came to say: "Meat and hemp."

This will not make the girls happy, which is also the main reason why Fan Yu never worries that He Zhengjun will cheat.

In addition, He Zhengjun also specially formulated a "wife instruction" for Fan Yu.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

This has led to speculation from the outside world that "Commissar Zhao" is a macho.

In fact, at the award ceremony, He Zhengjun read out the "Wife Instructions" formulated by himself in front of the national audience.

"Get up at 8:00 a.m. and remember to water the flowers before going to work. Be sure to sleep before 12 o'clock in the evening; eat regularly, be sure to eat full, and don't be afraid of gaining weight; review your homework; watch movies in your spare time; pray that your husband is out to be safe..."

After reading these words, He Zhengjun completely dispelled the audience's misunderstanding of him because of "machismo".

Netizens shouted: Good and considerate man, want to marry.

"No, I'm already married," he Zhengjun said to the vast number of "flower girl".

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

But achieving great things in your career means losing something.

No, He Hugo did not recognize He Zhengjun as a father.

Once, after He Zhengjun returned home after filming, He Hugo saw that he was not half happy.

Instead, he pulled Fan Yu aside and asked, "How did Daddy come back?" ”

This fairy tale, seemingly unintentional, poked directly into He Zhengjun's heart.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

Since then, He Zhengjun has reduced his filming time, and he does not want to repeat his childhood in his daughter without a heart-to-heart childhood with his father.

In the year of his daughter's college entrance examination, He Zhengjun pushed off all his work and concentrated on being a "book boy" for his daughter.

He contracted all his daughter's diet, because the school had to go to the evening for self-study, and He Zhengjun also bought a thermos bucket and went to deliver food to his daughter every day.

He Hugo is also carefully accompanied by He Zhengjun, and the relationship with He Zhengjun is getting closer and closer.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

06 Conclusion

Although his father had gone, he brought the greatest regret to He Zhengjun.

He played his father's favorite role to the extreme, although his father strongly opposed his own study of acting.

But the "Chinese father" is always hard-mouthed and soft-hearted, or he will not review "Bright Sword" over and over again.

In fact, a large part of He Zhengjun's personality comes from his father.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

It is said that children are a mirror for parents, and He Zhengjun is no exception.

A large part of He Zhengjun's upright and tenacious character comes from his father.

In the square of the Chengdu Museum, the hand mask of He Zhengjun's father was printed, and He Zhengjun would take his children to commemorate every time he met in Chengdu.

He Zhengjun also proved himself to his father in heaven and did not live up to his father's expectations, even if the profession of actor made his father dissatisfied, he still used the role to inherit the "mantle" of his father.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

From first love to marriage, He Zhengjun and Hugo have gone through 30 years.

From round-trip tickets to the "intimate person" next to the pillow today.

Although he was not good at words, he gave Fan Yu a full sense of security with his practical actions again and again.

When he felt that his daughter was estranged, in order to accompany her daughter, he pushed off most of his work.

He Zhengjun: After regretting missing Gong Li, he married his first love in a 9-square-meter rental house and fell in love for 30 years without scandal

He Zhengjun is honest and honest, and there are not as many flowers and intestines as the people in the cultural and entertainment circles.

In this era of rapid development, He Zhengjun is like a "small fire and slow-simmering porridge", working steadily and steadily, and there is no scandal after marriage.

Such a rare good man Fan Yu is really "marrying the right person".

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